I want a dog....

Just thinking 'out loud'.....want to get a dog....

buuuuutttt.....

What kind? Will I have enough time? Will I have enough space? How long until its housbroken? Will I crate train? Will my kids pull its tail? Will it eat my couch, running shoes, iPod, computer cord, extension cord, woodwork, rug? When it eats said items how much will it cost to have them remove from its stomach? Will it learn to run with me on a leash? Will it bark too much (too little)?

And on and on and on and on....

buuuuutttt.....

They are so damned cute, lovable and fun!!

Yup...I think I'll get a dog....:heart:
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  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    I suggest and recommend Japanese Spitz Dog, they are very loyal,friendly,playful,loving,caring & sweet,, also good for guard dog, they will risk everything just to defend the house or the owner,, trust me,,, search it on google for more information and me is the evidence because i have a japanese spitz dog :)
  • horrorstory
    horrorstory Posts: 125 Member
    Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.
  • bannedword
    bannedword Posts: 299 Member
    Greyhounds make amazing family pets.
  • tc41586
    tc41586 Posts: 136 Member
    Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    Adopt! Skip the puppy stage if you are concerned about housetraining, chewing, etc... that is part of a puppy that you have to accept.
  • Jennloella
    Jennloella Posts: 2,286 Member
    adopt a younger dog and skip the puppy stage. It's BS that you need to get a dog as a baby for it to bond with the family. We have a German Shepherd, he is the most patient loyal protective dog. The kids can do whatever to him, he alerts me when the baby cries (she's 8 weeks old) and he keeps up with the boys when we go hiking/camping. He's getting older and every day I wish we had not got him neutered because I would love so much to be able to let him have pups now, keep his lines going.
  • Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    That is a really good idea! :smile:
  • skinnyjeanzbound
    skinnyjeanzbound Posts: 3,932 Member
    Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    Adopt! Skip the puppy stage if you are concerned about housetraining, chewing, etc... that is part of a puppy that you have to accept.

    QFT

    Adopted my dog from the shelter when he was 1 and a half years old. He was still a puppy (he's a large-breed male and they don't stop growing until about 3 years), but he was house-trained and past the chewing stage.
  • I just got another dog this weekend (we also have a boxer - she's happy to have a new buddy). It was not planned though. A friend of a friend had a stroke and was unable to take care of her 1 year old pup - our friends took him in, but their Mastiffs are having puppies in two weeks and will have their hands full - and my husband asked if we could have Jake, aka: Silky. He's such a honey, very well behaved - we have gotten very lucky with both our dogs. Our Boxer MJ is a rescue - she was older when we got her (8). She was a puppy mill *****. Lived her whole life in a kennel. We couldn't have asked for a better dog. She's so sweet and loving. Well behaved. Very Loyal. Doesn't bark (not that she's not able to). We totally lucked out. You'll find what you're looking for. I think rescue is the way to go! Good luck!!
  • conniemaxwell5
    conniemaxwell5 Posts: 943 Member
    I recommend fostering from a local shelter first. It will give you the opportunity to see if your family is suited for a dog and if you can be responsible pet owners (cleaning the yard, walking, feeding, playing, etc). Often times the shelter has already housebroken animals so that part isn't so difficult. The only downfall of fostering is getting attached and having to let go but if you get especially attached to one, you adopt it!

    The best way to keep a dog from chewing / eating stuff they shouldn't is to make sure they are getting enough play time and providing appropriate toys for them to chew on and play with. Go to your local pet store and check out the wide selection. In addition, I recommend an obedience class. Teaching them that you are the "alpha" of the pack is very important.

    Good luck! BTW - pit bulls are amazing dogs and there is a high need for fostering / adoption with this breed due to their unwarranted bad reputation. Make sure the shelter knows you have kids and what ages they are so they can match you with one that is kid friendly.


  • Good luck! BTW - pit bulls are amazing dogs and there is a high need for fostering / adoption with this breed due to their unwarranted bad reputation. Make sure the shelter knows you have kids and what ages they are so they can match you with one that is kid friendly.

    Yeah...I might have to pass on the Pit Bull...got attacked by one last month (and a set of rabies shots to go with it), kind of gun shy with that breed right now :noway: :laugh:
  • juliemouse83
    juliemouse83 Posts: 6,663 Member
    Visit a shelter and rescue your next best friend. Will be amazing for both of you! :heart:
  • Follow_me
    Follow_me Posts: 6,120 Member
    Seriously, I wish you the best of luck with that.
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    Research the breed that will fit your lifestyle and family. So many people get dogs because they look cute but get upset when the dogs do things they are naturally bred for.. i.e. shed, bark, dig, run away etc.... Then they give the dog away to shelter because it is not what they expect. Not fair to the dog.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    Adopt from a kill shelter. My dogs both came from there. One was 4 months old, already house broken. The next one I got she was 2 years old. Obviously already house trained. We're bonded, she's bonded with the other dog and my cat. Oh and she's a pit bull. But I understand if you were attacked how you might be gun shy. Just remember, it's all in how they are raised, not the breed. ANY dog could have attacked. My neighbor had a very animal aggressive dog and it was not a pit.

    Good luck. Just remember, puppy or adult dog, they all take work but are so worth it! :)
  • CaliforniaBarbie
    CaliforniaBarbie Posts: 346 Member
    What kind? Will I have enough time? Will I have enough space? How long until its housbroken? Will I crate train? Will my kids pull its tail? Will it eat my couch, running shoes, iPod, computer cord, extension cord, woodwork, rug? When it eats said items how much will it cost to have them remove from its stomach? Will it learn to run with me on a leash? Will it bark too much (too little)?

    lol okay i have the worlds most pushy puppy, he is now a over a year and still very pushy. his name is alpha, he is a pit bull, lab mix, i got him at barely 4 weeks old. and i love my little man, now 75 pounds and still growing. he ate everything! my brand new $4000 couch set, totally ruined. countless pairs of shoes.
    at the time i got him me and my older brother were living together, and he had his pit bull, that totally loved having a pup around, we had a huge house and deck but no yard, they didnt really mind though. he never took up much room, for a big dog, he was well behaved but more stubborn then me, and thats saying something lol. he is very very smart, at 4 months he taught himself how to open doors to let himself in and out, but refused to be potty trained, until he got neutered at 6 months. i didnt crate train because my bros dog got to run free in the house and alpha flipped if he couldnt play with deebo. he ate countless cords, chargers, clothes, towels, shoes, shoes, and did i mention shoes? he loves to eat wood, and eats his stairs to the back yard daily. i never had to have anything removed from his stomach he just processed it on his own, even as a young buck. he very seldom barks ever even as a puppy he was rather quit, deebo taught him to guard the house, although if you gave him a milkbone he would let you take whatever you wanted. he would rather be free to run, but he is fine on a leash or runner, although now he shares a yard with his new sister. he sleeps on his bed, or with mama if daddy isnt home.
    he destroyed so many things but i wouldnt give him up for anything, dogs are your best friend, and furry child
  • alpdexplorer
    alpdexplorer Posts: 251 Member
    I would definitely adopt.

    There are tons of dogs needing homes and then you won't have to worry about the "puppy stage."

    I took my dog in when she was 3 and she's loyal as ever. Definitely a mommy's girl. <3

    She's a Border Collie mixed with a bit of Akita. LOVE her.
  • nmkolts
    nmkolts Posts: 3
    I believe Welsh Corgis are very good with kids, and they're very protective of their families. They don't really drool or make huge messes, and they're fairly small.

    Don't get me wrong, I love big dogs, and if you can adopt that's even better. It's funny that this topic showed up because my husband and I are debating on whether or not this is a good time to get a dog, and that's the one I'll be getting <3
  • RozayJones
    RozayJones Posts: 409 Member
    Not sure how old your kids are but my kids love our dogs. We have two small dogs - a Meagle and a Chi. My oldest is almost 9 and actually likes having the responsiblity of feeding them and taking them out (we have 4 kids and sometimes they even fight). My youngest has ADHD and his best friend is our active Meagle! This is not to say it's not more work or more mouths to feed but they have been a good addition to our family!
  • Will it eat my couch, running shoes, iPod, computer cord, extension cord, woodwork, rug?

    Yes.

    But you will love it anyway.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    Adopt! Skip the puppy stage if you are concerned about housetraining, chewing, etc... that is part of a puppy that you have to accept.

    I just did this in Feb. Got a one-year old pup, who was already house trained which was perfect because I have a 2 year old and didn't want him wandering around where newspapers were down, nor could i provide the attention to train her. She was also semi-crate trained (now fully), and is such a sweet girl.
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member


    Good luck! BTW - pit bulls are amazing dogs and there is a high need for fostering / adoption with this breed due to their unwarranted bad reputation. Make sure the shelter knows you have kids and what ages they are so they can match you with one that is kid friendly.

    Yeah...I might have to pass on the Pit Bull...got attacked by one last month (and a set of rabies shots to go with it), kind of gun shy with that breed right now :noway: :laugh:

    boooo. they're my favorite breed so I hate it when their owners allow and encourage (even inadvertently) that to happen. really sorry to hear that, they are GREAT dogs. I've been bitten by far more chihuahuas than pits.

    I concur with the adopting, plus then you know exactly what the dog's temperament is. it's not always easy to tell with a puppy.
  • Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    This for sure, we have 2 we adopted and they are both great dogs!
  • CaliforniaBarbie
    CaliforniaBarbie Posts: 346 Member


    Good luck! BTW - pit bulls are amazing dogs and there is a high need for fostering / adoption with this breed due to their unwarranted bad reputation. Make sure the shelter knows you have kids and what ages they are so they can match you with one that is kid friendly.

    Yeah...I might have to pass on the Pit Bull...got attacked by one last month (and a set of rabies shots to go with it), kind of gun shy with that breed right now :noway: :laugh:

    maybe visit the shelter and get to know a good pit bull, i understand being a little gun shy. i have only ever been attacked by rottweilers, they all hate me, so im not to keen with those kind.
    but ive met the worlds nicest dogs and have them be pit, and ive met some mean ones (which tended to be owned by low life drug dealers) but i would highly suggest a rescue. our second dog layla is a pit bull Shepard mix and i rescued her straight from the family. she was shaddy at first but is a totally different dog since living here.
    and we just got a miniature poodle, hes a handfull
  • cici1028
    cici1028 Posts: 799 Member
    SO, YES to all of your questions. Definitely adopt. Do NOT use a pet store. That way you and your family can get to know the dog and make sure you make a good decision. Consider a dog 2+ as well, easier than a puppy!
  • kevinjb1
    kevinjb1 Posts: 233 Member
    Adopt! There are tons of dogs who need homes.
    Loyal to the end, friendly and the best friend anyone could have.

    Adopt! Skip the puppy stage if you are concerned about housetraining, chewing, etc... that is part of a puppy that you have to accept.

    QFT

    Adopted my dog from the shelter when he was 1 and a half years old. He was still a puppy (he's a large-breed male and they don't stop growing until about 3 years), but he was house-trained and past the chewing stage.

    I adopted a Golden/ Sheltie mix about 7 months ago and I love him, but make sure you know the dog's past because mine was obviously abused. He's skittish and scared of new people or sounds and may always be.
  • JennieCakes72
    JennieCakes72 Posts: 64 Member
    Rescue a dog! There are so many dogs/pups that need homes!! Probably a rescue right in your area. I got a rescue pup in January and she is great!
  • ashandloggiesmom
    ashandloggiesmom Posts: 92 Member
    Please, please adopt! We tried a puppy, had to give it to a family member as I did not have the time or patience to deal with EVERYTHING you listed. Waited a year and adopted a three year old lab/boxer mix, he is perfection in a dog. Trained, housebroken, the love of our family. He is as bonded to us as a puppy would have been maybe more because he knows we saved him. And the walks two times a day are helping me with my weight loss.
  • CindyRip
    CindyRip Posts: 166 Member
    I vote adopt one also - but the idea to foster to see if the dog fits with your family is a great one. I foster dogs and even tho I was not looking 2 caught my heart so my family now has 5 dogs. Familiarize yourself with any breed you are thinking about getting, each breed has different traits and stay away from ones that have traits you do not want, aka tiny dogs have a tendency to be more noisy as well as beagles. Labs and hunting dogs can have a tendency to roam unless well trained because they follow their nose. Do not get a pup or dog because it is cute, get one because it's breed traits fits into your family and you will be happier with your dog. Dogs can add a lot to your life but they take work, if you don't have time to spend with it, to keep up it's training then wait until you can so that both of you have a happy experience.
  • Melissa_mojo
    Melissa_mojo Posts: 156 Member
    Just thinking 'out loud'.....want to get a dog....

    buuuuutttt.....

    What kind? Will I have enough time? Will I have enough space? How long until its housbroken? Will I crate train? Will my kids pull its tail? Will it eat my couch, running shoes, iPod, computer cord, extension cord, woodwork, rug? When it eats said items how much will it cost to have them remove from its stomach? Will it learn to run with me on a leash? Will it bark too much (too little)?

    And on and on and on and on....


    buuuuutttt.....

    They are so damned cute, lovable and fun!!

    Yup...I think I'll get a dog....:heart:

    I volunteer with the florida french bulldog rescue i take in unwanted or surrendered bullies and rehab them then they get adopted out. Any breed you go with you can google a rescue and usually they have a site. Rescues usually are trained evaluated and house broken before being adopted so you know exactly what your getting. Plus its helping a pup get a new home :) Currently I have a foster that is awesome house broken potty trained leash trained knows tricks and good with my daughter her name is karma and will be going up for adoption soon :-)
  • OfficiallySexyVal
    OfficiallySexyVal Posts: 492 Member
    Not sure how far you are from me but I have a gorgeous mixed breed dog that is adorable, friendly and great with kids, he is a little skiddish at first to new people but warms up quickly.
    He is a puppy from my dogs litter that I didn't get rid of but I am moving soon so he will need to find a good home.
    He is boston terrier/corgi/boxer mix he is a sandy brown color he is about 25 to 30lbs full grown and he just turned a year.
    He has his shots but needs to be neutered if desired. I am sure that he could be crate trained.