Worst habit of a significant other (past or current)

Leaving crap laying everywhere! Soda bottles on the bedside table, food wrapers, his cig boxes/wrapper, laundry on the bathroom floor not the basket...4' away.

My wife will keep score if things she has done and act as if she is always winning. Example diaper changing I would do it 6 or 7 times in a row, she would do it once than next time claim "it's your turn I have been doing it all day". Different example in case people say she was in labor for hours she wins. Ok ok.... Before we even had kids. Dishes, as I cook all the meals of the week I am constantly having to clean the dishes night after night. And often her only defense is she just had to do the dishes. Never mind the fact that I usually have washed a few times since her last attempt at it.

My ex didn't wipe his backside properly and would leave stains in his boxers and even once on the bed :sick:

He is pretty awesome, to be fair. I think my only issue is that he doesn't "do" emotions very easily - I'm a dramatically emotional person and he looks at me with blank eyes sometimes - he does stable me out though.

Sums up my husband
Oh, I might want to add procrastination to the list.

Always and FOREVER playing computer games.

Quitting perfectly good jobs for no reason.

HAD to be smarter than everybody.

Still thinks that being a good dad is calling DS once a week for 10 minutes and taking him for a couple of days once a year (we live on opposite sides of the country).

Current... spending FOREVER in the toilet.... piking out of settling the babies- he will change nappies, deal with tantrums, make breakfast lunch and dinner but he will not settle them for bed.

Going from her Laptop to her Ipad to her Iphone...Non stop, Talking about work drama 24/7

After reading the post above, seems trivial! Procrastinating and snoring so duly a recent guest staing over thought the noise was a thunderstorm!

I mean she used to eat them but she grew out of that phase.about a week ago.Proud of you babe

spending her days off on the couch instead of doing something.

Me eating healthy her eating junk food

^^^This and trying to sabotage my healthier eating efforts and trust me I'm no super clean food freak, but come on a little effort!

I work a lot and most of the time he makes no effort to get something semi good for dinner even if the fridge is full but says instead "let's just get take out, you're coming home so late"

ETA:He's perpetually starting over so it's ok for him to cheat cuz he's starting again on Monday....grrr!

Skoal and spit bottles...blech.

Violence, end of story.

Cocaine, lots and lots of cocaine.

And that my friends, its why he is an ex.

I would say being selfish or just plain grumpy all the time. Definitely a happiness killer!

He is CONSTANTLY clearing his throat...or lightly coughing to clear his throat--I've tried EVERYTHING I can think of to discreetly help him...throat lozenges... poor guy...it must suck to constantly feel as if you need to clear your throat Oh, and the fact that I'll be speaking with him-looking him in the eye- and he says "huh?"...oh, that auditory processing delay of his is really nerve racking sometimes... Or, we will be having a conversation about something, and then 5-10 minutes later he asks me about what ever it was we were talking about, and I'm like "Um...we just talked about this 5 minutes ago...remember?" and he's like "huh?"....Oh dear...grant me patience!

My husband strips upon entering the house, like he is 5. and thinks the proper place to hang his clothes is on my dining room chair.

Yes, we are heading into counseling..............