what do you hate to hear.

"you don't drink very much (alcohol), you're not much fun are you" (!)

"why don't you eat desserts anymore"

"should you be eating that if you are trying to lose weight" ><

"it won't hurt to have cake/donut/alcohol"


No, I don't drink a lot of alchol but I am still fun, I don't need to drink to have fun! I do have desserts when I REALLY want one and not just because I'm out for a meal, yes I can eat that because I want it and it fits into my calories allowance, no it won't hurt me to have cake/donut/alchol when I really want it and not just because you say I should!

'I want fun MrsSWW back!' from a friend. :huh:

Yeah, well Fun SWW has been replaced by Fit SWW, and all you ever want to do is go out and get drunk with me; you want to spend time with me, buy some walking shoes or get over it!

Oh yeah, and 'The dog's been sick!' :sick:

I hate to hear? We hate to hear...exactly...."i wanna be loved like your men love you either friends and boyfriend" and they 're not only mean but treathening and whatelse we hate to hear and see..."i:m a f....* coward toward you guys i know it but you know how's life", in few terms we translate....i wanna break your f....* balls even i have no reasons to do it

are you still on diet?
ITS NOT A DIET i have made a lifestyle change...for life!
I get it alllll the time

I HATE when people police my portion sizes.
"Oh you're eating again? You must be hungry... you'd better be careful!"
Um no. If I'm hungry I eat.

"You don't need to lose weight." Have you seen my scale?

^^^^this

"You're supposed to look bigger after being a mom" ... UM NO

"Haven't you lost enough weight already?!" Again, if I have, that's none of your business, and I'll stop when I'm ready

"You're getting too skinny and you look like you're trying to compete with teenagers" Uh, really!?

Oh <bcattoes> eats healthy, I'm sure she doesn't want any cake.

This kind of stuff just SLAYS me. What it boils down to is people who have Zero self control or dicipline not to eat like crap and clearly jealous. When people try that nonsense on me, I always say this to myself: "it’s better to suffer the pain of discipline than suffer the pain of disappointment." Remembering that always helps reinforce why I do what I do to myself by eating right 99% of the time vs. wrong. Cheating here and there is good for you mentally, but you gotta EARN it.

My boss: You look too skinny. Your bones stick out too much. I'm worried about you. If you have any issues that you need to talk to someone about, my door is always open.

My boss again: How did you lose weight? Oh by eating healthy and exercising? No, that doesn't work for me. Cutting carbs is the only thing that works for me. (He has to be about 350-400lbs).

My little brother: I know I always told you that you were too fat but now you're too skinny and look disgusting. You looked better when you were fat.

unfortunately I come from a family that is obese. I started my weight loss journey at 18. originally I lost 60lbs. they would always tell me that I was to skinny and needed to gain weight, they would always try to get me to eat fatty foods. then when I went from 118 to 145 they told me that I was looking good and stuff. even though I was overweight based on BMI. Now that ive been on my diet and have lost 8lbs they tell me im crazy and need to stop. I hate that the people that are supposed to encourage me and support never do!

I hope this didn't post twice, I just lost my previous response.

I got a little butthurt when I went out with some girls I know from work and one of them made a big production about how she was so *INSPIRED* by me...because I've already lost a lot and I have so much more to lose (left) than she does. WTF man, can't you just say "hey, atta girl. I'm inspired to follow your example" and call it a day? No, she had to throw in there the Judgy Mc*****face "because you have SOOOOOO much more to lose than I do."

2nd place goes to my colleague who asked if I had surgery and then shared his opinions on that. I didn't have surgery but felt like I had to defend people who do/did. He also opined that my knee problems were from "carrying all that weight around for all those years" in the most condescending tone possible. Funny, is the arthritis in my shoulders or hands also from carrying that weight around for all those years, JURIS Doctor?

"We need to talk...."

That never ends well!

Not weight related, but I hate hearing anything that starts out with
"You know what you should do? You should...."

Especially when it comes from someone more stupid than I am :bigsmile: , or someone I don't respect them or their opinions at all.

A family member who is a total train wreck in her personal life will commonly interject her opinion and office advice to everyone else in the family about what THEY should do, meanwhile living in her hoarding conditions and constantly spewing excuses about why 'that won't work for me" or "I can't do that because..", and never EVER having enough money to get by without crying for help.

To "relax". I twinge when I hear someone say that to me. Even thinking about someone saying that to me now is raising my blood pressure.