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    Does he love me!?

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    • Posts: 31
      The whole, He stays with me, next month we'll move in together and im nervous...we will split the bills thing.. kinda took president over the whole paragraph lol..

      He lives with you, he's not paying rent, he hasn't said he loves you, he doesn't initiate sex for weeks. And somehow you're nervous about moving in with someone who already lives with you. And because you've fallen in love with him, it appears to you that he is super into you, and gazes and longs for you deeply lol

      Honestly that was way too long and what's the point of questioning/wondering just ask him.
    • Posts: 4,052 Member
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    • Posts: 4,323 Member
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      me too.

      rage.

      yet, somehow....we all manage to find each other in these little packets of fun. #greatmindsthinkalike #boobs
    • Posts: 1,710 Member
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      Depends on what hard times he fell on as per that whole mess. If you have to ask strangers then to me that's a red flag but you may just be treating us like your online diary and writing hearts n crap everywhere.
      ^^this man deserves a medal!

      and to the OP, i think you're being a mug. you'd give up the security of your own place to go halves with a man who pays no rent and professes no love? after five months? engage your common sense, girl!
    • Posts: 9
      Wow I can't believe how incredibly mean everyone has been on here. Thanks for those of you who took the time to really read and have good input. I appreciate it. I guess you just can't write about things online bec no one really can grasp the entire situation.
    • Posts: 693 Member
      Not even five months and you write all that? Chill.
      I wouldn't let him move in, you sound convenient for him and it might just be that.
    • Posts: 509 Member
      Two things:

      1) Most comments were related to your (lack of) proper writing style and could have been easily avoided.
      2) What kind of response did you expect? Did you really think total strangers would overwhelmingly approve of what is clearly an immature and seemingly one-sided relationship?
    • Posts: 1,625 Member
      I'm really sorry but all I took away from that is he stole your clothes, & pays no rent?.... As a side note I just got hit in the face by my palm :huh:
    • Posts: 1,243 Member
      @onetwopotato **** you're handsome

      This.

      And,



      ...wut?
    • Posts: 1,990 Member
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      love this guy!!!! too funny!
    • Posts: 18,878 Member
      Two things:

      1) Most comments were related to your (lack of) proper writing style and could have been easily avoided.
      2) What kind of response did you expect? Did you really think total strangers would overwhelmingly approve of what is clearly an immature and seemingly one-sided relationship?

      This. People really need to manage their expectations of faceless strangers a bit better.
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      i cried @ this caption
    • Posts: 471 Member
      How can you tell if he loves you so?....It's in his kiss :tongue:
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    • Posts: 9,487 Member
      Either loves you or loves that you pay the bills. I'm guessing the 2nd since you have to ask the internet.
    • Posts: 741 Member
      Are you really 25?

      My thoughts exactly.
    • Posts: 2,675 Member
      Only you can really answer this question... I think you know the answer. Search deep within for the truth. :smile:
    • Posts: 418 Member
      O_o 42
    • Posts: 291 Member
      TLDR use paragraphs.
    • Posts: 11,788 Member
      You should unfriend him on Facebook.
    • Posts: 331
      I think he really loves you. Really. No, im serious. Im serious. I mean it. He loves you. A great way to hear it said though is to start a lil foreplay and then ask him. If he doesnt answer you, get a lil more wild, then ask again. I think he loves you.
    • Posts: 546 Member
      I think I'd be nailing down just how much of the rent he's going to "split" with you before you move in with him. You may be thinking 50-50, but he maybe thinking 98-2 or 100-0.
    • Posts: 1,893 Member
      The real question is do you love him? or maybe Why don't you ask him? Communication is a brilliant thing for relationships.
    • Posts: 1,252 Member
      i vote for pulling the petals off of a daisy
    • Posts: 43 Member
      I stopped at "so"

      Me too!
    • Posts: 862 Member
      Seriously.

      Ok, I do not think he loves you. I think he's using you, and unfortunately you are a very easy mark. You've been dating for ALMOST 5 months, and he's been living with you for 2 of those months??? So 3 months after you started dating he moved in because he "fell on hard times"? That's pretty convenient right?

      C'mon! How does that sound like a good idea?? I bet if you had a daughter your age with the same story, you'd think she was CRAZY and you would do everything to get this guy out of her house.

      What you should do is this:

      1. Since he's working, he can go and find his own place. If he can't afford to do so, he should find a roommate (does he have any friends?) or move in with relatives until he's back on his feet.

      2. You stay where you are

      3. Go on real dates (restaurant, movies, theme park...etc) and stop getting drunk with him. I'm making quite an assumption here, but you mentioned being drunk with him twice in one very long paragraph, so I feel that I'm right on the money.

      There's nothing wrong with having a few drinks, but if that's all the entertainment that you two share together, then you might need to rethink this relationship.

      - Ask him if he loves you. If he says yes, then tell him your plan of action (stated above 1-3) and if he loves you he'll understand.
    • Posts: 548 Member
      If you need to ask random strangers on the internet if YOUR BOYFRIEND whom we've never spoken to or interacted with in any way is in love with you based on a list of couple-y things, then I think you need to really think about your relationship to determine whether you think it's based on lust or love. How much do you actually KNOW about this guy? It sounded a tad middle-school. Obviously you're both still in that "honeymoon" stage in a relationship, so of course everything is roses and sunshine. You'll know if he loves you or not when you move in together and both of you find a way not to rip each other's heads off!

      Good luck, and don't ask for anyone elses opinion about your life. Only you can know!:flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 88 Member
      I felt like I was being tortured reading your 'paragraph'. However, I realized that I was actually being rewarded. So many AWESOME responses. I serioulsy can't stop laughing...
    • Posts: 340
      I remember that line being used in Scrubs (the whole 'crazyness' thing)

      Anyways.... all that you have just blurbed on here.. do that to him, in a really high shrill voice

      LET OUT THA CRAZYYYYYYYYYY


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    • Posts: 2,065 Member
      omg paragraphs.. I can see this from a bunch of teenagers but come on!! You wanted to take it slow yet your dating multiple guys.. ugh.. I know guys that are attached to their girls hips like this sounds like.. My advice, get a month by month lease.
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