Senseless Shooting...It could have been anyone

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  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
    I think it is important to be mindful of the fact that every single person you meet on a daily basis is capable of making choices like these boys did.

    I can't even bring myself to kill a spider! I stepped on a snail by accident back in February and I still tear up thinking about it. My SO killed a fly one day and didn't realize it wasn't quite dead and I was devastated over its pain and had to put it out of its misery. I even once rescued a butterfly missing half a wing.

    I don't think I could do what they did. In self-defense or to defend someone else, I probably could kill. But not in cold blood.

    No worries rml, I just read an article that said that bug don't have the receptors to feel pain. Let me see if I can find it again since it was just yesterday.
  • soldier4242
    soldier4242 Posts: 1,368 Member
    I think it is important to be mindful of the fact that every single person you meet on a daily basis is capable of making choices like these boys did.

    I can't even bring myself to kill a spider! I stepped on a snail by accident back in February and I still tear up thinking about it. My SO killed a fly one day and didn't realize it wasn't quite dead and I was devastated over its pain and had to put it out of its misery. I even once rescued a butterfly missing half a wing.

    I don't think I could do what they did. In self-defense or to defend someone else, I probably could kill. But not in cold blood.
    We are all made of the same stuff. If things ended up differently in our pasts who knows how we might have ended up. If you and I had the exact same past as these boys moment by moment is it possible that we too might have done what they did? I have to believe it is at least a possibility. I would like to think that I could override whatever impulse was within them that caused them to do this but I can't know that.

    Like yourself I think I could kill if I had to but not in cold blood. Is that because we had a past that allowed us to become that way? I don't think we are precluded from this type of behavior completely. If we have free will at all it must mean that we have the ability to make choices like they boys and we choose not to.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    I also dont think these punks were just looking for "anyone". If that was the case they would not have gotten in their car and gone TO THE OTHER SIDE of town to inflict their hateful crimes......................Hummmmmmm:mad:
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    We are all made of the same stuff. If things ended up differently in our pasts who knows how we might have ended up. If you and I had the exact same past as these boys moment by moment is it possible that we too might have done what they did? I have to believe it is at least a possibility. I would like to think that I could override whatever impulse was within them that caused them to do this but I can't know that.

    I can go with that. Though there is evidence that a complete lack of a conscience is something some people are born with. There's a whole nature vs. nurture thing there.

    I think there are some people who are born evil and I think there are people who are inherently not evil but due to circumstances may do something evil. It's tough to know now which of those things these boys are. It may be one or two of them is just evil and the other(s) just went along because they're kids.

    In time, we'll see if any of them feel bad about it.
    No worries rml, I just read an article that said that bug don't have the receptors to feel pain. Let me see if I can find it again since it was just yesterday.

    I hope so!
  • snazzyjazzy21
    snazzyjazzy21 Posts: 1,298 Member
    I also dont think these punks were just looking for "anyone". If that was the case they would not have gotten in their car and gone TO THE OTHER SIDE of town to inflict their hateful crimes......................Hummmmmmm:mad:

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  • soldier4242
    soldier4242 Posts: 1,368 Member
    Absolutely revolting. What is the world coming to? There must be something in the water, I swear. I really feel sometimes that the U.S. is in big, big trouble - things only seem to be getting worse. The few people who actually realize what's really going on are silenced when they speak up about/against it, which is scary - but the scariest thing is that most people are extremely ignorant and too absorbed in their own little fantasy worlds to give a crap.
    That's so true
    No, that is not true at all.

    For every story where some kids decide kill a guy for fun there are a million stories that go untold where people go about living their lives in peace. They go to work, they pay their bills, they buy groceries, they watch a movie, they play video games, and they do a thousand other things that are completely harmless or are even helpful to the rest of society.

    The thing is a story about some guy sitting at home playing xbox or a family that is camping won't make headlines that sell. If your job is to sell media you will only talk about the most extreme of cases.

    This isn't something new either. Humans throughout history used to be far more barbaric then we are today. Think back to the Salem witch trials. Things have gotten much better and I still hold out hope for our future.

    The world isn't coming to anything. The is still the way it has always been and we are still getting better.

    I agree with you and rml... the difference between now and then is the 24 hour news cycle. It is so much easier to hear about incidents like this whereas, without the internet and the national news, we probably would have never heard about this. So it just seems like more of these types events happen.
    In my personal life I find that the more religiously inclined a person is the more likely they are to think that the world is getting worse by the day. They normally try to site it as evidence that we all need to convert to their particular religion so that we can win back God's favor and he will protect us from all this tragedy. As a rule I try to avoid that side of the family but we all come together for the holidays. I find it really entertaining when my Jewish relatives are there as well because I get to watch as their discussions get heated.

    I think it is important to be mindful of the fact that every single person you meet on a daily basis is capable of making choices like these boys did. We are all capable of it but the overwhelming majority of us choose not to do things like this. Day after day I meet people who are doing everything they can to contribute to society. I think it is a mistake to ignore the peaceful majority and conclude that who whole world is going to hell based on the action of the hyperbolic minority.

    I think I can agree with that. As a "religious" person, I will sometimes have these thoughts too.. but it is usually when the news inundates me with tragedy after tragedy... war, school shoots, senseless murders and play it all over and over and over again. That's when I just turn it all off and ignore it (to some degree) to center myself again.
    Sometimes I have to change the channel too. If you watch the news all the time all you ever get to see are the worst cases being played over and over again.
  • timbrom
    timbrom Posts: 303 Member
    This is truly tragic, but people are right, the fact that the world is going to hell in a handbasket is nothing new, and things aren't getting worse. The worst school killing in U.S. history happened in Michigan, 44 dead, 38 of them children, at least 58 more people injured. The reason nobody remembers that happening is that it happened in 1927. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bath_School_disaster

    So, yeah, some people just basically suck in ways that cannot be changed and should be removed from society.
  • HappyStack
    HappyStack Posts: 802 Member
    I hate all these comments deriding a whole nation of people based on the actions of a few people. On the article page, that is.

    We all have terrible people in our countries, and a good many decent, innocent people die horrible, violent, random deaths all the time. It doesn't mean your entire country - even the entire world - is a horrible place to live, or an age-group, race or gender are inherently awful people.

    These are the reasons we need to pull together and be vigilant, helping each other and not allowing ourselves to be pulled into the "passerby syndrome" or "bystander effect"... the masses of good people can't allow themselves to be intimidated by the relatively small amount of disturbed individuals that live among them, and we have to find effective ways to discourage and prevent them from carrying out what they intend to.

    If that means tighter gun laws or threats of capital punishment, then so be it.
  • tripledipped13
    tripledipped13 Posts: 78 Member
    We are all made of the same stuff. If things ended up differently in our pasts who knows how we might have ended up. If you and I had the exact same past as these boys moment by moment is it possible that we too might have done what they did? I have to believe it is at least a possibility. I would like to think that I could override whatever impulse was within them that caused them to do this but I can't know that.

    I have to politely disagree--there are too many stories of people who grow up in the same house with the same parents and experience the same things and growing up to be very different (as in one be a killer or another is not). Yes we are all basically "made of the same stuff" but it is more than what you are made of and what you go through that cause people to turn out the way that they are. People are different and it is because of way more than how we grow up and what we experience.

    For the people who are saying the parents are responsible--to an extent you could be right but you have to be careful here too--I have worked with the public for most of my life--I deal with mostly the elderly and I KNOW that the majority raised their kids to be very respectful and hard workers only to watch them take a different path--it is not always the parent's fault.

    I read someone say the parents should have not allowed their teen to be able to get to the gun--my 13 year old step son knows how to shoot a gun, we teach him how to, guns are a normal part of our life. When my 4 year old daughter is old enough (10 or so) she will learn to shoot a gun and learn gun safety. Just think people should remember that if a person is responsible with their gun you cannot blame the gun for killing someone else--there are cases where the gun had a defect and was shot mistakenly (this happened last Christmas here in NC) but for the most part it takes a person pulling the trigger to kill someone.

    Ok now have at it--I know y'all are going to quote my post and disagree and so be it......Bless your hearts :flowerforyou:
  • caitypants86
    caitypants86 Posts: 278 Member
    Absolutely revolting. What is the world coming to? There must be something in the water, I swear. I really feel sometimes that the U.S. is in big, big trouble - things only seem to be getting worse. The few people who actually realize what's really going on are silenced when they speak up about/against it, which is scary - but the scariest thing is that most people are extremely ignorant and too absorbed in their own little fantasy worlds to give a crap.


    That's so true

    Pick up a history book every once in a while. The world isn't getting worse and people aren't any more evil in general than they were a thousand years ago. As a society (the US, Europe, Australia, etc.), we are actually much more compassionate and less violent now.

    Thanks for the suggestion - however, I'm already quite familiar with the general history of the world. It's quite easy to be "compassionate" and "non-violent" when you're living a seemingly comfortable, struggle-free life, but unfortunately, many people don't have that luxury.

    Oh, and I'm sorry - but the world really hasn't come that far since the Salem Witch Trials and Spanish Inquisition. Similar things still go on in the world around us, you just don't see it or hear about it. The media shows you only what they're supposed to show you.
  • tonytedesco
    tonytedesco Posts: 68 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    I play video games, violent ones, I listen to music, lots of angry death metal on one day, and on another I listen to rap music.Oh and I love porn. It does not make me a killer or a rapist. Stop blaming the media, the mediums and everyone else. Raise your children right and they will not be feeble minded. If anyone is blind it is the person that thinks their children won't be exposed to all of the above. Prepare them by doing everything you can to teach them right from wrong.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    Absolutely revolting. What is the world coming to? There must be something in the water, I swear. I really feel sometimes that the U.S. is in big, big trouble - things only seem to be getting worse. The few people who actually realize what's really going on are silenced when they speak up about/against it, which is scary - but the scariest thing is that most people are extremely ignorant and too absorbed in their own little fantasy worlds to give a crap.


    That's so true

    Pick up a history book every once in a while. The world isn't getting worse and people aren't any more evil in general than they were a thousand years ago. As a society (the US, Europe, Australia, etc.), we are actually much more compassionate and less violent now.

    Thanks for the suggestion - however, I'm already quite familiar with the general history of the world. It's quite easy to be "compassionate" and "non-violent" when you're living a seemingly comfortable, struggle-free life, but unfortunately, many people don't have that luxury.

    Oh, and I'm sorry - but the world really hasn't come that far since the Salem Witch Trials and Spanish Inquisition. Similar things still go on in the world around us, you just don't see it or hear about it. The media shows you only what they're supposed to show you.

    Girls, girls....lets focus on incident at hand and lets leave the Salem witch trials and Freddy Krueger being thrown into a boiler by angry parents for other times...perhaps Halloween :bigsmile:

    Ok we got some thugs from the wrong side of town going into the nice part of town in searh of someone to kill because they were "bored".......................:mad:
    ready set....go!

    Shake an bake!
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    Very sad. I do hope that these punks get to spend the rest of their lives in prison. If a free life is boring, they will find prison unbearable.
  • mrs_mab
    mrs_mab Posts: 1,024 Member
    So sad and such a waste of a young life. Feel so sorry for his family.

    Makes me really grateful to live in a country where gun crime is so rare.

    RIP

    So sad someone would take an opportunity like this to take a back handed swipe at the US. :cry:

    Disgusting crime. Those kids should face the DP. of course, this would never happen outside of the US, right? :huh:

    So the guns did this?...these three are NOT responsible for their own actions....they were merely sitting around bored... when the nasty gun went berserk jumped in a car and shot this poor young man.:huh:

    Lets NOT balme awful parenting.....undisciplined kids..........Im sure these kids wre straight A students right.?

    Where are those racizts SHarpton, Jesse Jackson Jr stirring the racizt pot?? oh ooppps the victim was wite....
    Yeah, this ^^^^^
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    I play video games, violent ones, I listen to music, lots of angry death metal on one day, and on another I listen to rap music.Oh and I love porn. It does not make me a killer or a rapist. Stop blaming the media, the mediums and everyone else. Raise your children right and they will not be feeble minded. If anyone is blind it is the person that thinks their children won't be exposed to all of the above. Prepare them by doing everything you can to teach them right from wrong.

    I am blaming the WEAK OF MIND....that are simply followers. Raising children right is only an ingredient of how a child progresses into adulthood. You can be the best parents and have the worst kids, and vise versa.

    Like you I listen to metal, and play videos games and such. Though I am not weak of mind....
  • moosegt35
    moosegt35 Posts: 1,296 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    Yea, it's totally the fault of music and not poor parenting and pure stupidity. I play the most violent video games and listen to some "gangster rap" (old stuff not this new garbage) and have never shot anything other than game (during hunting seasons) and paper targets.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    Girls, girls....lets focus on incident at hand and lets leave the Salem witch trials and Freddy Krueger being thrown into a boiler by angry parents for other times...perhaps Halloween :bigsmile:

    Ok we got some thugs from the wrong side of town going into the nice part of town in searh of someone to kill because they were "bored".......................:mad:
    ready set....go!

    Shake an bake!
  • moosegt35
    moosegt35 Posts: 1,296 Member
    I think it is important to be mindful of the fact that every single person you meet on a daily basis is capable of making choices like these boys did.

    I can't even bring myself to kill a spider! I stepped on a snail by accident back in February and I still tear up thinking about it. My SO killed a fly one day and didn't realize it wasn't quite dead and I was devastated over its pain and had to put it out of its misery. I even once rescued a butterfly missing half a wing.

    I don't think I could do what they did. In self-defense or to defend someone else, I probably could kill. But not in cold blood.

    you might wanna see a therapist about that
  • soldier4242
    soldier4242 Posts: 1,368 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    I play video games, violent ones, I listen to music, lots of angry death metal on one day, and on another I listen to rap music.Oh and I love porn. It does not make me a killer or a rapist. Stop blaming the media, the mediums and everyone else. Raise your children right and they will not be feeble minded. If anyone is blind it is the person that thinks their children won't be exposed to all of the above. Prepare them by doing everything you can to teach them right from wrong.

    I am blaming the WEAK OF MIND....that are simply followers. Raising children right is only an ingredient of how a child progresses into adulthood. You can be the best parents and have the worst kids, and vise versa.

    Like you I listen to metal, and play videos games and such. Though I am not weak of mind....

    Well yeah but the weak of mind are going to be a problem no matter what we do.
  • VeganLexi
    VeganLexi Posts: 960 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    Are you being serious?
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    I play video games, violent ones, I listen to music, lots of angry death metal on one day, and on another I listen to rap music.Oh and I love porn. It does not make me a killer or a rapist. Stop blaming the media, the mediums and everyone else. Raise your children right and they will not be feeble minded. If anyone is blind it is the person that thinks their children won't be exposed to all of the above. Prepare them by doing everything you can to teach them right from wrong.

    I am blaming the WEAK OF MIND....that are simply followers. Raising children right is only an ingredient of how a child progresses into adulthood. You can be the best parents and have the worst kids, and vise versa.

    Like you I listen to metal, and play videos games and such. Though I am not weak of mind....

    Well yeah but the weak of mind are going to be a problem no matter what we do.

    that is the point. People hell bent on killing others will do so. If the tool is a car, water, a knife, firearm, baseball bat, hammer, etc. They will find a way.
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    Are you being serious?

    yes. Violence on TV, Video games, etc has an affect on people. If it is an addiction, if it is desensitizing, etc. Hell look at the game candy crush and all the marriages and relationships it has broken up....lol
  • VeganLexi
    VeganLexi Posts: 960 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    Are you being serious?

    yes. Violence on TV, Video games, etc has an affect on people. If it is an addiction, if it is desensitizing, etc. Hell look at the game candy crush and all the marriages and relationships it has broken up....lol

    I must admit, my fiancé wasn't best pleased with the "candy hammer" purchases on his bill :laugh:
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    hahaha candy hammer.

    not to mention there are even songs about this sorta thing. One by goldie looking chain named " guns dont kill people rappers do"
  • TomTomato
    TomTomato Posts: 223
    We live in a culture that doesn't value LIFE.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    For those using this as an arguement for gun control...Guns don't doesn't stop crazy people from being crazy. And I have never discharged a firearm (other than a paint ball gun) in my life. For every senseless shooting, their are also tales of heroics like this...

    http://www.abcactionnews.com/dpp/news/one-person-dead-in-riverview-shooting
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
    It is horrible that it happened in Oklahoma... crazy weird.

    With that said this all plays into the thug life that the media, music, TV, games portray that weak and feeble minded people will blindly fall into. Only when this thug life music and such stops being embraced and is no longer cool will things change.

    Are you being serious?

    yes. Violence on TV, Video games, etc has an affect on people. If it is an addiction, if it is desensitizing, etc. Hell look at the game candy crush and all the marriages and relationships it has broken up....lol

    Yeah, lame excuse... if relationships are being broken up over candy crush there were underlying issues that only became apparent or realized with the game... same with violent movies and video games... my husband watches really violent movies and I'm pretty sure he isn't plotting to go on a murdering spree. I watched soap opera's as a kid and I'm pretty sure I am not inclined to sleep around for the hell of it or for revenge.

    Granted these are anecdotal and personal accounts... but like everything else... these things are not going to effect everyone in the same way.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Absolutely revolting. What is the world coming to? There must be something in the water, I swear. I really feel sometimes that the U.S. is in big, big trouble - things only seem to be getting worse. The few people who actually realize what's really going on are silenced when they speak up about/against it, which is scary - but the scariest thing is that most people are extremely ignorant and too absorbed in their own little fantasy worlds to give a crap.


    That's so true

    Pick up a history book every once in a while. The world isn't getting worse and people aren't any more evil in general than they were a thousand years ago. As a society (the US, Europe, Australia, etc.), we are actually much more compassionate and less violent now.

    Thanks for the suggestion - however, I'm already quite familiar with the general history of the world. It's quite easy to be "compassionate" and "non-violent" when you're living a seemingly comfortable, struggle-free life, but unfortunately, many people don't have that luxury.

    Oh, and I'm sorry - but the world really hasn't come that far since the Salem Witch Trials and Spanish Inquisition. Similar things still go on in the world around us, you just don't see it or hear about it. The media shows you only what they're supposed to show you.
    So then, is the world the same or getting worse?
  • soldier4242
    soldier4242 Posts: 1,368 Member
    We live in a culture that doesn't value LIFE.
    Bull**** this very thread is full of people that value life. Hell we have one person in here that says she cries over dead insects. The vast majority of people do value life. These *kitten* don't value life but they do not represent the entire culture.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    We live in a culture that doesn't value LIFE.

    Dude!?!?really............... thats the identity of the culture we all share? OR MIGHT It be just the culture of a small pocket of people who dont know how to act like human beings or be parents, have no control over their kids and who........... hell might even worse then kids!.....damn!
    Vicious cycle of lazy people..........