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    Ever loved somebody...

    Posts: 737 Member
    edited January 28 in Chit-Chat
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks

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    • Posts: 342 Member
      It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:
    • Posts: 376 Member
      It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:

      I may be a girl. But im in for drinks and the strip club!

      I think its happened to us all at least once!
    • Posts: 342 Member
      You're on. There's no better cure for a broken heart than getting drunk to see and bang a stripper.
    • Posts: 376 Member
      Not into girls but get me drunk enough and you never know :wink:
    • Posts: 1,710 Member
      Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
      Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
      Only once. But he's not a bad person.
      He has issues. Don't we all?
      I made the effort, after the dust settled, to be friends.
      I don't regret our time together.
      Hopefully, one day, he'll meet the right girl and get past this.
    • Posts: 1,785 Member
      Don't take it personally mate ... Some women have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on
    • Posts: 2,059 Member
      I've said it before, I'll say it again:

      Sometimes people just suck.
    • Posts: 1,710 Member
      Don't take it personally mate ... Some PEOPLE have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on
      fyp :smile:
    • Posts: 269 Member
      Don't take it personally mate ... Some women have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on

      This ^^
    • Posts: 2,900 Member
      I think it's probably happened to all of us. I've known both women and men who have serious commitment issues. If its meant to be, let her go and she'll come back around.
    • Posts: 770 Member
      "It's not you, it's me." kinda thing, huh. Just remember, it IS her. apparently she has issues. I guess you have to decide if you are going to hang around and hope that she works through them or cut your losses. Tough decision.
    • Posts: 737 Member
      Ain't that the truth
    • Posts: 1,146 Member
      It sucks but better to learn that in 2 months rather than 6 or 12 or so on....
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
      Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.
    • Posts: 730 Member
      Yep ..does indeed suck. I would cover a round at the strip club as well. Lite beer only! :)
    • Posts: 158 Member
      It's better to know that now than after you're married with kids... Thank goodness you dodged that bullet
    • Posts: 2,059 Member
      Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.

      Wow.
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
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      Wow.

      pity sex is in order! wear your HRM
    • Posts: 7,512 Member
      Yup happens...

      Let them go. Move on with your life. Nothing bothers a person more than knowing you can live a happy and fulfilling life without them.
    • Posts: 2,065 Member
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      pity sex is in order! wear your HRM

      10/10 for coping abilities
    • Posts: 3,945 Member
      Yeah. My husband of 19 years just left out of the blue for someone 15 years younger than he is. Totally blindsided.
    • Posts: 258 Member
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYHL6AYAwQU

      ETA: NSFW but made me laugh considering the subject matter.
    • Posts: 7,512 Member
      Yeah. My husband of 19 years just left out of the blue for someone 15 years younger than he is. Totally blindsided.

      I'm so very sorry. I believe in karma.
    • Posts: 2,059 Member
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      I'm so very sorry. I believe in karma.

      Exactly. Karma is a big ol' *****.
    • Posts: 1,265 Member
      Story of my life! This happened to me last year after dating a guy for over a year and he wanted to get married... I was the hesitant one and then one day he flips the switch and decides he's not ready to commit to our relationship and runs off and then two months later he comes back and talks to be about how he is a commitment phobe and has never even gotten engaged and he should have at least once by his age have wanted to ask someone... Made me realize how much of a waste of my life that was to like him...

      If you need a drinking/strip bar/club/bar buddy and you're in my town then lemme know. I am always down for it!
    • Posts: 23
      Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
      Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
      Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

      feeling sucks


      Yep! Feels like your heart has been ripped out and stomped on and handed back to you. It makes you question yourself and then it makes it hard to trust again. Don't let it deter you. Your soul mate is out there. I am waiting patiently on mine but I know he is out there so don't give up. Her loss!
    • Posts: 1,206 Member
      I agree with the sentiment that people do often suck. Those people rarely stop, so try not to look back or dwell too much.
    • Posts: 2,486 Member
      Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.
      :cry:
      *hugs and boobie squishes*
    • Posts: 6,664 Member
      Save some for me. :smooched:
    • Posts: 737 Member
      Never had this happen before. Does suck. Sorry to hear about all yours. Good to know your not alone.
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