I hate my my wedding dress now :(

jadermary
jadermary Posts: 105 Member
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I am getting married in 6 days and I just tried on my dress again and I hate how it looks! I had 3 fittings in the last 4-5 months and it seemed fine but I have lost about 15 lbs since the first fitting (the dress was snug when I bought it). Now the dress looks like a potato sack on me. I don't know why I am posting this really, I am just totally bummed about it. I thought losing weight and inches would make my wedding day better :sad:

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  • whitney_simpson
    whitney_simpson Posts: 77 Member
    the dress still looks beautiful just a little loose in the waist. Maybe you could try a sash to cinch it in make it fit a bit better. Hope is not lost. you still have time.
  • Alexandra289
    Alexandra289 Posts: 330 Member
    Agree with the above poster. Still looks fantastic!
  • jadermary
    jadermary Posts: 105 Member
    Thanks guys...I guess my expectations are just WAY higher than what they should be lol. I know there are bigger things to worry about, but I just need to vent about it. I spent so much money on it and just was really expecting I would still love it for the big day!
  • morticia16
    morticia16 Posts: 230 Member
    Personally, I really like your dress. It is beautiful and you will look beautiful.

    But I can relate. I'll let you in on a secret. When I got married I actually changed my wedding dress 2 weeks before the wedding. I was so sick of the one I bought in a timely and orderly manner way before the wedding, that I just simply changed my mind and got me a new one. Yeah, I know, not exactly the cheapest option but made me feel good.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    I think it's very pretty!
  • virginia65us
    virginia65us Posts: 106 Member
    I can't see the pictures, but if you're not happy with the fit, can't they nip it in just a little more? You still have a few days. Either way, once you have your hair and makeup done and your accessories on, it will all come together.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    the dress still looks beautiful just a little loose in the waist. Maybe you could try a sash to cinch it in make it fit a bit better. Hope is not lost. you still have time.

    Brillant idea. Love the dress
  • xxnellie146xx
    xxnellie146xx Posts: 996 Member
    The dress looks nice and you will be beautiful on your wedding day. If it's bumming you out though, maybe try adding as sash to the dress to help better define your waist.

    Congratulations on the wedding and weight loss :flowerforyou:
  • alladream
    alladream Posts: 261 Member
    I think it looks really nice, and the fabric looks beautiful. I personally never went for the trend of everythone stuffing themselves into strapless dresses that usually didn't flatter the people, so I am glad to see a different, more flattering style. I think that if you made it too slim/tight, it wouldn't fit as gracefully--
  • HestiaLavel
    HestiaLavel Posts: 7
    I think it looks great on you. You don't look like a potato sack in it a all. Congrats by the way!!:flowerforyou:
  • alladream
    alladream Posts: 261 Member
    I think it looks really nice, and the fabric looks beautiful. I personally never went for the trend of everyone stuffing themselves into strapless dresses that usually didn't flatter the people, so I am glad to see a different, more flattering style. I think that if you made it too slim/tight, it wouldn't fit as gracefully--
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member

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    dangit...oh well can't get the image to work

    Fixed it...the IMG has to be lower case :)

    It's a nice dress, but agree maybe a sash or something will make it what you want it to be
  • acpgee
    acpgee Posts: 7,995 Member
    It's very pretty. You should still be able to get it taken in a little. If the shop doesn't have a quick enough turn around time, try a local tailor.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I really like it. I agree with the sash idea.
  • runlilyrun
    runlilyrun Posts: 140
    I think it looks really nice, and the fabric looks beautiful. I personally never went for the trend of everythone stuffing themselves into strapless dresses that usually didn't flatter the people, so I am glad to see a different, more flattering style. I think that if you made it too slim/tight, it wouldn't fit as gracefully--

    Agreed - even after a massive wedding meal that dress will still look elegant and beautiful. A sash in the same colour as your bridesmaids' dresses might look nice if you wanted to cinch it in a little - or you could ask a seamstress to take it in a little just around the upper torso.
  • jadermary
    jadermary Posts: 105 Member
    I am going to look for a sash today! Thanks :) I actually have a waist that this dress does not show at all....I think that's what I don't like so maybe the sash would help...worth a shot. Oh and to the poster who bought another dress....I have thought about doing that all morning lol!
  • jadermary
    jadermary Posts: 105 Member
    Thanks Maria! Now I know how to post an image :)
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    You look stunning.
  • chooriyah
    chooriyah Posts: 469 Member
    Tailor? Friend who is nifty with a sewing machine? Any shop that does alterations?

    It's beautiful, and I agree with other posters that a sash could make a big difference, though you don't want it to look bunched up.

    Congrats! I'm sure you will have a lovely day. I do support you working something out though - probably an obvious thing to say but you are the center of attention more than any other day in your life, so it's important to feel comfortable and feel like you look good!
  • retiree2006
    retiree2006 Posts: 951 Member
    Your dress is absolutely beautiful. Good suggestions about a sash or taking in. I can see why you fell in love with this dress and your weight loss should be celebrated and not upsetting. You can adjust the dress...but would you really be happier if you still had those 16 lbs.? Here's to a beautiful bride! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • retiree2006
    retiree2006 Posts: 951 Member
    By the way, post another picture after you've solved the "problem".
  • cococa
    cococa Posts: 122 Member
    You look beautiful in your dress and all that matters is that you enjoy your day with the person you love most!

    I understand your stress though. I'm getting married next April, and I'm considering buying a dress closer to the wedding just to minimize the risk of it not fitting later. I'm planning on something non-traditional, so I shouldn't have to stick to the recommended time-line. Ah, we'll see.

    I hope you have a beautiful wedding and a wonderful marriage. Congrats!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    I think it looks really nice, and the fabric looks beautiful. I personally never went for the trend of everythone stuffing themselves into strapless dresses that usually didn't flatter the people, so I am glad to see a different, more flattering style. I think that if you made it too slim/tight, it wouldn't fit as gracefully--

    Agreed - even after a massive wedding meal that dress will still look elegant and beautiful. A sash in the same colour as your bridesmaids' dresses might look nice if you wanted to cinch it in a little - or you could ask a seamstress to take it in a little just around the upper torso.


    Agree.
    Your jewelry/accessories will really add to your look as well.
    Your wedding is about your marriage to a wonderful man.:heart:
    Focus on him and all your loving, supportive friends and family. :flowerforyou:
  • 88meli88
    88meli88 Posts: 238 Member
    dress looks awesome. I love the shape and the fabric. your totally do have a waist. Bc you have lost weight, the dress hangs so elegantly. so lovely....i think it is just all in your head ( i meant that in a nice way :) forget abotu the dress and go have fun. Weddings are supposed to be fun.....enjoy and kiss your hubby lots
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    It's gorgeous. You're going to be a stunning bride.

    I also think the sash is a great idea.
  • MyJourney1960
    MyJourney1960 Posts: 1,133 Member
    what a beautiful dress! and you look wonderful - i love the way the dress flows!

    I do understand what you are saying and i understand why you hate it but it really looks good.

    I wish you a beautiful wedding to the person you love, and a wonderful life together.
  • cmakerr
    cmakerr Posts: 1
    Don't let the dress distract you. It is elegant. Stay focused on what is really important. You and your lover are committing your hearts to each other. That is a miracle. The dress will be forgotten in a few months. The purity of your promise will last a life-time and bless your friends and the children you bring into the world. Your lover will be looking into your eyes to see your love and express his love, not at how well the dress fits.
  • jadermary
    jadermary Posts: 105 Member
    This is what it looked like the day I bought it...a little tight in the hips but perfect everywhere else. Now my butt is smaller and my waist is a lot smaller. It's really too bad we can't choose where we want to lose weight haha!

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  • jadermary
    jadermary Posts: 105 Member
    Thanks everyone! It really does help hearing the positive aspects of it! I do love the fabric and how elegant it is :) I'm so glad I posted! :heart:
  • heweiland
    heweiland Posts: 42
    Your dress is absolutely beautiful. Good suggestions about a sash or taking in. I can see why you fell in love with this dress and your weight loss should be celebrated and not upsetting. You can adjust the dress...but would you really be happier if you still had those 16 lbs.? Here's to a beautiful bride! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

    100% agree :smile: You look beautiful, and would love to see another picture once you have decided what to do! Congratulations on your big day! :heart:

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