eating late at night help!

Have you tried just doing a meal replacement, like Shakeology? My recommendation would be to drink it with a low fat milk or soymilk 3-4 hours prior to you going to bed. It works for me because I sleep at 1030 every evening and I drink a meal replacement post workout, around 7PM. I don't take anything after that and my appetite is suppressed throughout the evening. I hope this helps.

It doesn't matter when you eat. The only reason for not eating right before bed would be if it interferes with your sleep.

If you are hungry, eat. Usually I work 2pm to 10pm. I tend to be hungry after work, though I do make a good dinner. Normally I am in bed by 12 noon. At the moment, I am doing 10 pm to 6 am. If I am hungry when I get home, I have breakfast before bed. I was finding I needed something after work, even when eating enough. I started allowing calories for a nighttime snack. You might need to allow leftover calories for a bedtime snack.

Eat when you are hungry regardless of what time it is. As long as you are still under your TDEE you will lose weight eating at night... or anytime of the day.

meal timing is largely irrelevant. Eating late at night does not hinder weight loss. You burn XXXX calories in a 24 hour period...think about that....you burn XXXX calories in a 24 hour period....if you take a cut from that level of calories, you will lose weight regardless of when you eat...because you burn XXXX calories in a 24 hour period.

Just to reiterate, meal timing is irrelevant. I eat dinner every night at 9PM and go to bed at 10 or 10:30...I lost 40 Lbs pretty easily just making sure I hit my goals.