We are pleased to announce that as of March 4, 2025, an updated Rich Text Editor has been introduced in the MyFitnessPal Community. To learn more about the changes, please click here. We look forward to sharing this new feature with you!

Guys...How Many Dates?

iAMsmiling
iAMsmiling Posts: 2,394 Member
in Chit-Chat
So, how many dates are you willing to go on without sex before you decide it's time to move on?
«1

Replies

  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
    I would never go on a date with someone I haven't had sex with first.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Depends. If the girl is worth it and has a reason such as religion for waiting, I would wait as long as needed. But sexual chemistry is important to me in a relationship, so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    But if I was waiting because she seemed disinterested or I suspected she was using it to toy with me, I would friendzone her pretty quickly.
  • suv_hater
    suv_hater Posts: 374 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.
  • bloominheck
    bloominheck Posts: 869 Member
    Depends. If the girl is worth it and has a reason such as religion for waiting, I would wait as long as needed. But sexual chemistry is important to me in a relationship, so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    But if I was waiting because she seemed disinterested or I suspected she was using it to toy with me, I would friendzone her pretty quickly.



    :heart:
  • d9123
    d9123 Posts: 531 Member
    aboout 350
  • JUDDDing
    JUDDDing Posts: 1,367 Member
    One, but I'm pretty easy. ;)
  • katnohat
    katnohat Posts: 43 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Name one other thing.
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    I waited a while(maybe a month or more) for my girlfriend. We've been together 11 years.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Make out with fast

    Sleep with slow

    Gotta give the crazy time to percolate to the surface
  • IronAddict86
    IronAddict86 Posts: 708
    Doesn't bother me. The chase is one of the best parts. I love drawing out the teasing.

    Sex is great but without getting under someone's skin first I would be bored
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Name one other thing.

    Making kick *kitten* sammiches...duh :tongue:
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Name one other thing.
  • super_J73
    super_J73 Posts: 257 Member
    Doesn't bother me. The chase is one of the best parts. I love drawing out the teasing.

    Sex is great but without getting under someone's skin first I would be bored

    :smile: great answer!
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Name one other thing.

    Making kick *kitten* sammiches...duh :tongue:

    I prepare my own sammiches beforehand. :tongue:
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    Depends. If the girl is worth it and has a reason such as religion for waiting, I would wait as long as needed. But sexual chemistry is important to me in a relationship, so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    But if I was waiting because she seemed disinterested or I suspected she was using it to toy with me, I would friendzone her pretty quickly.

    totally broke up with a girl because of this reason.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Name one other thing.


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • DrCaspianDoll
    DrCaspianDoll Posts: 87 Member
    She is a rules' girl! I like! :flowerforyou:
  • AngelsFan91106
    AngelsFan91106 Posts: 111 Member

    so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    Well put. If you're the only one that's waiting now, even if it develops into a relationship, you will be waiting again later.
  • suv_hater
    suv_hater Posts: 374 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.
    Whoa, do you own a Jump to Conclusions mat? Sex is not even a big deal, which is why any guy will look for it someplace else if his main gal ain't giving it up. This is like nature's law or something.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    shortest time i knew someone before sex was 2 months. only have had one hook-up and most the time have had at least 3 dates. this was mainly due the the first person I had sex with being a total nut job. after that I was more careful.

    For me, I want my partner vetted before bedded. this is not a moral or judgey issue, just a personal choice. (cuz psycho scare me)
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Women are not entitled to relationships. What do I like look like, you put in sex, and out pops monogamy and money and rings or something? I will not be objectified like that. Am I some sort of relationship dispenser? How sexist.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    Seriously?

    1-3 dates usually.
  • d9123
    d9123 Posts: 531 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    jFgnn2Y.png
  • SmartAlec03211988
    SmartAlec03211988 Posts: 1,896 Member
    3 or 4.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.

    Women are not entitled to relationships. What do I like look like, you put in sex, and out pops monogamy and money and rings or something? I will not be objectified like that. Am I some sort of relationship dispenser? How sexist.

    ^^Brilliant.
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    I would say it depends on whether or not I'm being used as an ATM machine to get free movies, food, drinks, etc....
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Depends. If the girl is worth it and has a reason such as religion for waiting, I would wait as long as needed. But sexual chemistry is important to me in a relationship, so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    But if I was waiting because she seemed disinterested or I suspected she was using it to toy with me, I would friendzone her pretty quickly.

    totally broke up with a girl because of this reason.

    I am not a believer, but if the girl is, I would be willing to wait provided that I felt she was worth it.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    An infinite amount! I could care less how long it takes because I can get laid by another chick while still dating the other gal. And that is how dating (and marriage) works, ladies.

    Wow, I hope you're not serious, or you are a real *kitten*. Women are good for more than sex and you are not entitled to our bodies.
    Whoa, do you own a Jump to Conclusions mat? Sex is not even a big deal, which is why any guy will look for it someplace else if his main gal ain't giving it up. This is like nature's law or something.

    LOL. Good luck finding a woman who supports this view.
  • eatcleanNtraindirty
    eatcleanNtraindirty Posts: 444 Member
    Depends. If the girl is worth it and has a reason such as religion for waiting, I would wait as long as needed. But sexual chemistry is important to me in a relationship, so the waiting would need to be difficult for both of us.

    But if I was waiting because she seemed disinterested or I suspected she was using it to toy with me, I would friendzone her pretty quickly.

    Yep! This right here. Sexual chemistry is pretty important considering the frequency I need that filled. It would suck to get a month or two down the line when we have feelings involved and we take that next step of intimacy and she is a dead fish in bed!
This discussion has been closed.

Categories