I am beggin, help me lose weight.

tell your parents about being pre-diabetic..

Log everything
i mean. if eat a piece of popcorn. log it, until you get it under control
You can make your diary private.. but making yourself admit and see what you actually eat will help

I lost 60 pounds total so far.. and that's all i do. I eat all the same foods pretty much.

I do log everything. I already know about how many calories are in what after years of studying, I can tell how much I eat, but logging it shows me exact number.

How long did it take you?

It's took me 8 months to lose 60 pounds. I've been the same weight for 2 months, but i am seeing toning and definition happening.. i work out a lot. it's my stress relief. .. As for my food choices..I've been slacking and I know it.

I don't weigh my food, but if you really struggle with overeating, then you probably should. My issues with diet is vastly different then yours,. but still has the same solution.

Don't give up. Log everything. be consistent. forgive yourself and just keep at it.

If you are going to face your pre-diabetic situation on your own, I hope you are getting educated about what to do.

To stablize your blood sugar and lower your glucose spikes which leads to having a better A1C, you have to stop carb loading. Your pancreas needs a rest. Watch your macros carefully and lower your carb ratio until you get your blood sugar under control.

If you have to eat more of something because you're feeling very hungry, you need to choose a non-carb.

Don't drink juice (unless you are hypo). <-- unless you are on medication, this will not happen, so forget the juice, you don't need it.

Eat fruit instead, but not too much fruit. Fruits are carbs.

Eat more vegetables and proteins. <-- not carbs, these are your friends

Potatos = carbs, peas = carbs, corn = carbs, even beans have lots of carbs, so be careful.

When you choose carbs, choose high fiber carbs, this can help lower blood sugar spikes when you eat carbs. Try to get at least 25 grams of fiber per day, more when you can, and drink a lot of water.

I still think you're a whiner, but I don't wish ill on you and you have to learn how to manage your disease. I was kinda disgusted when you said even being pre-diabetic wasn't enough to scare you into losing weight. wtf will it take? I dunno.

Maybe when you have to start injecting insulin? How are you going to keep that a secret? Do you not check your blood sugar? How do you hide the test strips, sharps container, and lancets? Or do you just tell yourself that if you don't monitor your blood sugar it must be okay?

I also think you're a coward for not telling your parents.

If you were living on your own, I'd say your fate was in your own hands. But, you're their dependant still, and it's wrong of you not to tell them because what they do is directly affecting your health because you have so much trouble controlling yourself.

Ya know, at first it seemed like you were saying your parents were making you fat and keeping you that way. But as your story progresses, it seems like you have probably been encouraged to eat less on several occassions, but you cannot resist certain food triggers.

You NEED them to help you. You just don't want your yummy food taken away.

I think you don't like it when you're told to 'not eat like a man' and you like your habit. And I think you know that if you tell them that you are having a health issue that requires new eating habits, while you depend on them for housing and food, that your food will get policed because they'll want to help you, and you don't want your food to be monitored by your parents.

Not telling your parents that you need dietary restructuring is allowing them to poison you and then you continue to blame them for buying yummy things that you like and making your life hard. You can't have it both ways.

Edited for: TL;DR - Tell your parents about your disease, get educated about your disease, monitor your blood sugar, and don't carb load.

Source: Diabetes runs in my family Type I & II. I have PCOS which includes insulin resistance. And I helped my mom with her blood sugar testing and hypo-events since I was a child.

That's true. If you can avoid diabetes then do so. Whatever it takes. it's not fun to have it. Thankfully I do not, but I have a lot of family and friends that do and I hate watching them inject themselves or suddenly start sweating and shaking. Twice a friend of mine collapsed in a store because her sugar dropped. it's not fun. Plus there are a lot of other medical things that diabetes can cause. It should scare you. You need to tell your family. Don't let them find out when you collapse from an unexpected sugar drop like my uncle did. Scared the crap out of us, and if we had known his condition we could have helped him. Instead we called 911 and he laid there for 30 minutes until they got there. If we knew what he had, we could have fed him sooner, or giving him insulin after he collapsed. it is manageable, but the time to ask for help is now, when you can still do something about it.

If you focus on calories and protein you will automatically eat less carbs. Boil eggs, get cheese sticks, drink milk, put meat on your plate every meal. Tuna and chicken are usually fairly inexpensive. You can get swai fillet, tilipia and other fish fairly inexpensive too if you shop around.

Take control of you weight loss...stop blaming your family and your lack of control. You can do it it you want it bad enough. You are a young lady and should be doing more in the way of exercise. Once you decide getting healthier is more important than over eating, consult with a trainer and a nutritionist. Getting healthy and losing weight it's all about your mind set if your are not mentally committed you will not succeed. I have a lot of weight to lose and I work at it everyday. Good Luck!

Can you buy foods yourself and put that in a special section in your fridge, and kitchen cabinets can you tell others not to eat that food? Can you stash some food in your room - even maybe investing in a small refrigerator (like hotels have these)... i mean really if it takes something like that, it might. If you are stuck eating what your mom cooks, you will have to adjust the portions so it comes within your calories MFP sets.

I know you are probably tired of hearing this and I can understand that you do not want to worry your parents, but now is your chance to prevent a major illness. Do it while you can , if it is too late, you will regret it. There are so many other health risks that a person with diabetes faces, and I don't think these risks should be taken lightly.
This is not only about losing weight, it is also about how you eat and how much you exercise. You said you have already lost weight, congratulations, that is a great achievement. Would have any opportunity to see a nutritionist that could help you with your dietary requirements? He//she can give you valuable information that can help you on your road to success.
Believe me when I say, I have been there. When I was pregnant with our fourth child, I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes. It was not fun, believe me. Though it went away after the pregnancy, I knew that I would always be at a high risk of becoming diabetic again. Being short sighted and feeling that I could not control myself around food, I am now reaping some of the seeds I have sown over the years: Over 100 pds to loose, fatty liver, gallstones, to name a few. I am on a ton of medications now and I never would have thought I would have to take medications. I have always been healthy (so I thought). I'm at risk of type II diabetes and diseases that can go along with it. Luckily, I can still turn things around, but it would have been easier to it right away , 12 years ago after the birth of our daughter.
Please do anything you can to get yourself healthy now while you are young. You do not want to wait too long and then face uphill battles and obstacles that are far more difficult to overcome because your health has deteriorated along the way.
I hope you don't feel I am sticking my nose too deep into your personal business, but I have four children and as a Mom I can tell you, I would do anything to help my child to be/stay/get healthy, because I love each one of them. Yes, I would worry about them, but being able to help them would outweigh the worry.
I wish you the best of luck.