Good guy!

You're either friends with a person or your not. If you're hanging around with someone pretending to be their friend when your intent is different and you are playing a game to see if you can eventually "win" them then you are missing it out and doing yourself and the objection of your affection a disservice.

truth. pretending to be my friend in order to get into my pants is NOT a nice thing to do.

You don't want the girls who are attracted to bad boys anyway

I'm just secretly a nice guy. Beware my inner creeper.

Don't try to be someone you are not just to get laid. For the most part, and this is a gross generalisation, in a thread full of generalisations, but the girls who prefer "bad boys" tend to thrive on drama.

Also, this behaviour is often outgrown.

Be the kind of person you can respect. You'll be happier.

Another desperate topic from poor old desperate runner, lol!

Is being a good guy really such a bad thing? Maybe I should be more creepy!! That seems to be the in thing around here!

I don't know any women or girls who like creepy men. I prefer a man who is not afraid to speak his mind and isn't afraid to go after what he wants. I like my men a little rugged. I guess I like the bad boys.

Another desperate topic from poor old desperate runner, lol!

Is being a good guy really such a bad thing? Maybe I should be more creepy!! That seems to be the in thing around here!

I don't know any women or girls who like creepy men. I prefer a man who is not afraid to speak his mind and isn't afraid to go after what he wants. I like my men a little rugged. I guess I like the bad boys.

Sounds to me like you want a confident man.

Sounds like you are trying to make things happen when they are not ready to happen. Life is only what make of what is given to you not want you try to force out of it. Those that think they go out and take. They do not take because they force they take because the opportunity has shown for them they didn't MAKE anything happen. Same will apply to you.

"Good Guy"



I cringe when I hear that term. Its so vague and non descriptive. It is like the term "clean eating".

What makes someone a good guy is pretty subjective isn't it? I am sure we can all agree on certain behaviours that are bad or good, but does exhibiting one or more of these bad traits make someone a "bad guy"? I dunno.

Even if we can all agree on what being a good guy means (impossible imo) then is that enough? I know "good guys" that are broke, boring and awkward.

I don't want to offend, but I think when people say "Why don't women like good guys?" they should really be asking themselves "What can I do to find a good woman?" Don't project your insecurities and stereotype all of woman kind. Look within and see if there is anything you could do to "get out there" more.

No, please don't become creepy! It's because of creeps that I'm staying away from the forums as much as possible. Nice / good guys *ARE* appreciated by many women!

In my experience, the guys good at getting girls are the one that have mastered the art of being 'creepy' .
The guys that scare the girls are the possibly more 'genuine' ones that aren't so practiced in manipulating emotions!

Me; sadly I generally know enough not to be the latter but not enough to be the former .

this thread is so full of emo.

this thread is so full of emo.

I am sorry....wasn't there a thread like this, with the same protagonists, with the same subject (creepiness) a few weeks ago?....

I am sorry....wasn't there a thread like this, with the same protagonists, with the same subject (creepiness) a few weeks ago?....

are you thinking about the one where the OP was accused of pm creepiness on multiple women?

The friend zone doesn't exist. It's a figment of your imagination.

You're either friends with a person or your not. If you're hanging around with someone pretending to be their friend when your intent is different and you are playing a game to see if you can eventually "win" them then you are missing it out and doing yourself and the objection of your affection a disservice.

Be a friend. A good friend. Friendship brings you some of the greatest, most beautiful blessings that life has to offer. Seek out other people who are attracted to you. However, you may find that during the course of people's lives that feelings change and the girl who once wanted to be your friend then wants to be more. Or not.

Don't hold yourselves back. Live. Keep growing. Accept the highs and the lows and one day you will find someone right for you.

I promise.

This person speaks the truth, yo.

And if you find yourself "friendzoned" and don't want to be - tell her. Be honest. Be honest. Be brave. And be willing to take care of yourself. If you find yourself giving more than you are able to, cut back.

Just don't sit there collecting resentments against her and everything else with a vagina. You're a grown man with the full capability to take care of yourself. Do so.

Well said! If being a good guy means being too passive to make a move or show interest, then yeah you're right, we generally don't want that. But you can be a good guy and still be assertive.

You don't want the girls who are attracted to bad boys anyway