talking to other people on KIK

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  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
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    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.
    but...but...what if there's a hot dude (or chick) on the tv? My husband will get all jealous that I'm looking!

    no, no he won't. We'll probably make out, instead.
  • ashleyShades
    ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
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    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    bahaha
  • RedHeadDevotchka
    RedHeadDevotchka Posts: 1,394 Member
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    Really? I talk to everybody All the time...Facebook, text, and even in person, gasp! Keep it friendly and there's no issue. My husband can be very jealous so I don't tell him everything and I don't feel bad becuse I know my intentions aren't bad. If it feels wrong to you then it probably is. And that boys and girls is my guiding principle on the matter.
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    boobs_galore

    HMU with the noodz

    Lmao...... only for you kitteh
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
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    This thread needs more kitteh gifs.

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  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
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    This is a tough one - I think that it depends on who they are talking to - their best friend from elementary school who is also married with 10 kids - no problem. If it is the hot lawyer in the next office with the Barbie like figure who is single and hot for your SO- BIG PROBLEM. There are no hard and fast rules that I think apply here - except the "do unto others" rule. If he knows you won't he shouldn't. If he would want you to KIK with the big hunk in the next office who just broke up with his girlfriend and needs a "shoulder to lean on" then he can go ahead... my guess is he would not want such a thing and if he does then that is a thing that should make you go "hmmm..."
  • ashleyShades
    ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
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    Sorry, KIK was just an example. To me, people use KIK (or other messenger services) to talk to people they do not know in real life. For example, if you used KIK to talk to someone you didn't know in real life then you wouldn't give more personal information out (phone number, email address)
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
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    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    You. I like you.
    Hey girl. Wanna kik with me?? :wink:
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,324 Member
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    If you are a woman married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your kitchen and make sandwiches because you know, your man might be hungry or something.

    fixed.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,042 Member
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    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    Yep ... I'm pretty sure this was included in our vows ... "love, honor, stop talking to any other humans ..."
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
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    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    Yep ... I'm pretty sure this was included in our vows ... "love, honor, stop talking to any other humans ..."

    It was in yours too? Damn. I thought that was something special that my wife and I wrote together.
  • jmc0806
    jmc0806 Posts: 1,444 Member
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    This thread needs more kitteh gifs.

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    hey! you got Dr. Evil's sharks with freaking laser beams on their head!
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    So. For me? No big deal. If they are talking so what? You want to gag them and lock them in the basement? If they're sharing pics? Really, again not that big a deal (in other words, so what?). There's not much difference in that and looking at porn (which again is no big deal). I'm confident enough in myself that it doesn't bother me and I'm not naive enough to think that they aren't going to do it if they want to and I don't want them to. As an adult, I feel that sometimes ppl need friends outside of their S O and ppl in a relationship sometimes need a little spice or fantasy to get things going. If you're having an issue on something like this, as earlier stated in this thread, maybe the root of the trust problem lies deeper.
  • CajunTexan33
    CajunTexan33 Posts: 76 Member
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    bwahahahahahahah awesome....
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
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    So. For me? No big deal. If they are talking so what? You want to gag them and lock them in the basement? If they're sharing pics? Really, again not that big a deal (in other words, so what?). There's not much difference in that and looking at porn (which again is no big deal). I'm confident enough in myself that it doesn't bother me and I'm not naive enough to think that they aren't going to do it if they want to and I don't want them to. As an adult, I feel that sometimes ppl need friends outside of their S O and ppl in a relationship sometimes need a little spice or fantasy to get things going. If you're having an issue on something like this, as earlier stated in this thread, maybe the root of the trust problem lies deeper.

    I'm sending you tit pics right now.
  • ashleyShades
    ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
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    So. For me? No big deal. If they are talking so what? You want to gag them and lock them in the basement? If they're sharing pics? Really, again not that big a deal (in other words, so what?). There's not much difference in that and looking at porn (which again is no big deal). I'm confident enough in myself that it doesn't bother me and I'm not naive enough to think that they aren't going to do it if they want to and I don't want them to. As an adult, I feel that sometimes ppl need friends outside of their S O and ppl in a relationship sometimes need a little spice or fantasy to get things going. If you're having an issue on something like this, as earlier stated in this thread, maybe the root of the trust problem lies deeper.

    I'm sending you tit pics right now.

    I want them too.
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 707 Member
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    Is it okay to think and judge other people for talking to friends they may have made online who offer them support and good conversation ... I wonder?

    (its hard not to be an *kitten* sometimes when you run across certain questions think I did okay)
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
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    So. For me? No big deal. If they are talking so what? You want to gag them and lock them in the basement? If they're sharing pics? Really, again not that big a deal (in other words, so what?). There's not much difference in that and looking at porn (which again is no big deal). I'm confident enough in myself that it doesn't bother me and I'm not naive enough to think that they aren't going to do it if they want to and I don't want them to. As an adult, I feel that sometimes ppl need friends outside of their S O and ppl in a relationship sometimes need a little spice or fantasy to get things going. If you're having an issue on something like this, as earlier stated in this thread, maybe the root of the trust problem lies deeper.

    I'm sending you tit pics right now.
    Where the eff are mine? No more kitty gifs for you!
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    So. For me? No big deal. If they are talking so what? You want to gag them and lock them in the basement? If they're sharing pics? Really, again not that big a deal (in other words, so what?). There's not much difference in that and looking at porn (which again is no big deal). I'm confident enough in myself that it doesn't bother me and I'm not naive enough to think that they aren't going to do it if they want to and I don't want them to. As an adult, I feel that sometimes ppl need friends outside of their S O and ppl in a relationship sometimes need a little spice or fantasy to get things going. If you're having an issue on something like this, as earlier stated in this thread, maybe the root of the trust problem lies deeper.

    I'm sending you tit pics right now.

    Yayyyyyyy........ pics in return....... heading your way:flowerforyou: :tongue:

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