what do you hate to hear.
knittingwitch
Posts: 231 Member
in Chit-Chat
So I'm just an average person that lost a lot of weight, but time to time I hear back handed compliments about my weight and I also hear a lot of misconceptions of weight loss.
So I was wonder what was the worst thing you have heard or been told, either in the form of a backhanded compliment, misguided advice. or misconception?
I hate it or at least it bugs me when people say they only want to lose belly fat when they are fat all over or at least over weight all over. I mean I get it I myself use to think that but I didn't try to only do crunches to lose weight.
I always tell people when they say this to me you know I use to think that two but I'm glad that I lost weight all over because no one really thinks about back fat but no one wants it either.
So I was wonder what was the worst thing you have heard or been told, either in the form of a backhanded compliment, misguided advice. or misconception?
I hate it or at least it bugs me when people say they only want to lose belly fat when they are fat all over or at least over weight all over. I mean I get it I myself use to think that but I didn't try to only do crunches to lose weight.
I always tell people when they say this to me you know I use to think that two but I'm glad that I lost weight all over because no one really thinks about back fat but no one wants it either.
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ehhh never mind0
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"Should you be eating that?"
"You're too skinny, you shouldn't workout like you do."
"You're a mom, you're ALLOWED to look like one!"
Makes me want to punch people in the face.0 -
"Do you EVER eat anything besides salad? No WONDER you're so skinny!"
Um....I have intestinal issues that bother me when I don't eat right....I don't run my mouth about your fat *kitten* so don't run yours about my food choices!
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" Every time I see you, you look more & more like a crackhead"
"Do you ever eat?"
"I think you run too much, its okay to take a break"
"You are going to get bulky and manly looking, ewe"
"Don't you think you have lost enough weight"
"Brittany doesn't eat real food, just rabbit food"
"I liked you better when you were fatter"
I mean... I can go ON & ON. My motto... "shut the **** up"
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No.
I hate hearing no.0 -
"You're SUPPOSED to gain weight after a certain age." --no.
"You're not that fat so you shouldn't worry so much about it." ---i'm not THAT fat because I DO worry about it
"I prefer women who have a little meat on their bones." --in response to my working out regimen. yep. I should base my entire health and outlook on your personal opinion, guy.
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Not weight related but,
"Maybe you'd be prettier if you cut your hair."
Conversely, I also heard "Maybe you should let your hair grow out." When my hair was short.0 -
You can't.....oh yes I can!!0
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No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."0 -
I hate hearing "IIFYM IS BETTER YOU CAN EAT BIG MACS YOU *****" and "NO YOU OVEREATING SWOLLEN MEATHEAD CLEAN EATING IS BETTER CAUSE YOU WILL LEARN TO FLY"
haha jk. I hate hearing the word whatever. It's like a big FU0 -
No I will not have sex with you.0
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No I will not have sex with you.
+1 that too for sure lol0 -
I hate being told that I am getting to small and that I should stop losing weight. Nobody told me that I was getting to big and that I should stop eating...0
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Aren't you married?0
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No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
How YOU doin'?? :bigsmile:0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.0 -
I hate it when my friends imply that I'm making them feel guilty by eating less and/or healthier than I used too. I'm not doing it to make them feel guilty, I just want to feel better about myself!0
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No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.0 -
"I think you look good for having a baby 8 weeks ago"...
You cannot even tell I was pregnant recently. I'm thinner now then I was before I got pregnant...0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
Things just got weird.0 -
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Aren't you married?
Lol. Took a minute to get this one but hey its Thursday. I am longing for Friday.0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
Things just got weird.
Things don't get weird until I say they do!0 -
"I think you look good for having a baby 8 weeks ago"...
You cannot even tell I was pregnant recently. I'm thinner now then I was before I got pregnant...
Just respond with "I look good, period."0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
Things just got weird.
Whatever.0 -
I get frustrated when people ask me questions about how I lost weight and I say it was diet and exercise and then I'm told that's not possible. Yep, it is....
Also, people who tell me that my goal weight too low, it's my goal, not yours....just saying.
And in general, I hate the statement "it is what it is." See, I think, well maybe that's the way it is now, but why can't it change, things can change right? And we don't have to accept stupidity, crappy treatment, or lack caring from others, do we?
Rant over.
Peace0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
Things just got weird.
You must be new.0 -
No.
I hate hearing no.
I always tell you "yes."
That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
Safety words are for pansies.
And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
Things just got weird.
I really need to quit reading these things at work :laugh: :blushing:0 -
I cannot be held responsible for LOLs at work that cause you to lose your job.0
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