Girl trouble at work?

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  • ditditdee
    ditditdee Posts: 38 Member
    Blasted MFP screwing up mah comments and not letting me delete.
  • ditditdee
    ditditdee Posts: 38 Member
    No dating coworkers. Ever.
  • jenillawafer
    jenillawafer Posts: 426 Member
    Hey, does this rag smell of chloroform to you?
  • rosellasweet
    rosellasweet Posts: 163 Member
    Yeah...not a lot of difference between 20 year old me and 17 year old me. But as I'm approaching my mid-twenties, a lot has changed. Especially since graduating college.

    Anyway, this is about you not me. Dating someone at work and then breaking up, not fun. And if she wanted you so bad, she'd either be on the date or be naked. Have any of those happened yet?
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member


    1. She is 3 years younger than me

    She is 17, you are 20. That is statutory rape...isn't it? That is...if things physically went that far.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

    *I
    *boyfriends
    *you're

    You forgot:
    *their

    Nobody likes a show off.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member


    1. She is 3 years younger than me

    She is 17, you are 20. That is statutory rape...isn't it?
    Not in most states.

    And a date is not any kind of rape. It's just a date.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member


    1. She is 3 years younger than me

    She is 17, you are 20. That is statutory rape...isn't it?
    Not in most states.

    And a date is not any kind of rape. It's just a date.

    Edited my post-if it goes that far physically. I thought age of consent was 18 but...State laws I guess.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member


    1. She is 3 years younger than me

    She is 17, you are 20. That is statutory rape...isn't it?
    Not in most states.

    And a date is not any kind of rape. It's just a date.

    Edited my post-if it goes that far physically. I thought age of consent was 18 but...State laws I guess.
    In a lot of states, it's actually 16. In NY it's 17. I don't know state by state beyond that, though.
  • RivenV
    RivenV Posts: 1,667 Member
    when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

    lol_gif_by_smileyface102-d32rxgr.gif

    Still lolling over this.
  • Capt_Inzane
    Capt_Inzane Posts: 733 Member
    She probably shy. Approach her, explain how you feel and see if she just wants to hang out and talk. Once you feel like she's comfortable, hold her hand and say

    "I want you to ride my baloney pony until you get saddle sores"

    It works every time. I'm pretty sure.

    I lul'd hard
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    Sounds like you've been friend-zoned. Sorry.
    You work with her, so you're easily accessible to walk with or have lunch with if she doesn't have other plans.
  • labeachgirl
    labeachgirl Posts: 158 Member
    Wow. Ok, you win.

    On a completely urelated note, I just glanced at your profile and no worries -- you don't look 44! I would have guessed 20s from your profile photo. You're doing something right.

    I try to avoid drama. Its ages you.

    Thank you for the compliment. :smile:

    Wait...what?! I would've guessed you were in your 20s too.
  • ChristinaR720
    ChristinaR720 Posts: 1,186
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  • Bownzi
    Bownzi Posts: 423 Member
    I have a policy of not dating guys I work with, it's just a bad career move.

    That is smart nothing worse than things getting bad and you have to see that person everyday...
  • TribeHokie
    TribeHokie Posts: 711 Member
    Sounds like you've been friend-zoned. Sorry.
    You work with her, so you're easily accessible to walk with or have lunch with if she doesn't have other plans.

    Truth. Work husbands make excellent lunch buddies but you don't need them outside of the office.
  • deanjou59
    deanjou59 Posts: 737 Member
    If's she only 17 she's too young (in my opinion). Give it some time.

    I agree 100%.
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
    I have a policy of not dating guys I work with, it's just a bad career move.

    ^^This. Dont dip your pen in the company ink well. The second last company I worked for had a policy..."senior person gets fired".
  • 42hockeymom
    42hockeymom Posts: 521 Member
    when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature


    This little nugget of information is coming from the same Mensa member who said in another post that "everybody cheats" in this thread:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1037284-what-to-do-with-a-cheater

    I was impressed. :huh:
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    Wow. Ok, you win.

    On a completely urelated note, I just glanced at your profile and no worries -- you don't look 44! I would have guessed 20s from your profile photo. You're doing something right.

    I try to avoid drama. Its ages you.

    Thank you for the compliment. :smile:

    Thank you!

    Wait...what?! I would've guessed you were in your 20s too.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature


    This little nugget of information is coming from the same Mensa member who said in another post that "everybody cheats" in this thread:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1037284-what-to-do-with-a-cheater

    I was impressed. :huh:
    She also thinks pools are blue because people pee in them.
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
    Forgetting what this was about and seeing it in My Topics, I was trying to remember if this was a thread about keeping tampons in your desk drawer.
  • briannaaclark1
    briannaaclark1 Posts: 31
    I wouldnt necessarily say friendzoned, even though it may feel like it.
    Almost every time I like a guy, I avoid hanging out with him by making excuses. Don't ask me why, I don't know. Well, I guess mostly because I get nervous.

    So if you really like her, don't give up. My best boyfriend ever was a guy who pursued my stubborn butt.
  • 42hockeymom
    42hockeymom Posts: 521 Member
    when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature


    This little nugget of information is coming from the same Mensa member who said in another post that "everybody cheats" in this thread:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1037284-what-to-do-with-a-cheater

    I was impressed. :huh:
    She also thinks pools are blue because people pee in them.

    :laugh: :noway: :laugh: :noway:

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