I am beggin, help me lose weight.

it's like you won't listen to anything anyone says. you focus in on one thing that isn't the main point so you can reject all that help and come up with more excuses. just give up.

Are you PMSing ? Take a chill pill. You give up, not me! What the heck do you want?

I've started changing my eating and asked for help staying on track, if your brain is incapable of reading more than 5 words do NOT try to talk to me. READ the whole things and ALL of my responses. I've lost weight and WILL lose weight, while you sit and spread hate and bias statements I WILL THRIVE and IMROVE my life. When it comes to happy life weight is not that big of a deal, I will rather be a 500 lbs HUMAN than a 100 lbs dried shrimp that hates the world and tries to improve unhappy life by snaping at random people online. That's my last message to you. I put you to ignore! Arrivederci!

First, read this: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/819925-the-basics-don-t-complicate-it
Eat at a calorie deficit for weight loss and find an exercise you love for your health. Think portion control and moderation. Weigh, measure and log everything. Be honest. Be patient. Trust the process. It works. You don't need to deprive yourself, just eat less and move more.

This is great info !

Yea, I've started logging EVERYTHING! It does make a difference.

Ask your perfectly built marine boyfriend for support.

He does help but I rarely see him.

Hey everyone. I am 20 year old female, 5'5 , 260 lbs. I've tried and failed for 4 years. I can't control myself. I live with parents so I do not really get to chose food since my dad loves to eat like a man , and I can't handle the smell or presence of yummy food. My problem isn't really that I eat fastfood or junk food, it's more about HOW MUCH. I am sick of being the way I am, I am also prediabetic, but even that doesn't scare me into losing weight. I want to, sooo bad. But I lack self control, please, I am begging you, I am sure there are people just like me who battled through it and lost weight. Please help me.
Thank you.

what do you mean by 'eat like a man'?

That phrase makes me think its encouraged to eat huge amounts of food in your family. I have family members with unhealthy attitudes towards food too. Its all about educating yourself and recognising why you're eating so much//making bad choices//whatever the problem is.

Its all on you though. Nobody can make you lose weight. Maybe a goal to work towards would help motivate you? Like starting C25K, or a fun-run, or something?

Every man I have ever lived with including family and non eats like it's the end of the world. Large quantities of food and as someone said before meat, potatoes, and generally anything that tastes as awesome as a heart attack.

OP, you'll have to learn control. My husband loves to order out a few times a week and because I won't be able to handle the smells, I just order something grilled and small. Maybe a grilled chicken sandwich or a cesar salad instead of fried chicken tenders and rolls. I also cook my own meals and plan them. My husband doesn't want to touch anything I cook because it's either grilled or no sodium added, but I like it and I look nice now.

My parents cook all the food in the house, so if I cook anything it's never eaten therefore they don't like me cooking anything for myself. Mom always say "its HOW much you eat, don't eat like a man." It is not easy when you ate a lot whole life. I lived with grandma when was a kid so I was stuffed day and night more and more food, that's how grandmas are...well most Russian ones anyway. Then it became a habit.
It is tough to go through temptations when they are brought for you. Like we often have pepsi home, I gave that up, I had one can in 2 weeks couple days ago and even then I wasn't happy about the taste, so soda is off the list for me. Yay but today(about every other weekend)parents buy icecream, and not just icecream...the ONLY kind I eat, so it is hard to resist.I usually tell them to buy other kind and they do, but this weekend they wanted this kind .
I ate only one bar,which is still not healthy, but better then 2-3 I would eat.