BOYS SUCK!
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Women don't change men...............they have to do that on their own. If a woman tries too hard, it becomes nagging and that's when the man would rather be out than at home. Communication is one thing. The desire to change is another. Oh and marriage ain't gonna change it either.
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i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
yeah i dont understand all the HE IS CHEATING screamers. Give the guy a break not every man lies and cheats. I say if he only does it once a month or so give him his day or ask him if they can meet sooner. I also rage when my boyfriend rather stays up to play his stupid computer games then come to bed with me but hey what can you do. got to learn to live with it maybe make a set day and have a ladies night for you when he goes out :flowerforyou:
"what can you do?"
You can find a man who'd rather do you than play a video game..0 -
I think he may have a slight issue.
Smoking habit vs. intimate time with gorgeous girl.
Hmmm, really tough decision.
Not!!
You can either put up with that, fix him, or get out. I sincerely hope whichever you choose works out! (Actually, force fixing isn't really an option. I just kind of threw it in to make it sound nicer and less harsh. I'm all about being supportive, rather than negative). He's got to change on his own.0 -
Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
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i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
oh my god.
so first your like "HEY EVERYONE, MY BOYFRIENDS SUCKS! CAN YOU RELATE?"
everyones like "YEH, TOTALLY, GIRL HE SOUNDS LIKE A DOUCHE BY WHAT YOU SAID"
now your like "WHUT? OH HELL NO DID YALL JUS INSULT MA BF? SHAME ON YOU ALL FOR AGREEING WITH ME!"
so how much percentage wise to you think he is away from your perfect man?
Nice synopsis of the thread so far...
...and I bet I can guess where it goes in the next page I haven't read yet.
I thought you were going to bed Jof. LOL. Can't stay away can you?
Shut up.
My wife and I have had a *slight* disagreement about a few things over the past couple of days...but instead of posting about it in the MFP forums, we talked about how we felt tonight...
...but honestly, that didn't end well either, so maybe I should have taken it to the MFP forums instead. I'll try that next time. =P
Daww Jof. Well, if you're ever in need of advice, MPF is brimming with it. And I'll expect that when you ask us to relate and we all chime in, that you'll immediately change your mind and bash us for taking your side. Cuz thats what you do on these forums right?0 -
i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
yeah i dont understand all the HE IS CHEATING screamers. Give the guy a break not every man lies and cheats. I say if he only does it once a month or so give him his day or ask him if they can meet sooner. I also rage when my boyfriend rather stays up to play his stupid computer games then come to bed with me but hey what can you do. got to learn to live with it maybe make a set day and have a ladies night for you when he goes out :flowerforyou:
"what can you do?"
You can find a man who'd rather do you than play a video game..
lol no thanks i love him and he loves me but dosnt have to spend every breathing second of his life with me he is allowed to play with his friends since he is his own human being0 -
i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
yeah i dont understand all the HE IS CHEATING screamers. Give the guy a break not every man lies and cheats. I say if he only does it once a month or so give him his day or ask him if they can meet sooner. I also rage when my boyfriend rather stays up to play his stupid computer games then come to bed with me but hey what can you do. got to learn to live with it maybe make a set day and have a ladies night for you when he goes out :flowerforyou:
"what can you do?"
You can find a man who'd rather do you than play a video game..
Why not both?0 -
Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
I totally agree with this guy.
Your boyfriend, while probably a really nice guy, is taking you for granted. You need to give him a little wake-up call. Boys (and men) need that every once in a while to remind them of how awesome *we* are.
You are NOT a doormat, my dear.0 -
i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
It's amusing to me that you're now defending him in the same thread you made to put him on blast. People in my feed do this all the time, and then have to backtrack ... it gets so tiring. I feel like some people just don't know what they want.0 -
jump in the car with him..or say im going with you.
if he freaks out, I think its time for yall to find separate housing.0 -
I think he may have a slight issue.
Smoking habit vs. intimate time with gorgeous girl.
Hmmm, really tough decision.
Not!!
You can either put up with that, fix him, or get out. I sincerely hope whichever you choose works out! (Actually, force fixing isn't really an option. I just kind of threw it in to make it sound nicer and less harsh. I'm all about being supportive, rather than negative).
What if she's just really annoying and he wants to be away from her?
*Fixing them is never an option. It doesn't happen. You can talk about it, but you can't fix someone else. Offering that as an option is more hurtful than it is, uh, 'nice'.0 -
i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
yeah i dont understand all the HE IS CHEATING screamers. Give the guy a break not every man lies and cheats. I say if he only does it once a month or so give him his day or ask him if they can meet sooner. I also rage when my boyfriend rather stays up to play his stupid computer games then come to bed with me but hey what can you do. got to learn to live with it maybe make a set day and have a ladies night for you when he goes out :flowerforyou:
"what can you do?"
You can find a man who'd rather do you than play a video game..
Why not both?
I do mine while he plays his games.
Win-Win for both of us.0 -
If you aren't ok with how he is now I hope you aren't planning children in the future because it won't be fun doing it alone. His smoking could get worse yet.0
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Honestly? I am personally not into video games, and having a boyfriend who plays constantly would probably really annoy me. This is all part of finding someone you're a match with. I wouldn't mind dating someone who plays once in a while, but making a habit out of staying up late at night doing that, while I go to bed alone wouldn't work for me.i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
yeah i dont understand all the HE IS CHEATING screamers. Give the guy a break not every man lies and cheats. I say if he only does it once a month or so give him his day or ask him if they can meet sooner. I also rage when my boyfriend rather stays up to play his stupid computer games then come to bed with me but hey what can you do. got to learn to live with it maybe make a set day and have a ladies night for you when he goes out :flowerforyou:
"what can you do?"
You can find a man who'd rather do you than play a video game..
Why not both?0 -
i appreciate everyones comments, but to be honest nobody knows my relationship and I don't know anybody elses relationship.. We have a great relationship besides this and you may all think what you want but I know he is not cheating. He has changed ALOT since we first started dating.. He used to smoke way more and now he only does like once a month.. I literally got into the fight with him and came on here and typed out my feelings because i was upset.. of course i still am but you guys dont know our relationship and as much as everybody wants to assume hes cheating, there still are plenty of GOOD guys out there.. yes he is probably sitting at his friends house just playing music and possibly smoking not like other *kitten* who go out to bars and hit on every possible thing with 2 legs. but anyways.. really just wanted to vent quick and did not think people would say as much as they did..
oh my god.
so first your like "HEY EVERYONE, MY BOYFRIENDS SUCKS! CAN YOU RELATE?"
everyones like "YEH, TOTALLY, GIRL HE SOUNDS LIKE A DOUCHE BY WHAT YOU SAID"
now your like "WHUT? OH HELL NO DID YALL JUS INSULT MA BF? SHAME ON YOU ALL FOR AGREEING WITH ME!"
so how much percentage wise to you think he is away from your perfect man?
Nice synopsis of the thread so far...
...and I bet I can guess where it goes in the next page I haven't read yet.
I thought you were going to bed Jof. LOL. Can't stay away can you?
Shut up.
My wife and I have had a *slight* disagreement about a few things over the past couple of days...but instead of posting about it in the MFP forums, we talked about how we felt tonight...
...but honestly, that didn't end well either, so maybe I should have taken it to the MFP forums instead. I'll try that next time. =P
Daww Jof. Well, if you're ever in need of advice, MPF is brimming with it. And I'll expect that when you ask us to relate and we all chime in, that you'll immediately change your mind and bash us for taking your side. Cuz thats what you do on these forums right?
Indeed. I'll provide the barest of details, but lead everyone to the "obvious" conclusion...and when many agree with me, I'll flip tables while indignantly yelling that none of them actually know my relationship so there's no way they could possibly have anything meaningful to say about it.0 -
He could be related to Peter Pan and never grow up. What are your and his goals for the relationship? The same, or different.0
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Thanks for the fun folks. :flowerforyou:0
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Sometimes my boyfriend hops in the air and extends a leg while he farts, very dramatically.
If we can get along, anyone can.0 -
While it is not the best thing to do in a relationship to be out with the guys all night, I also don't think he's in the wrong. I know thats not the general consensus here but... he was (I'm assuming) like that when you met him. You would like him to change (not always a bad thing) but he's holding on to it.
I say ask him to come home after a certain time because you worry. Talk to him and ask him rather than tell him. If this thing is bothering you a LOT then I guess might be time to break up although since I personally have seen many bad relationship (hard drug users, women beater, good for nothing mooches, pimps etc) I'd say its a small thing to worry about.
Ask him to slowly decrease the amount of pot he's smoking since its not the best thing to do or maybe ask the friend to spend some time at your place but make sure the friend knows to leave home after a certain time.
ETA: The cheating accusations are downright disturbing and disgusting. I'm very glad that you don't think its cheating.0 -
Drop him quick. If he cant have a conversation about whats wrong and goes to his friends house thats a RED flag. Move on to someone else who might just be the one.0
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Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
Agree! :flowerforyou:0 -
Advice: Never post about relationships on MFP. Everyone thinks they know best.
BECAUSE THEY DO!:happy:0 -
Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
This!!0 -
I just have to vent for a second and I am wondering if anybody feels the same.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I love him very much but he does things that piss me off or drive me crazy and I can't take it! We live together and instead of coming to bed at night he goes over to his friends house.. It just bothers me like crazy! And thats not even all of it =[ Just feeling frustrated!
Just do yourself a favor and dump him now. He is just going to continue disappointing you. Having no one is better than having a loser chaining you to the floor. I was married to a loser for 10 years before I woke up and said "wait why am I putting up with this?' Don't waste another day. Pack up now and don't let him even try to talk you out of it.0 -
duh. get out. run. run like the freakin' wind. save yourself the increased pain and heartache later by bustin' out now.0
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Honestly? I am personally not into video games, and having a boyfriend who plays constantly would probably really annoy me. This is all part of finding someone you're a match with. I wouldn't mind dating someone who plays once in a while, but making a habit out of staying up late at night doing that, while I go to bed alone wouldn't work for me.
well we met in a video game about 4 yrs ago and i use to be quite into them as well but now that i changed my life and becoming more active i dont have time for them anymore and actually glad i am not hooked anymore. He still goes hiking and out with me and tries to come to bed sooner but he has his games thats how i met him and thats how he is and it rages me when he stays up but i love him so i look over it and trust me if i want to get busy with him he will turn it off.
To the OP if you love him talk to him that it bothers you and see if you guys can work something out together0 -
Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
That right there says it all.0 -
"His friend's house......"
Ask him what her cup size is and see how he reacts.0 -
thisStop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)0 -
this^^what was he like when you met him?
im guessing, pot smoking hangs out with his friends kinda guy.
so why do you expect him to change into what you want him to be? like automatically he should not want to smoke pot and do what you want him to do.
you are separate people, maybe he wants to hang out with his friend, any maybe you should talk to him about it and find a compromise.
you signed up with the guy, im pretty sure you knew what he was like, so either accept him the way he is and try to work on finding a middle ground together or
go find the guy you have in your head that you arn't dating. whos probably named chet and has no balls. tada!
find your dream guy, not some guy.
EDIT: I would never do that to my girl. shes too hot to sleep alone.0
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