How do I get the lean look people?

Any recommendations as to which program I could begin..

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/lee-labrada-12-week-lean-body-trainer-intro.html

Calorie SURPLUS to build muscle and

http://startingstrength.wikia.com/wiki/The_Starting_Strength_Novice/Beginner_Programs

or

http://stronglifts.com/stronglifts-5x5-beginner-strength-training-program/

Clean eating, and lifting.

Combination of changes to your training regime and nutrition plan.

Training - Step away from the DVD workouts and pick up some iron. Start a strength/weights training program. There's a lot available on Bodybuilding.com - find one that will suit your schedule. Doing a 5 day program that you can only commit 3-4 days a week on can potentially affect your progress. Cut back on long cardio sessions and maybe consider HIIT if you're currently doing more steady state cardio.

Nutrition - New muscle growth needs more calories consumed so eat at a surplus. Make sure you're consuming enough carbs and protein for fuel and recovery. There are heaps of calculators online that can assist with estimating your macros (carbs/protein/fat) and should also give you a calorie goal based off your current stats with the goal of adding muscle mass.

Good luck!

Don't forget the diet. If you don't eat at a surplus, you might be disappointed with the results of lifting.

Lifting has begun.. Time to get all kinds of gainzzz

I'd recommend checking out this program:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=4195843&page=1

This will require you to learn the barbell lifts. It is not an absolute necessity and it is not the only program or only method that can get you to your goals, but the time investment that you would need to spend to learn how to squat/press/deadlift will pay potential benefits later, and this is increasingly true if you plan on doing this long-term. That, and most people find these lifts really freakin' FUN especially as you get stronger and stronger.

I would do the program exactly as it is written and I would check out some tutorials on proper barbell lifting. Mark Rippetoe has some good videos on youtube to get you started. You can also post video form checks in our group (Eat, Train, Progress) for review/commentary.

EDIT: As someone mentioned above, you will also likely need to be eating in a small calorie surplus and plan on gaining some weight for a while. You can get some background information here for proper setting of calories/macronutrients.

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/819055-setting-your-calorie-and-macro-targets

If you aren't accustomed to free weight training, it can be daunting. I do a variety of work-outs, but when I started I started with Bill Phillips "Body for Life". Body for Life has a great website with lots of demos and the program isn't an overwhelming gush of information about macros, periodization, split routines, etc.

Long time lifters don't love Phillips, but he's a good starting point and you will see results which will encourage you to continue.

Have you ever looked into Adonis? It's just fr men. I am doing the women's version, Venus Index. I love it and am getting results.