In YOUR opinion what is the "perfect" guy or girl?

m16shane
m16shane Posts: 393 Member
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Looks, Personality, Humor?
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  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    Looks, Personality, Humor?

    All.
    If you mean what is the most important trait. Personality, looks, humor. in that order, for me at least.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I think it would have to be humor, then personality, then looks for me. I can't date a guy that doesn't make me laugh.
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    I think it would have to be humor, then personality, then looks for me. I can't date a guy that doesn't make me laugh.

    So these abs are for nothing?
    I'm out of here.. Thanks Miss J.

    Stay safe guys.
  • RebeccaHite
    RebeccaHite Posts: 187 Member
    The one I got :happy: :blushing:
  • jenillawafer
    jenillawafer Posts: 426 Member
    Me, damn it.
  • BiscuitsNDavy
    BiscuitsNDavy Posts: 212 Member
    Non-pointy elbows
  • KnifeThrower89
    KnifeThrower89 Posts: 39
    How come few-to-none ever mention Intelligence? It must be an American thing, Looks Personality, humor is all cool too but if she's dumb as a rock . . . um no.

    I dated an american girl once, I was browsing the web and was like

    me: Hey cool, look babe there is a tutorial on how to make a Flame-thrower.

    Her: whats a flamethrower?

    I dumped her and moved on.

    If she is smart that is the biggy
  • K_Serz
    K_Serz Posts: 1,299 Member
    Looks, Personality, Humor?

    No such thing. We are human. No one is perfect.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I don't want perfect. I'm not perfect, and having to exist alongside someone who is (or tries to be) would just be exhausting.

    My "ideal" man is one who is honest ALWAYS, who keeps his word, who treats me with respect, who works hard, who doesn't quit at anything, who is kind, and who has goals and strives to achieve them. It's also nice if I find him so attractive that I have to make a concerted effort to restrain myself when I'm around him. But if he has all the previously mentioned qualities, he's already about 3/4 of the way to being that attractive to me.
  • PepperWorm
    PepperWorm Posts: 1,206
    Why does it matter what they look like? O_o

    An intelligent individual that matches my value system in most ways, challenges and supports me, understands empathy, trusts and respects me, and has a great sense of humor.

    I've already found him. :love:
  • danagolding
    danagolding Posts: 49
    My husband! He is so thoughtful, loving, sweet, caring, considerate, supportive, fun, hard working, smart, creative... well the list goes on so basically amazing! He loves me so much and is always looking for ways to make me happy. He treats me like a queen. He genuinely tells me how beautiful and sexy I am all the time. He makes goals but doesn't stop there, he goes out and accomplishes them and is always so encouraging and supportive in helping me to accomplish my goals and dreams. Plus he is super hot and sexy! Yeah, I got the perfect man; I love him!:heart::love:
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    height, personality, honesty, respect, sense of humor, supportive, wits, sarcasm...
  • LYNN8SUPERSTAR
    LYNN8SUPERSTAR Posts: 43
    Smart, great sense of humor, honest , well groomed, no sissy"s LOL!!:laugh:
  • megabyt23
    megabyt23 Posts: 580 Member
    honest, caring, easy to talk to, funny, ambitious, smart..........haha and looks don't necessarily matter all that much, but they don't hurt either.
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    one that is strong enough to pick me up and throw me up against a wall :blushing:
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    How come few-to-none ever mention Intelligence? It must be an American thing, Looks Personality, humor is all cool too but if she's dumb as a rock . . . um no.

    I dated an american girl once, I was browsing the web and was like

    me: Hey cool, look babe there is a tutorial on how to make a Flame-thrower.

    Her: whats a flamethrower?

    I dumped her and moved on.

    If she is smart that is the biggy

    7 people respond before your post. none mention intelligence, thus you infer that Americans don't care about intelligence.

    300+ million U.S. population. sample size 7 (or less) for your sweeping generalization.

    seems legit.
  • mrs_mab
    mrs_mab Posts: 1,024 Member
    I think looks are the initial attraction....at least it was when I met my man. I remember being introduced and walking into the room to meet him and thought to myself, "dang he's hawt!", then he stood up to shake my hand, and was 8 inches shorter than me and I thought "damn, he's short!" However, I am just under 6' so a lot of men are shorter than me, but I always said I'd never be able to date one. We went out anyway, and before we even got our food at dinner he had stole my heart with his amazing personality and hilarious sense of humor. I am a really big smart *kitten*, so it's important the person I am with can handle my snarkyness, luckily he is even more of a smart *kitten* than I am so it was a perfect match! Been together 20+ years now, it's AMAZING to be able to marry your best friend! :love: :heart:

    So I guess to answer your question.... for me, looks is what attracts first attention then personality & humor are a MUST, then of course follow that with honesty and loyalty! You can be the finest guy on earth, but if you're a douche and you can't make me laugh it'd never work! Same with women for me....you can be the hottest, fittest waitress at Hooters or the Kilt, but if you're a snobby, stuck-up b--ch your looks immediately diminish for me at least....
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    one that is strong enough to pick me up and throw me up against a wall :blushing:

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  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    one that is strong enough to pick me up and throw me up against a wall :blushing:

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    :laugh:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    Perfection is subjective. However my DW is mine because she's beautiful, intelligent and a really great mom to our DD. Nice boobs help too.

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  • megabyt23
    megabyt23 Posts: 580 Member
    How come few-to-none ever mention Intelligence? It must be an American thing, Looks Personality, humor is all cool too but if she's dumb as a rock . . . um no.

    I dated an american girl once, I was browsing the web and was like

    me: Hey cool, look babe there is a tutorial on how to make a Flame-thrower.

    Her: whats a flamethrower?

    I dumped her and moved on.

    If she is smart that is the biggy

    woah now...I didn't even read this post until after mine, and I did mention intelligence. That's offensive to insinuate that all Americans don't value intelligence because a few didn't put it in a post on a message board...or that you dated an idiot.
  • Amazonbella
    Amazonbella Posts: 338
    Well there is no such thing as "perfect" but I love to laugh so someone who is funny, who can carry on a conversation, someone who is taller than I am, who expresses himself in some way (ie: tattoo's, music, art) doesn't smoke, has a great teeth and likes puppies :) lol
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    My husband! He is so thoughtful, loving, sweet, caring, considerate, supportive, fun, hard working, smart, creative... well the list goes on so basically amazing! He loves me so much and is always looking for ways to make me happy. He treats me like a queen. He genuinely tells me how beautiful and sexy I am all the time. He makes goals but doesn't stop there, he goes out and accomplishes them and is always so encouraging and supportive in helping me to accomplish my goals and dreams. Plus he is super hot and sexy! Yeah, I got the perfect man; I love him!:heart::love:

    Are you married to my husband, too? LOL

    When I found the one who was perfect for me, I married him. Happier than I've ever been in my life. He has it all: intelligence, compassion, a sense of responsibility, passion, common sense, sense of humor, and he's handsome as hell. His priorities, spirituality, and life goals align with my own. He is the perfect match for me. We're not perfect, but we go perfectly together. <3
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    Humor, personality, looks aren't everything but I would, of course, need to be attracted to him, intelligent, knows how to be a gentleman, honest, have things in common, and let's be honest, they have to know their way around the bedroom.
  • mrs_mab
    mrs_mab Posts: 1,024 Member
    Humor, personality, looks aren't everything but I would, of course, need to be attracted to him, intelligent, knows how to be a gentleman, honest, have things in common, and let's be honest, they have to know their way around the bedroom.
    ABSOLUTELY....how on earth could I forget that last little tidbit! :bigsmile:
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    Humor, personality, looks aren't everything but I would, of course, need to be attracted to him, intelligent, knows how to be a gentleman, honest, have things in common, and let's be honest, they have to know their way around the bedroom.
    ABSOLUTELY....how on earth could I forget that last little tidbit! :bigsmile:

    Nothing worse than monotonously boring sex. :tongue:
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    Im funny so I would love for my partner to have a great sense of humor as well…

    Personality is a given…I don’t like *kitten*. I like reserved and sweet men…which are hard to come by these days.

    Looks….I have to be attracted to him in some way so yes, looks are important just as much.

    Other than that…I love a tall man, who can cook and cuddle like nobodys business.


    and p.s. I love to love....so if you love me right, you will have a bad *kitten* chick loving you right back :smile:

    and yes, Im that bad *kitten* chick :wink:
  • PomegranatePriestess
    PomegranatePriestess Posts: 2,455 Member
    Humor, personality, looks aren't everything but I would, of course, need to be attracted to him, intelligent, knows how to be a gentleman, honest, have things in common, and let's be honest, they have to know their way around the bedroom.
    ABSOLUTELY....how on earth could I forget that last little tidbit! :bigsmile:

    Nothing worse than monotonously boring sex. :tongue:

    That tidbit was subtly mentioned as "passion" in my description... and yes it is VITAL. Bedroom incompatibility is a deal-breaker.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    One with a HUGE... ...sense of humor?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    How come few-to-none ever mention Intelligence? It must be an American thing, Looks Personality, humor is all cool too but if she's dumb as a rock . . . um no.

    I dated an american girl once, I was browsing the web and was like

    me: Hey cool, look babe there is a tutorial on how to make a Flame-thrower.

    Her: whats a flamethrower?

    I dumped her and moved on.

    If she is smart that is the biggy

    7 people respond before your post. none mention intelligence, thus you infer that Americans don't care about intelligence.

    300+ million U.S. population. sample size 7 (or less) for your sweeping generalization.

    seems legit.

    ...and intelligent.

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