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    Someone thought I was hot... I'm offended!!

    Posts: 73
    edited January 27 in Chit-Chat
    It never ceases to amaze me the number of MFP members that are "offended" by people "hitting on them."

    Really?

    You created, then posted attractive "selfies" of yourself in a bathing suit , standing in front of your own mirror, with your own cell phone, because you, yourself, think you're hot... and you're morally outraged by people...who... agree with you??

    I mean, it's annoying enough when people get "bent-out-of-shape" when some, random, online person disagrees with one of their opinions... as in, "How DARE you not think the same things I do, about stuff..."

    But... it's a soul-crushing outrage when someone thinks you're attractive? Really? THIS is what has ruined your day?

    Discuss.



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    • Posts: 1,761 Member
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    • Posts: 73
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      Unrelated side-note... he is one of the greatest actors... ever.
    • Posts: 1,126 Member
      Sorry man not to take the A SS kisser route but I think allot of pictures you see like that are simply to document the path they have taken, or are taking in weight loss/maintenance/healthy choice living.


      But YES some are just fishing for attention. And I'm cool with that too.:happy:
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    • Posts: 1,234 Member
      I have worked hard for my body, hell yes I want to show it off and I would be willing to bet that most on here that have selfies are proud of their hard work.
    • Posts: 661 Member
      if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing
    • Posts: 603 Member
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      Unrelated side-note... he is one of the greatest actors... ever.

      Truth!
    • Posts: 73
      I have worked hard for my body, hell yes I want to show it off and I would be willing to bet that most on here that have selfies are proud of their hard work.
      So... are you offended when people think your hard work paid off??
    • Posts: 86 Member
      I get outraged when someone thinks my profile pic is hot or is trying to hit on me based on that picture, it's just WRONG!!!!
    • Posts: 875 Member
      if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing

      You're hot! Now do we get to see the vid of your dance?
    • Posts: 73
      I get outraged when someone thinks my profile pic is hot or is trying to hit on me based on that picture, it's just WRONG!!!!
      Once you go panda...
    • Posts: 86 Member
      if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing
      Oh you hot thing, you come here often? ;)
    • Posts: 379
      I would take it as a compliment.

      Unless it's something pervy like..."Please mail me your used granny panties?"
    • Posts: 1,234 Member
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      So... are you offended when people think your hard work paid off??

      Not at all.
    • Posts: 2,890 Member
      I have not been offended nearly enough! I'll be taking half naked selfies pronto like to post :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 57
      I think you misunderstand.

      It's not that women get offended that you think they're hot. It's what you do about it. Creeper messages are usually unwanted. So are FR's that tell you they want to be your friend because you're hot. Sometimes women want to be treated like people and friended because they are funny or engaging or whatever else.
    • Posts: 379
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      I've always been attracted to him. Maybe it is because I like gnomes?
    • Posts: 73
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      Not at all.
      Thus the premise of the OP. :wink:
    • Posts: 119
      This is a spin off of the "Married or Taken" thread. I recognise you OP :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 103 Member
      if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing

      Now that's a viral video I'd like to see! ;-) lol rawrrrrrr prrrrrrrr
    • Posts: 73
      I would take it as a compliment.

      Unless it's something pervy like..."Please mail me your used granny panties?"
      Exactly. One should use FedEx. Better tracking.
    • Posts: 1,126 Member
      I would take it as a compliment.

      Unless it's something pervy like..."Please mail me your used granny panties?"

      :tongue:
    • Posts: 1,206 Member
      I got called a hottie. True story.
      I was not offended.
    • Posts: 73
      This is a spin off of the "Married or Taken" thread. I recognise you OP :bigsmile:
      Shhh... Don't tell anyone.
    • Posts: 2,245 Member
      I guess it depends. Women want to be admired, not hit on by creepy guys. So "Hey, amazing progress. You look really hot" is probably ok. while "Hey sexy, I like that tattoo on your *kitten*" is maybe less okay.
    • Posts: 2,925 Member
      They are only offended when the person telling them they are hot is ugly.....fact

      In a related story, I was walking on the beach sporting a banana hammock and I walked past some people and a lady said "whoa look a nice big banana". I didn't know if I should LOL or call the cops. I turn around real fast and she was feeding her baby a banana. A piece of me died right there...I know, cool story bro
    • Posts: 590 Member
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      Now that's a viral video I'd like to see! ;-) lol rawrrrrrr prrrrrrrr

      haha!! agreed!!
    • Posts: 755 Member
      Some people are simply attention hogs who are not as hot as they think they are.

      Get over yourself... you are not the big deal you think you are just because you get hit on once or twice.

      Thats not over the top and no reason to let your vainity get in the way of reality. Your offended by a compliment? Go back to staring at yourself in the mirror.
    • Posts: 73
      I guess it depends. Women want to be admired, not hit on by creepy guys. So "Hey, amazing progress. You look really hot" is probably ok. while "Hey sexy, I like that tattoo on your *kitten*" is maybe less okay.

      Yet.. ponder this... why did she put the tattoo on her *kitten* in the first place? Discuss.
    • Posts: 107
      It completely depends on the context. If some random guy you've never even met walks up to you and is all "You're hot. Wanna have sex?" That's not okay. Talking to a girl like that is only okay if you know the girl and you have that type of relationship with her. From a random stranger...not okay. Creepy.

      If a random guy I've never met before tells me I'm attractive, or that I look nice, I'm pretty, etc etc....that's totally fine and I take it as a compliment. I'll even blush (because I blush quite easily). If you've never met me and tell me I have a nice rack and would like to get in my pants, please don't get offended if I take it upon myself to punch you in the face.
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