This has nothing to do with anything PART 2

i am leaving him alone.

No you're not. You just called him last night. Give the man some space FFS.

If I were him I would've already asked for a restraining order against you.

At this point, you have two options.
1. Leave him alone.
2. Go to his house, propose marriage to him, and try to set the date for this Tuesday. He'll never speak to you again, and you'll get the closure that you desperately need.

why do you think hes doing this? to test me and see if ill listen this time?

I think he wants you to leave him alone and stop trying to talk to him. What is unclear about his wishes, this time?

I doubt he is testing you - he just doesn't want to talk to you right now.

OMG, leave the poor guy ALONE! This started because he asked you not to do something and then you did it anyway. You're making it WORSE because he has aksed you again not to do something (want to talk, keek fecking harassing him) and you are doing it ANYWAY!!

How about youstop thinking of yourself and ACTUALLY do what he has asked? If he dumps your *kitten*, it will be because you appear to be completely incapable of respecting his wishes and requests.

Seriously girl, go do something else other than obsess. This is crazy. You have waaaaaaaay overstepped the line and are a ultra clinger now.

I believe the phrase is "Stage 5 clinger"

I just guffawed. Thank you.

why do you think hes doing this? to test me and see if ill listen this time?

I think he wants you to leave him alone and stop trying to talk to him. What is unclear about his wishes, this time?

I doubt he is testing you - he just doesn't want to talk to you right now.

This.

My husband, my house's representative of his gender, said that guys don't usually throw out little tests like this. If your guy is asking that you chill out and leave him alone for a while, I think he is trying to tell you to chill out and leave him alone for a while. Give the guy some space. You're not helping your cause by continuing to pester him when he's asked you not to. I hope things work out for you, but for now you have to let him think this out or whatever it is he's doing with this cooling off period.

1. He's a man. They don't "test." He is doing this because he's upset and needs space. Men are very straight-forward. When they want you around, they call you. When they don't want you around, they don't call you. And feel blessed that he actually communicated to you that he needs some time and didn't just disappear. Leave him the hell alone.

This. A lot of women read into every little thing when most of the time, he means exactly what he said.

2. WHAT DID HE ACCIDENTALLY DO TO YOU?????

For the love of God this.



I know that myself and others joked on your other thread but really, I feel for you. I remember having those anxious feelings when fighting with a boyfriend when I was young. You need to step back, realize it is what it is. If he doesn't want you, there is nothing you can do. If he does, he will come back. The only thing you can do right now is give him the space he is asking for.
Call up a girlfriend. Plan something fun things for the next few days to take your mind off him. Try something new. Get out of the house and stop obsessing. You may even find that you enjoy things without him.

I missed part 1...

...and I have nothing meaningful to add to part 2.

Honestly, I don't even know what's going on...

...or why I'm even here.

So, best of luck...and stuff...with whatever is going on here.

I am so excited that this rolled over into a new thread.

Why are you ignoring our requests to know what he accidentally did to you?

i am leaving him alone.

This is all you can do. Just take a deep breath and keep busy. There is more to life than a boyfriend. Call your friends, hang out with your family or even do something alone like go to the movies. The more independent you learn to be the better partner you will make IMO.

But the problem is that she's not really leaving him alone. She couldn't even go a day without stopping by to leave candy at his house...and then she's calling him after that. She isn't leaving him be AT ALL.

And also....she needs to tell us what he accidentally did.

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OP seriously though...leaving him alone means ZERO contact. NONE. Not through friends, not through email not through notes and candy. I wish you the best for real but honestly it doesn't sound very good at this point.
OMG and could you please enlighten us what he did "accidentally" some people really want to know

I am so excited that this rolled over into a new thread.

Why are you ignoring our requests to know what he accidentally did to you?

For clarification, it didn't roll. OP made new post to see if the advice would change.

ETA: Damn, boxingkitt beat me :P

I am so excited that this rolled over into a new thread.

Why are you ignoring our requests to know what he accidentally did to you?

For clarification, it didn't roll. OP made new post to see if the advice would change.

Link to part 1? Or better, could someone make a quick Cliff's Notes of it to save me the trouble?

And also....she needs to tell us what he accidentally did.

she "accidentally" posted a picture of him and tagged him on instagram when he told her not to do it. after she had done it a lot.

i bet it wasn't a one time thing either. i bet he told her he doesn't want to be tagged on that multiple times, and he probably just had it.

Not what she did. We all know what she's doing. No, in Part 1 she said that he had done something accidentally...and since she forgave him for it, he should forgive her for constantly crossing his boundaries.