What is your 'selfish' reason?

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  • thatonegirlwiththestuff
    thatonegirlwiththestuff Posts: 1,171 Member
    I want people to e shocked when I say that I have three young kids :)
    This too! ^^
  • kotersmom
    kotersmom Posts: 96 Member
    To be HOT at 40!!
  • BrklynTico
    BrklynTico Posts: 143
    I want all the beautiful women in the world to give me a second look...and a third look...and a fourth look.
  • To look good and feel confident!
  • sstan03
    sstan03 Posts: 102
    so when i walk by, all the women say "DDDDDDDDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMMMNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!:laugh:
    not really....but to be healthy and run a couple more tough mudders!
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
    I want to look like a trophy wife. I know I won't actually be one... but to look like one would be awesome!
  • Lisa1971
    Lisa1971 Posts: 3,069 Member
    My size 4 jeans that I wore 2 years ago are alone and afraid by themselves in the back of my closet.
  • missdibs1
    missdibs1 Posts: 1,092 Member
    I want to be hated.

    "cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room.” Annie D.
  • footiechick82
    footiechick82 Posts: 1,203 Member
    Vanity.

    :laugh:
  • BattleTaxi
    BattleTaxi Posts: 752 Member
    I want people to stop telling me I "look good for my size" and that I "carry my fat well". How the f is that even a compliment? UGH!

    I want people to say I look beautiful and stop backing that compliment up with a downer!
  • HollyAnn_
    HollyAnn_ Posts: 47 Member
    I want people to e shocked when I say that I have three young kids :)

    ^^This. I'm expecting our fourth tho.
    Not just "oh wow you don't look old enough to have four kids" shocked but "you look like you've had no kids, much less four" kinda shocked
  • mperrott2205
    mperrott2205 Posts: 737 Member
    Always been fat and out of shape - Didn't want to be that guy anymore.
  • micheleld73
    micheleld73 Posts: 914 Member
    1. To be hot
    2. I like food so being fit lets me eat more
    3. I can open all my own jars

    ^THIS^ :drinker:
  • To be more fit than my sister (who stays small even though she eats terribly and doesn't exercise!). Oh, jealousy, how you've undone me.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    Almost everything about my health and fitness is selfish. Granted I want to set a good example for my kid, but at the end of the day it's completely about the life I want to live.
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    To be comfortable in my own skin (and since the weight loss I seem to have a lot of excess of that so I'd better get comfortable in it! LOL).

    To look decent in clothing.

    To look decent out of clothing.
  • IZackV13
    IZackV13 Posts: 157 Member
    To look better than any of my high school buddies who have generally eaten/drank themselves into slow obesity.

    Also, to be the guy that the younger women think dirty things about...
  • blah2989
    blah2989 Posts: 338 Member
    I want my outside to match the way I feel inside. I want to be able to wear the wedding dress I want and not settle because I dont look good enough in it. I want to be able to go shopping and get clothes I like not just get what fits. Most of all I want to be able to ride my horses again. I know I could ride my horses, its not like Im too big for them to carry, but at 245lbs, ( and considering my horses are outvof shape) I would hate to ride them being this big, esp a 23 yr old mare.
  • sherry666
    sherry666 Posts: 36 Member
    To not feel my thighs rub together when I walk! lol
    To feel more comfortable in my own skin.
    To be happy about looking in the mirror.
    To wear high heels! God I try... but it hurts so much and is so uncomfortable!
    To look hot when I work on my car.
    To be even more appealing to my boyfriend.
    To be skinny for the first time in my life.
    Those are just a few of the reasons. I could go on.... lol
  • witmer1
    witmer1 Posts: 128 Member
    To be healthy for my son and be able to be a better father. Having your little one look at you and tell you he's worried "something is going to happen to you" is a scary thing.
  • simsburyjet
    simsburyjet Posts: 999 Member
    I like having fit women talk with me and want to work out with me.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    I have four sisters. All of them are very thin and very fit and gorgeous.

    Three of them are size 2 or smaller.

    I also want to look rockin in a bikini, in lingerie and without anything on. I like the idea of knowing that my clothes look great, but that under my clothes, I have a healthy, toned, fit body.
  • humanismu
    humanismu Posts: 51 Member
    To fit into cuter clothes and not have to scour for hours to find one decent shirt
  • Peachy1962
    Peachy1962 Posts: 269 Member
    I show off a new thin figure to my ex!!! lol :blushing:
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    Milf Status
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
    To be the "hot" mom -
    To not embarrass my kids by them having the "fat" mom
    To be strong and able to play with the kids (and my grandkids one day)!
    To feel like I fit in, though I may just be an odd-bird and don't fit in for reasons that have nothing to do with weight (I am coming to grips with this possibility).
    To be healthy and live long!
    To shop in the normal sizes and wear fashionable clothes and shoes!
    To look younger!
  • sukiwabi
    sukiwabi Posts: 221 Member
    i wanna be able to bounce a quarter off my *kitten*. i guess that's selfish, as i'll have to have someone else do the quarter pitching.
  • VryIrishGirl76
    VryIrishGirl76 Posts: 1,167 Member
    Do I have to pick just one?!
  • megmo1985
    megmo1985 Posts: 127 Member
    This is a great question! I would say I want to fit into a pair or skinny jeans for the winter and feel good in them.
  • TattedInStilettos
    TattedInStilettos Posts: 332 Member
    I want my hour.glass shape back and look amazing in a pair of.jeans...