I am gay ? NOT

79hotlips79
79hotlips79 Posts: 91
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Okay I find other woman very attractive, I have never FOOLED around with another woman, but I have kissed many female, on "Truth or dares" basis, I also am Married of 10 years and have a man that I love so much.... OPINIONS???/
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  • JeffseekingV
    JeffseekingV Posts: 3,165 Member
    Well that made my hot and bothered. Everything but the married part. LOL.

    I think you are just very secure in your sexuality. Nothing wrong with that from where I stand

    And one more thing.. moley! haha
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    Opinions on what? If you're gay? If you are attracted sexually to other women, as in you would like to touch their vagina or have them touch your vagina, then you are certainly not straight. This does not mean you are gay.


    For christ's sake.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    You could be bisexual and there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. It's the best of both worlds. If you desire to see female and male anatomy what's the big deal?

    Think of sexuality like a scale some people are on one end of the scale only attracted to the opposite sex and other's are only attracted to the same sex. Then there are the blessed few who are right in the middle.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Who cares?
  • JeffseekingV
    JeffseekingV Posts: 3,165 Member
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  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    I've kissed girls for protesting reasons. And once because I was drunk. That was exciting.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Bisexual is exactly as it implies, that there is physical/sexual attraction or interest.

    Gay is actually a lifestyle and deeper preference for the same sex, abstaining from (having no interest in) the opposite sex.

    So you are Bi. Which is really cool and trendy these days.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    You could be bisexual or just be admiring the female character.
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    I've kissed girls for protesting reasons.

    What exactly were you "protesting"?
  • sara0ann
    sara0ann Posts: 57 Member
    Bicurious
  • LMT2012
    LMT2012 Posts: 697 Member
    Divisive thread is divisive. My answer is that unless you get all aflutter at the idea of mooning across a candlelit dinner at a member of the same sex, you are not gay. Anything else is just sexy/sexual behavior.:drinker:
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Seriously? You are asking a bunch of people you have never met to define your sexuality for you? Doesn't anyone just figure things out on their own, anymore?
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Haha I would think you're bicurious/bisexual. It's a trend these days. As for me? I wouldn't say I'm interested in females sexually, but it's interesting to think about how kissing a female would feel (no offense!) >.<
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    I've kissed girls for protesting reasons. And once because I was drunk. That was exciting.

    IDK what you were protesting, but come over here and protest it <3


    Also, for the record in case anyone thinks I actually give a flying turd about anyone's sexual orientation...I do not.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    You kissed another girl? Does that even turn heads anymore? Its no big deal. If I were husband? HIGH FIVE!
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    Seriously? You are asking a bunch of people you have never met to define your sexuality for you? Doesn't anyone just figure things out on their own, anymore?

    She could at least Google it.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    seems to me you are lacking serious attention from whatever sex, if you need to post this here.
  • 79hotlips79
    79hotlips79 Posts: 91
    Im married of ten years, have found woman :cute: Not sure I can pull the plug, but in my mind its hot lol
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    I just...I don't...I am so unable to even.
  • erulasse
    erulasse Posts: 141 Member
    If you've been married 10 years, then one can assume you are at LEAST 26... If you don't know by now... :frown:
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Well this certainly wins asinine thread of the day. Congrats OP!
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    Not sure I can pull the plug, but in my mind its hot lol

    Give me a moment with this visual.............
  • ladyark
    ladyark Posts: 1,101 Member
    I dont see what the issue is.....whether you like men, women or both....as long as no one gets hurt and you enjoy it, go for it. Ive always told my husband....i love you and i have no plans to leave you but, if there is a woman i am attracted to and the feeling is mutual you better believe i will enjoy myself. Its not a bad thing if you have honesty and its not a bad thing to be curious...
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    What's the point of this? To be titillating? Try to stir biases? Are you insecure with your sexuality?

    Do a bunch of Internet strangers really need to discuss your sexuality?
  • 79hotlips79
    79hotlips79 Posts: 91
    Well this certainly wins asinine thread of the day. Congrats OP!

    Hopping babe LOL
  • erulasse
    erulasse Posts: 141 Member
    And as for finding women cute? Women ARE cute... They're generally very nice to look at. The female form is beautiful.
    Unless you want to stick your fingers in it; you're not gay.

    (Sorry for the visuals) :laugh:
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    I think the word you are looking for is hot.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Unless you want to stick your fingers in it; you're not gay.

    Sorry but that is so NOT true.

    OP: I'd say you're bi-curious not gay or bisexual. If you were/are truly bisexual that means you are comfortable being in a relationship with either a man or a woman. It doesn't sound like that's the case. If you're merely attracted to women and just want to kiss and/or fool around with them then you're bi-curious.

    Either way it shouldn't matter. Just be whoever it is you are.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    Okay I find other woman very attractive, I have never FOOLED around with another woman, but I have kissed many female, on "Truth or dares" basis, I also am Married of 10 years and have a man that I love so much.... OPINIONS???/

    If he finds out you got some other woman pregnant he's going to be pissed.
  • Nightterror218
    Nightterror218 Posts: 375 Member
    obviously you are not that into girls or else your husband would have had a 3 some by now
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