My fiancé said ...
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WOW! Nothing could be further from the truth. Just ignore him!0
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YOU DO NOT NEED TO LOSE ANY MORE WEIGHT!!! You are at the low end of the weight range for your height. Are you sure you want to marry this man?0
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Your fiancee sounds like douche-nozzle.0
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If he is saying that now to you, imagine the things he will be saying after you are married. It's called verbal and emotional abuse. I don't think you or anyone else can possibly live up to a "perfect" image for anyone. There is no such thing as a perfect person on this place we call Earth.0
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He shouldn't be your fiance anymore. Idiot. (Him, not you!)0
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Especially, assuming he knows your past issues, I would not marry a man who said that. Period. That is if he said it the way you suggest. And it makes me sad all you can focus on is being perfect for him.
AMEN! There is no reason you should settle for someone who thinks of you like that!0 -
I'd punch your fiance in the balls.
I like you.0 -
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Ok. after reading the other replies, I will now be more blunt...DUMP the jerk, and wait for someone who loves you and supports your efforts, Just imagine how he'll react when you get pregnant and have baby weight to deal with! the only thing you may want to do perfectly for him is run and fast!0
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I'd punch your fiance in the balls.
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Did I read that right? Fiance?!! If you want to lose weight, throw his *kitten* to the curb - a lot baggage there!0
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What the flying ****...0
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I have had an eating disorder for over twenty years. If you let someone else dictate your self-image, you will fall back into the same trap. If he cannot love you for you, he is obviously displacing some of his own insecurities onto you. Be strong.0
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My fiancé told me today that he thinks i'm fat. My family disagree and think I dont need to lose any weight.
I've just managed to over come my eating disorder. I developed bulimia and I had malnutrition because of not eating for days/weeks.
I'm 5'2 and 114-115lbs (52-53kg). I know I have a couple of pounds to lose and i'm not far from my goal weight.
I don't know what to do. I just want to be perfect in his eyes0 -
This kind of makes sense...? Seems like a terrible way to go about it though.0 -
I'm more concerned about your username than your fiancé.0
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Your fiance is an *kitten*.
You are not fat. Dont listen to him.0 -
My fiancé told me today that he thinks i'm fat. My family disagree and think I dont need to lose any weight.
I've just managed to over come my eating disorder. I developed bulimia and I had malnutrition because of not eating for days/weeks.
I'm 5'2 and 114-115lbs (52-53kg). I know I have a couple of pounds to lose and i'm not far from my goal weight.
I don't know what to do. I just want to be perfect in his eyes
Believe your family and your instinct - you are not fat. You do not need to lose any weight.
Anyone who would say something so hurtful as a fiance is not going to make a supportive, kind or loving husband.0 -
He needs to be your EX-fiancé. Period.0
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Considering your condition...bulimia....your fiance seems detrimental to your health. He should be encouraging you to better yourself in a healthy manner.
I'd think twice about marrying him if I were you.
THIS. I'm sorry, but, I think you should reconsider your future with him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your weight. You do not need to lose anything(except him).
Marie0
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