My girlfriend refuses to eat with me

Stop pooping with the door open.

Maybe shes eating someone else... 0.0

FTFY.

I thought you'd be bigger

i hear that alot.

Are these posts for real?

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1060225-my-boyfriend-sabotages-my-diet

HA!!! Good catch!! :laugh:

Is it? Is it REALLY a good catch?

Not really. Shhh.

She probably doesn't like your screen name and this is her way of lashing out.

Stop pooping with the door open.

Are these posts for real?

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1060225-my-boyfriend-sabotages-my-diet

HA!!! Good catch!! :laugh:

Is it? Is it REALLY a good catch?

Not really. Shhh.

LOL

She says that you eat a lot of unhealthy food in front of her and she gains weight but you don't gain a pound!!!!!

I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?

That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

Threaten to break up with her by saying that her new boyfriend would be fine with her not eating with him. That'll work, right?

I see what you did there....

WIN! :drinker:

The OP of the original thread deactivated already. Evidently didn't really want all the excellent advice she was receiving... :noway:

I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?

That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

Threaten to break up with her by saying that her new boyfriend would be fine with her not eating with him. That'll work, right?

LOL.... I guess MELISSA read my post yesterday.

First of all, I am thinking I was married before you were even born so there is little of value you can point out to be that you disapprove of.
That being said, no, in this case, it does not appear to be a good move.

btw MELISSA, that was in fact a true story but my wife can hold her own in the relationship

Obvious hijack of the "boyfriend sabotages my diet" thread. Amusing yourself much?

Aha! Thanks for connecting the dots for me...

...even if that does kind of make you somewhat of a forum buzzkill.

Oh well...at least this time, it helped me out. Now to catch up.

ETA: Oh, and I don't think you're using the word "hijack" correctly in this context.

my husband works long hours, I do not eat with him either, I eat with the kids,

I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?

That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

Threaten to break up with her by saying that her new boyfriend would be fine with her not eating with him. That'll work, right?

LOL.... I guess MELISSA read my post yesterday.

First of all, I am thinking I was married before you were even born so there is little of value you can point out to be that you disapprove of.
That being said, no, in this case, it does not appear to be a good move.

btw MELISSA, that was in fact a true story but my wife can hold her own in the relationship

And you're capitalizing my name because....?

*slow clap* Because pointing out the fact that you're significantly older than me makes you far more superior. Congratulations, you've made an obvious statement! Actually, the statement you made really doesn't make sense, but perhaps I'm just too young to understand.

I won't even bother bringing it up again because it's not worth it, but suffice to say that if your story gives any indication of your wife "holding her own" in the relationship, then our definitions of that statement are definitely not in line with each other.

Good luck though, I'm sure you'll have another happy 34 years together. I'll just be over here getting tattoos and stuff with my partner sitting beside me holding my hand in support. I guess us young ones just don't understand a true relationship. Oh well!