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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

    2 When is the last time you told her?

    About eight seconds ago. And sixteen. And 24. You get the point.

    I squeezed her *kitten*, kissed her cheek and whispered in her ear that I loved her this morning before I left for work while she was still in bed. Does that count? If not, then last night after midnight, sometime well after festivities were over.
  • RunningForeverMama
    RunningForeverMama Posts: 261 Member
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    Forget subtle hints. Just tell him what you want.

    Then tell him again.

    And if he doesn't figure it out, make cue cards for him. "Your line is, 'you look great tonight, honey!'"

    Ok, that is silly. But truly. Just. tell. him. Give him guidelines:

    "Honey, twice a day I need you to tell me that I'm beautiful, and give me a kiss."

    It'll feel stupid at first, and you'll roll your eyes and laugh about it. . . . but he'll say it anyway, and you'll hear it, and you'll both enjoy the kissing. Right?

    Subtlety in spousal communication is mostly a set-up for resentment. So skip that. In my opinion.

    Then again saying it because the wife told you so and saying it spontaneously because you mean it are not the same. In some ways it is worse than not hearing it at all. Double-edged sword.
  • ChefTJP
    ChefTJP Posts: 108 Member
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    I wish I would have told her more often. thats why I am in the situation i am in...
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

    The point is to make her feel wanted.
    ^^^^^ Yes

    I've been married 15 years and he sucked at it for a very long time, but is much better now because I was honest with him about how he made me feel when he didn't vocalize how he feels. And vice versa for me, too.

    A slap on my *kitten* does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
    A "I wanna bang you" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"
    A "Look at your boobs and *kitten*" does not = "you are sexy and beautiful"

    In man talk, yes, it does.

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    Oh, this I know, so he usually gets a pass with just physically "telling" me, but lady talk and need is usually different. :smooched:
  • JDBLY11
    JDBLY11 Posts: 577 Member
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    I'm not married but I hope I never have a wife who I need to remind is sexy. She should know that @#%^ on her own. It needs to come from the mirror, not me.

    I don't even know what to say to this horsesh!t.
    Reminds me of an old joke, or was it a line in a movie? In response to a wife who asked her husband again to tell her that he loves her he said: "I told you when we got married I love you and I'll let you know if anything changes!"

    I have heard that before. I think some people just are not as expressive about their love for somebody. I have some family members like that. My dad is not really expressive about how he feels verbally and sometimes can say things with a negative bent when he is really saying something positive. He shows his love more by working really hard for my mom, providing wonderful things for her and making things stable and secure. He is more of a gift giver and server and I think I am getting more like that because words without action just are not that meaningful. Both are important. I kind of wish my husband was a little more like my dad because even though my husband is great at the nice comments and affection, he is not good at working hard, providing the best, and so on.
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
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    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    I'm not a fella and I don't want to stir anything up, but when was the last time you made a solid effort to do something sexy for your husband? When was the last time you told him he was sexy?
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
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    My husband probably compliments me once or twice a week. I like to pretend he thinks it more often....:grumble:
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,951 Member
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    1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

    2 When is the last time you told her?

    Today.
    Right before she left for work.

    She gets more validation than she wants. Apparently, i'm a little handsy. Heh.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,951 Member
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    Lucky wifes! Obviously marriages work out best when sex drive and compliments are equal and balanced for both partners. Any advice on how to "train" my hubby?

    I'm not a fella and I don't want to stir anything up, but when was the last time you made a solid effort to do something sexy for your husband? When was the last time you told him he was sexy?

    boom goes the dynamite.
  • TheBitSlinger
    TheBitSlinger Posts: 621 Member
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    1 When is the last time you thought your wife was sexy?

    2 When is the last time you told her?

    1. Last night...

    2. While she was climbing on top of me... "My exact words were, 'You just don't understand how awesome you are.'"
  • JasonT1973
    JasonT1973 Posts: 229 Member
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    Don't have one...

    But letting your S.O. know they are attractive is important.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
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    My husband tells me I'm "hot" several times a day. I am convinced he's telling me the truth because I get A LOT of positive attention. :wink: The feeling is mutual. You gotta give love to get it. :love:


    ETA: By "telling" me, I mean verbally, physically, or maybe even just a wink. There are many ways to communicate attraction.
  • TheBitSlinger
    TheBitSlinger Posts: 621 Member
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    Typically (emphasis on typically) women trend towards having strong emotional needs and men trend towards having strong physical needs. If the emotional needs of a woman are met, they often explode into physical demonstration of that met need. Conversely, if a man's physical needs are met, they tend to be a helluva lot more emotionally connected.

    DING! DING! DING!
  • Mguilmot
    Mguilmot Posts: 232 Member
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    1 Multiple times, every single day, today was no exception.
    2 Two hours ago.
  • usernameMAMA
    usernameMAMA Posts: 681 Member
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    Not a fella but my hubby is up my *kitten* all day.

    Hmmmm. You're a great wife.

    LOL! Not literally! I'm a special occasion kind of girl:)
  • xapril77x
    xapril77x Posts: 248 Member
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    I'm a wife & my husband is VERY busy with work & stressed but he tells & shows me often! I never doubt his attraction towards me... Now, as far as being emotionally "constipated" as u put it, ya! My husband doesn't express luv & care very well or any of those types of things... :ohwell: I think it's just his personality... nothing personal 2 do with me...
  • SkinnyFatAlbert
    SkinnyFatAlbert Posts: 482 Member
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    Not a fella but my hubby is up my *kitten* all day.

    Hmmmm. You're a great wife.

    LOL! Not literally! I'm a special occasion kind of girl:)


    WHAT?!

    What does that mean?

    Like u only do it on special occasions?

    I get cranky if we miss one day a week!

    I think she's referring specifically to the pooper. Or are you also?

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