Dating between decades: how old is too old?

I would agree with said parents. Also, its hard to imagine that a board certified Plastic surgeon would work as a dj, personal trainer and own a night club. He must not have a thriving practice.:ohwell:

Don't have a lot of good advice to give but I see both sides. I understand where your parents are coming from as well, they want you to experience all of life and know what guys that age expect. They are also afraid if you settle down with this guy, you will not meet your total potential and accomplish everything that you can possibly accomplish.

Like said above, not sure how he can be a plastic surgeon yet also have time for all that other stuff. Something doesn't smell right there but you sound mature and if you are hell bent on staying with him, just make sure you take things slow. If in 2 years, you still feel the same way, then accelerate things.

be cautious; at 19 y/o you are rather young still. but, i don't think age difference between partners should be made into such a big deal. sometimes there's an inexplicable connection - age be damned. and truly, what does a person's age really matter anyway? if the parties involved are happy and not hurting anyone, no one should care one bit - on the contrary those in your life should be happy on your behalf.

having said that, it's very difficult to make a judgement call on your particular situation. many different details could end up with different conclusions.

i'm of the opinion that age does not matter. but again, as you are still a teenager, in school, and it sounds like still very much dependent on your parents - be willing to deal with the consequences that come your way. if you are on your own and taking care of yourself, well then to hell with what anyone else thinks.

And you chose this to be your first post on a fitness site?

I agree with the other posters that something doesn't smell right with this guy. He has too many "glamorous" and demanding jobs.

That said, I married a 30 year old man when I was 18. I was madly in love with him and we had 3 kids together. And guess what? It ended badly. Very badly. Cops and restraining orders badly. I hate to say this, but a man of that age who is interested in a girl your age may very well have some serious issues. My ex-husband continues to date women far younger than him. He does it because a much younger woman is easier to *control*.

You're an adult. You can do whatever you want. But take things slow and be really careful.

ETA: I'm going to go take a Crying Game shower now. I feel so dirty for feeding the troll.

Lawl.
A plastic surgeon, a dj, a personal trainer, AND owns a nightclub. At 32. Fersrsbro.

age means nothing, I like older guys, 20 to 30 years! GO!

my significant others mother was 15 years younger than her husband (he died. age differences like that tend to leave someone alone) either way they were married. happy. had two kids. never divorced. difference is they were from the same area and she had a crush on him at age 15. i doubt you have known this guy on a personal level. if you have and you know he isnt catfishing you and the idea of potentially being alone for many years because they pass away doesnt bother you...go for it.

...you forgot to mention that he's also a rock star, astronaut, and a french model.