After 65 lb weight loss.. NOW being called fat?

wow. i mean...just WOW. you totally got hit with *kitten* wagon there.

people suck. they suck all the time, and out in the open and everything. they are stupid, moronic, hurtful, ignorant d*ckbags who should learn to keep their stupid, moronic, ignorant d*ckbag mouths shut.

they won't, though. they'll keep saying mean, stupid, hurtful things...if not to you, then to other people. The best you can do is to realize that they have soul cancer, and go say something nice and wonderful to someone else. Balance out their negative vibes with your own positive ones and do your best to not let them get to you.

i know it hurts, but i think that you are ADORABLE.

^^ All of THIS right here. especially the parts with the asterisk in it. Anyway, the worst thing you could have done was not return. Best thing to do is to do what you want to do (whatever that goal is).

Youve made such great progress already. If it were me personally I would think about that moment every single time I thought about straying from the path that I needed to be on, and every single time that I wanted to push harder but wound up stopping.

Everyone else in here cant possible be wrong!...Dont give up!!!

I know your feelings were hurt by SCUM; and I am not going to give them my energy by way of responding about them.

My plea to you is take your rightful place back at the gym and get back on course.

You are very beautiful not just outside but inside. It took courage to share this with us.

It's time to stand tall. With all this support and encouragement you are in receipt of on this post, you have the push you need to move forward.

Hugs to you.

Oh, honey, it is an extremely sad and insecure person who needs to put someone else down to feel good about him or herself, which is what those girls did to you.

You have made incredible progress and you should be so proud of that! Get back to the gym and tune those Bs out. What they did was about them, not you. Feel sorry for them.

Don't let others get you down PLEASE!!! You're doing an amazing job & are such an inspiration to me... I'm early in my journey to loose 105lbs. You look awesome, so get some tough skin & use any insult you encounter to fuel your motivation... knowing that you're working on improving yourself.... & they're clearly not.... (as for kids.... they just don't know better usually... I run into the same with adults with developmental disabilities. I have one guy who always asks me if I'm having a baby. Instead of getting hurt, I use it as a teaching moment & say "nope, there's no baby in there, that's where my cheeseburgers go when I eat too many" because he too needs to loose some weight, & cheeseburgers are his favorite food & he'd eat them for every meal if he had the option!) Take pride in your improved lifestyle & how you're feeling & what you have accomplished. For every negative comment.... I am positive that there are twenty other people who are impressed/want to compliment you, but don't want to hurt your feelings or something like that.

Another thought... could this new attention you're getting be because when you were heavier you didn't put yourself out there as much? I know for me when I was heavy & down on myself, it took a lot to even get out of the house. I was feeling sluggish & embarassed about how I looked.

Best of luck in your continued journey.... give it hell!!!

Wow you look amazing

Work on your uppercut Knock those bishes out! Surround yourself with people who love and support you, and eff the haters. There's always going to be someone who needs to make themselves feel better by putting other people down and it sucks that you're getting that (especially when you look great and are healthier and healthier every day!). But please continue your journey and be an inspiration to the many of us who can't wait to see you reach your goals!

First of all, you look AMAZING. Don't listen to those girls. People can be so stupid sometimes. I just started my "healthy, better life" today, so if you want to pass on any secrets, I'm all ears!

ur doing great and dont listen to those kind of people. just keep pushing

Never listen to those inner demons. OR to rude girly girls who don't know where their head is located. You have to make up your mind to go your own path and not listen to others. I too had a lady ask when I was due---I told her I was due the day she got some manners!! She walked off and had the good grace to look embarrassed as she SHOULD BE. You will always see an hear petty people, but look at it this way--you can change YOU but those girls can't change their stupidity level.

Oh my gosh, I cannot believe those girls at the gym said those things to you! This has activated my angry mother lion side, and I'm just furious for you. My highest weight was 260 on the nose and I've NEVER gotten any comments from strangers about my weight. Children, yes, but that's why I generally avoid children. They've not been taught to have a filter yet and say incredibly hurtful things because they don't know any better.

Just looking at the two pictures you posted, you're looking absolutely WONDERFUL, and even though you've had a bit of a backslide, I'm sure you still look great.

If you cancelled your membership (which I hope you haven't because getting back on that horse and showing it who's boss might be a cathartic moment for you) I hope you told them why you left - because two of their other clients were so incredibly rude to you that you felt unwelcome and humiliated, and it discouraged you from your personal fitness goals and demotivated you. They should know that this happened in their gym so that they can stop it. That's unacceptable and if I were you, I would've wanted to backhand those girls so hard when they woke up their clothes would be out of style. How dare they say those things to you? I'm angry just thinking about it! They should have been applauding you and cheering you on because it's HARD to show up to a gym being one of the biggest people there and to have the courage to work your *kitten* off. When I see someone at the gym who's bigger than I am, I always secretly want to go over and tell them that they're doing great and tell them they're an inspiration, because that's what they are.

If you haven't cancelled your membership, I hope you go back and get back on that treadmill and keep working your butt off because you've come so far, and you deserve to be there just as much as anyone else. If those girls say anything to you again, this is what I would've said "How do I do it? I show up every chance I get and work to build my endurance. I've done very, very well. Can I ask you a question, now? How do you manage to fit so much arrogance into such a tiny frame? Does it come naturally, or did you have to work at it? Do you still have trouble keeping it all in there? I assume you must've removed your sense of tact and decency in order to fit it all in. I was just wondering because I'm impressed; it seems to be oozing out of every orifice." Her comment was obviously meant to demean you, and I wish you'd have just thrown it right back at her because she's the one who deserved to be criticized and humiliated. Her behaviour was nasty and rude, and she should've been called on it.

You've come a long way, and you don't deserve those comments. I hope things improve for you. Please don't let cra**y people discourage you from charging forward and accomplishing your goal. You're doing great, keep it up.

There is one thing I have learn, that never let what others think of me bother me...................I am proud of you for loosing all this weight and knowing you want to be healthy. But you got to be strong emotionally. Don't let others control what you do and don't do, of feel what you should not feel. Lift your head up high and walk back to the gym and continue to do what you have been doing that made you loose 65 lbs. There are evil people in this world and they only wants to see others stay in the rut. But don't let them win.......you already prove you are a winner.........and you are winning. You have lost 65 pounds....this is huge, very huge. So build a strong mind............a mind that is not going to listen to what others say...........u are going to use the negative things that they say as energy to burn off that fat. Keep on working out and keep on eating clean. Don't stop, you are stronger than you think. People who take time to insult you to make you feel bad about yourself, it only reflects how they think of themselves. They are worthless and they got nothing on you. Because having a great body with an evil heart and mind is very ugly. So my dear you got to get back to that gym and workout like your life depends on it and continue your journey and next time they walk up to you, scream out loud what they are saying to you, and scream out someone call the police this ladies are bullying me telling me i am fat. Shame them infront of others. STOP THEM IN THEIR TRACKS........because i am sure they are doing that to others who have never return to that gym or gave up on their goals. Be the first person to stand up to them. I am sure people will come to your rescue. Don't let this ugly people win. I wish you good vibration and positive emotions in continuing your goals....Go get them. Go back and workout...Don't be afraid and don't be ashame.