FRs without messages
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Taunto has a good point. I once received a FR with the message "Hey, so ur a dominatrix?". Yes, I am a Dominatrix. No, I don't want to be friends with you based upon you finding that interesting.
Prepare to receive (another) billion or so of those.0 -
I don't really care, I'll accept pretty much any add. I figure there's always the delete button if either one of us changes our mind later on.0
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I don't accept if there's no message. I'm not good about deleting people even if they aren't a good fit so I try to be pretty picky about adding in the first place.0
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I like it when there's no message. Makes it a lot easier to just click "deny". Then I don't have to bother reading their profile or whatever else.0
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Taunto has a good point. I once received a FR with the message "Hey, so ur a dominatrix?". Yes, I am a Dominatrix. No, I don't want to be friends with you based upon you finding that interesting.
Prepare to receive (another) billion or so of those.0 -
Interesting mix of opinions! I like that. I guess it's not such a big deal if FRs don't have a message. I have to admit though, if I've seen the person in the forums and we share common goals or have other things in common, I will be inclined to accept even when there's no message. OMG, do I sound like a hypocrite now?0
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Taunto has a good point. I once received a FR with the message "Hey, so ur a dominatrix?". Yes, I am a Dominatrix. No, I don't want to be friends with you based upon you finding that interesting.
Prepare to receive (another) billion or so of those.
Sure you are0 -
Counting to see how many blank FR's I need to send today.0
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I'll add anyone as long as they have a pic and a profile that is somewhat filled out. But if they don't log in for a month, I delete them.0
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Man some of you guys require more of a litmus test to be friends on here than what is usually required in real life! Note justifying why, requirements on how often they log in, etc.0
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Taunto has a good point. I once received a FR with the message "Hey, so ur a dominatrix?". Yes, I am a Dominatrix. No, I don't want to be friends with you based upon you finding that interesting.
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I have been here for almost 4 years. I never send out friend requests and I rarely accept them. That's probably why I only have 8 friends. 2, of which, are my daughters.
I need to see a real interest to accept a request, and 99% iof the time I unfriend them later. Most of the people are just looking for a lot of "friends". I want to see something in common, unless you have big boobs. Then I'll accept just long enough to look at your profile pics.0 -
I don't accept any friend requests, however if I did I would rather them send a message with the request too.
strong e - brag0 -
here's how I handle it....
"I want to play a game......" \m/0 -
I don't require a message or an explanation of why they want to be friends............although I love it when they take the time to write one !0
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I don't mind getting FR without messages. Im not trying to inflate my ego by making you write an essay on why you wanna be my friend. Lets just be friends bro/broette0
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I only accept friend requests with messages.
Dirty messages.0 -
I'm not looking to garner a large friend list. Most of my friends on my (small) list are friends in real life, so I really don't want their posts/comments to get lost in the signal noise on the news feed. I have occasionally sent out a friend request when I've read something on the forums or blogs that resonated with me. In those cases I've sent a message letting these people know why I sent the request. I would like the same in return and those few requests I have accepted did attach a message.
My profile does mention my preference for a personal note and why. I'm really not trying to be snobby. I'm just more comfortable with a smaller group.0 -
I only accept friend requests with messages.
Dirty messages.
One time I slipped in a puddle. A muddy puddle. Be my friend?0 -
here's how I handle it....
"I want to play a game......" \m/
I you so much. Let's be friends! ({}) \m/ ({})
OP, I used to accept anyone, but once my FL got upward of 300 people, I had to start asking for a note because it's really hard to keep up with everyone, and I miss a lot. I declined 6 over the weekend that didn't have a note. It's the first line in my profile, kinda hard to miss with all the **** and ♥ ~*~ surrounding it! On the app, you do you have a space to write a message, but on the other end, I didn't know how to see the messages until I tapped on someone's username to see if I could look at their profile, and then it took me to their message.0
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