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Your mistake is basing your happiness on having a romantic companion. That is only one aspect of life.0
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Some of the most miserable people I know are in relationships. The unhappiest times in my life have been due to relationships. You can't just unequivocally state that relationship = happiness.
As for everyone that glibly says "Stop looking and it'll find you"...that's BS. I stopped looking after my last relationship and guess what? No dates in 3 years. If you want it, get out there and meet people. Join online dating, volunteer, find some single parent clubs, MeetUp.com, go to church if you're so inclined, etc..0 -
Your happiness cannot depend on someone else. It isn't fair to put that kind of responsibility on another person. Be happy with yourself, and the rest will follow.
I am happy with myself, I have worked hard to have a great job, I have great friends, I enjoy life, would just like some company
Then you are happy.0 -
Just bookmarking this thread...
...for the next time someone says that we're all here for the same reason...
...because clearly we're not.0 -
Just bookmarking this thread...
...for the next time someone says that we're all here for the same reason...
...because clearly we're not.
Hold me?0 -
u know what they say right? Quit looking and it will find u. I was divorced and when u divorce that kid may not be ready.... Give it some time and when u know your kid is ready, u will be also. Then love will find u. The lord works in mysterious ways......:flowerforyou:0
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I find this slightly funny seeing as OP is the same dude who posted a thread asking about 'risque chat sites' on MFP.0
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Did you bring the beer?0
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Happiness comes when you don't look for it
You might be happy right now and not realize it! 0 -
Can't I find happiness?
'First I have to find a definition of happiness.' Dr Ritsuko Akagi.0 -
Have you tried dating sites? They introduce you to people outside of your normal circle of people. That's the surest way to broaden your horizons. That, and you'll be looking for someone among women looking for someone like you. Better odds.0
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You aren't a bad looking guy, but that selfie you are using isn't going to attract too many lovelies.
I suggest the smiling pic, or similar.0 -
You aren't a bad looking guy, but that selfie you are using isn't going to attract too many lovelies.
I suggest the smiling pic, or similar.
I agree!0 -
Read this article - "6 harsh truths that will make you a better person". Google it, it's really good.0
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Single parent clubs. Absolutely. And take your kid to playdates. Seriously. Talk to people that are there with their kids. THEY ARE DYING TO TALK TO AN ADULT TOO.0
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Date out of your age group. My best dating experience was with someone 25 years older than me.
But then he died.
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You are seeking happiness in big. That is a mistake many unhappy people make. You are looking at others and thinking "I want that". No. That isn't happiness. That is envy. And while there is nothing wrong with trying to get there, many people forget that in order to get there, you need to enjoy the happiness in little doses life gives you.
Happiness is watching your 3 years old nephew steal your ice cream and running around. Not even eating it, just running from me because its funny for him.
Happiness is hanging out with your friends.
Happiness is making your friends laugh at the expense of looking like an idiot.
Happiness is a choice. I know depression and it isn't fun. I still battle with it hard and every day. But I have learned to appreciate the little things and that seemed to have made things better. I hope you find happiness too.
Gosh, now I know why everyone flock to this guy's side. Great answer!
OP, give it time. And if a woman can't accept/tolerate a child from your previous relationship, she's not the one for you and you're better off with someone else. Not saying that she's bad, just that you are a better fit with someone else. And if you really want to take some initiative, try dating sites (or MFP! :laugh: ). But keep in mind that most women at your age is a package deal, too, and you have to be able to accept that.0 -
You are seeking happiness in big. That is a mistake many unhappy people make. You are looking at others and thinking "I want that". No. That isn't happiness. That is envy. And while there is nothing wrong with trying to get there, many people forget that in order to get there, you need to enjoy the happiness in little doses life gives you.
Happiness is watching your 3 years old nephew steal your ice cream and running around. Not even eating it, just running from me because its funny for him.
Happiness is hanging out with your friends.
Happiness is making your friends laugh at the expense of looking like an idiot.
Happiness is a choice. I know depression and it isn't fun. I still battle with it hard and every day. But I have learned to appreciate the little things and that seemed to have made things better. I hope you find happiness too.
Just won the best post of the month of July award!0 -
You are seeking happiness in big. That is a mistake many unhappy people make. You are looking at others and thinking "I want that". No. That isn't happiness. That is envy. And while there is nothing wrong with trying to get there, many people forget that in order to get there, you need to enjoy the happiness in little doses life gives you.
Happiness is watching your 3 years old nephew steal your ice cream and running around. Not even eating it, just running from me because its funny for him.
Happiness is hanging out with your friends.
Happiness is making your friends laugh at the expense of looking like an idiot.
You are wise Taunto
Happiness is a choice. I know depression and it isn't fun. I still battle with it hard and every day. But I have learned to appreciate the little things and that seemed to have made things better. I hope you find happiness too.0 -
Happiness has more to do with attitude and choice than circumstances.
This works for me: Matthew 6:330 -
cause you lookin in the wong pwaces :P
Been to bars, been set up by friends, blind dates... I am ugly?
wow, "ugly" is not a word I have actually used in years. There have been many posts on MFP regarding the importance of ones looks, in regards to finding a companion/mate. I believe the general consensus was that as we age, looks decend on the priority list and may be replaced with personality traits that are favourable to the one looking for the potential mate/companion. Meaning, focus on your other valuable traits such as personality, confidence, ability to get along with someone etc. Take the time you have now to improve on all the things you have to offer someone. Know what you want. Enjoy life. Find happiness within yourself. Be patient. I hope this helps in some way or other 0 -
You will, when you least expect it, you'll find it.0
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I find this slightly funny seeing as OP is the same dude who posted a thread asking about 'risque chat sites' on MFP.
QFFT.
The second F is not a typo.0 -
bump for later...let me know when you find it.
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"Learning to love yourself, is the greatest love of all..." ~ Whitney0
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"Learning to love yourself, is the greatest love of all..." ~ Whitney
the irony.0
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