PMS and Binge Eating - real or just an excuse?

I disagree that overeating during PMS is just an excuse. I, personally, do not really get cravings at all during TOM. I sometimes crave sweets a bit more, but nothing drastic that I see as a detriment to my diet. HOWEVER, I am SO MUCH HUNGRIER during TOM than any other time of the month. Now, I certainly can "control" what I put in my mouth and choose not to eat when I'm hungry. However, to be ravenous all the time is really not fun, as I'm sure a lot of us have experienced. I agree with others who say that each body is different and to say that anyone is using PMS as an excuse is being judgmental. I mean, who is to say what another person is experiencing? Besides, if they ARE using it as an excuse, it's only hurting them.

Your original post about the doctor said that he claimed PMS doesn't cause mood changes and you agreed with him. Then you said PMS causes mood changes. Which do you believe?

As far as using PMS as an "excuse" to overeat, I repeat: Until you have lived in another woman's body and experienced what she experiences, YOU ARE BEING JUDGMENTAL AND RUDE.

I have like one day where I have a chocolate binge and then I'll be grand for the rest. I just view it as a treat and try not to have it too often (althought I need to get back on track right now)

CHOCOLATE OFTEN SOUND SUPER GOOD WHEN I'M PRE-MENSTRUAL

Else, I am not hungry at all for the whole day.

Even if I dont have chocolate handy, I wont feel like eating anything else and have to literally shove food down my mouth!!

I don't buy into the "I have PMS so I just ate 5,000 calories!" theories floating around. Yes, when I get PMS I get cravings for salty and sweet things. I crave food with those tastes. HOWEVER, I still manage to keep control of the AMOUNT of those sweet and salty foods I'm eating.

I think overeating and blaming it on PMS is wrong. We should have more control over it than some women like to believe. It shouldn't be an excuse to eat way too much.

I'd like to hear from other women about this topic. All replies are welcome.

My experience is A, so if you say your experience is B, then you are just making excuses.

*eyeroll*

Until you live in another person's body, you can't have any idea what that person goes through at any given time.

I think you missed the entire point of the start of this thread. I said that I do not believe PMS is the cause for eating far too much food. I ALSO never said that my experience is the right and only experience. THIS IS WHY I ASKED FOR ALL REPLIES.

I think the "eyeroll" was a bit unnecessary. But, hey, what ev er.

You worded it better the second time:)
The first time I thought it sounded judgemental and ignorant to use words like "just an excuse" and " wrong"
It's easy to be judgemental, but I try not to (as best I can) unless I have truely lived in someone elses shoes.

MIT did a number of studies on serotonin levels for women in late luteal and pre-menstrual stages of their cycle. Some women just do not produce the same amount of serotonin as others...

"The Wurtmans discovered that an apparent deficiency in brain serotonin may cause individuals to suffer from unwanted weight gain, mood disorders and impulsivity.

People with carbohydrate-craving obesity, seasonal affective disorder (SADS), and PMS have serotonin, but it is "simply not enough or not active enough," Ms. Wurtman said.

The symptoms of inadequate or insufficient serotonin levels in women during their late-luteal, or premenstrual, phase can become highly disruptive to normal functioning, Ms. Wurtman said."

http://web.mit.edu/newsoffice/1997/pms.html

So when you say "its in your head" You are sort of right, it is about brain chemistry. But its about as useful as telling someone with depression to just get over it. While a lot of people can improve their brain chemistry over time with diet, exercise and medication no one is in complete, immediate control over the chemistry in their brain at every given moment. And if you think you are, then its the chemicals in your brain that make you feel that way. Everyone is a little different and I'm glad you have come to a balanced place where you do not suffer from these fluctuations. There are things we can all do to alleviate these problems if we have them but assuming they are made up, exaggerated or an excuse isn't a good place to start.

I definitely experience crazy hormonal fluctuations full of cravings and also emotions that are difficult to fight. When I was on the pill I didn't have to deal with that at all. It may not be an excuse to gorge on a dozen donuts in one sitting, but it sure does make things more difficult.

I am perimenapausal so my period can be all over the place. It's not that I get cravings for certain foods, but I get sooo hungry the week before I start. Sometimes it's the only way I know I'm about to start because I'm not always on a regular schedule anymore. I also get extremely thirsty for water. I'll wake up in the middle of the night needing to drink water. I'm not really sure why the hormone changes affect me this way. Every one is different in their hormone balance during this time so what you may feel is not going to be the same as what I feel. It's not an excuse, it's just how some of our bodies react. That's great that you can control your cravings. Personally, I'm not going to worry about controlling mine too much during that week because I really don't want to have that sensation of being hungry constantly all week. I'll just make good food choices that aren't high in calorie and go with it....

For me, I know when Aunt Flo's about to visit b/c of those sweet and salty cravings AND b/c i am hungrier than normal. I give myself a break during those times and don't beat myself up if i eat more than usual or over my calorie allowance. So far, I haven't "binged" or gone crazy, but I can understand that other women may do so b/c PMS is different in all of us, and it's recognized as real physical and emotional condition.

I don't buy into the "I have PMS so I just ate 5,000 calories!" theories floating around.

I don't think 'theory' means what you think it means.

Not to pile on, but this is exactly what I was thinking. That's a statement of fact. It will be either true or not true.

No I realize what you are actually saying is even if your hormones are going crazy you should just be strong and have willpower and all that jazz. But the thing is, hormones are hard to fight. When they are telling you to eat eat eat you have to find some way to work with that or you won't be able to concentrate on anything else. Somebody else mentioned gluten and I've been trying to limit wheat in my diet lately and I did find that this TOM was not too terrible cravings wise. I did eat 1/3 of a chocolate bar though.

Personally, I generally have a few days where I'm ravenous and a few where I"m not very hungry at all and will skip meals. So it kind of works out.

but I don't think hormonal levels cause an increase in the amount of foods we eat. That's still more within our control. When I am experiencing cravings,

I completely disagree. Be thankful it doesn't affect YOU in that way. I am normally quite satisfied on 1400-1600 or so calories a day. But for the day prior and 1-2 days of my period I could easily eat double that because I'm HUNGRY. It doesn't even have to be a specific craving for a specific things, and just drinking water does not fill me up. Granted, I could eat 3,000 calories of healthy food or 3,000 calories of potato chips and one of those might be a better choice. But I definitely need an increase of food for a few days.

I said that I do not believe PMS is the cause for eating far too much .

Sometimes there is no other reason.
Dehydrated?
Nope, drank 100oz.
Lacking minerals?
Nope, anticipated TOM and made it a point to take my supplements.
Poor eating?
Nope, stocked up on produce, ditched the crap.
Not enough exercise?
Nope, ran 10miles.
Not enough sleep?
Nope, got 6-7hours plus a nap.
Stressed?
Nope, things are actually wonderful.
Pre-menstral?
:sad: how did you know? I can't stop eating everything even though I super glued the fridge and pantry shut!

I liked this answer! Especially the last part. I will tell everyone tho, that after I gave up eating gluten, my PMS (and I am 48ish, hello menopause!) damn near disappeared off the face of the map. Even my husband told me it was like my "wheels fell off". I was suspect of the gluten/PMS relationship at first, but after several months of being gluten and basically PMS free, I realize now there is a strong correlation between those two things FOR MY SITUATION.

That's funny, I've had the complete opposite experience. My cramps have WAY lessened since going gluten free, however, my PMS has kicked up to epic proportions. It's bad for an entire week before I start my period. And, for the 2 days before I start, I cannot get full, no matter what I eat. And, I drink lots of water and I exercise, but my body just keeps asking for more food. I know that I control what goes into my mouth, but for me, the fact is that for 2 days before my period, I'm HUNGRY!

Just so we're clear, biologically a woman's BMR increases anywhere between 2-5% about 7-10 days prior to menstruation. http://www.fao.org/docrep/meeting/004/m2845e/m2845e00.htm
That is part of the physiological reason why women are so hungry in the week leading up to their period.

I find myself, like a lot of women, absolutely ravenous around that time. Not for sweets or anything in particular, just food in general. No it's not an excuse to eat candy or whatever in excess, but just know 1) it's normal to feel hungrier 2) you can eat more and 3) don't let OP or anyone else make you feel bad about that.

I think overeating and blaming it on PMS is wrong. We should have more control over it than some women like to believe. It shouldn't be an excuse to eat way too much.

I'd like to hear from other women about this topic. All replies are welcome.

I don't dismiss any woman's claim about how bad her PMS is, or how desperately urgent her cravings are, or how wild her moods are, etc. If you've been fortunate to not suffer with miserable periods, count your blessings. For years I suffered horribly and encountered too many doctors who were quick to ignore my symptoms. I eventually found a wonderful doctor & ended up having a complete hysterectomy. I no longer have to take narcotics every month, eat huge amounts of food, or want to kill anyone. Life is good for me now, but some women out there really suffer, and suggesting that they just "control themselves" is not helpful.

I think overeating and blaming it on PMS is wrong. We should have more control over it than some women like to believe. It shouldn't be an excuse to eat way too much.

I'd like to hear from other women about this topic. All replies are welcome.

I don't dismiss any woman's claim about how bad her PMS is, or how desperately urgent her cravings are, or how wild her moods are, etc. If you've been fortunate to not suffer with miserable periods, count your blessings. For years I suffered horribly and encountered too many doctors who were quick to ignore my symptoms. I eventually found a wonderful doctor & ended up having a complete hysterectomy. I no longer have to take narcotics every month, eat huge amounts of food, or want to kill anyone. Life is good for me now, but some women out there really suffer, and suggesting that they just "control themselves" is not helpful.

^ Yes! Thank you!