Looking for new MFP who are real people trying

This43IsNotMe
This43IsNotMe Posts: 17 Member
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I was on here about 8 months ago on the advice from a trainer at the gym. I ended up in a group of her and her perfect trainer friends...it sucked! Logging on i got stressed and the judgement if a glass of wine showed up on my diary was just crazy. I had lost 72lbs before getting the trainer and coming on here...in the past 8 months am up 16. I ditched the trainer, ended that account and got on here a new. I think it is a good accountability system but i want to do it with real people, who have real solutions (not just drink protien shakes 8 times a day and run 20 miles...which im sure works but just not for me). So if your looking to give and get real support, help with hits and tricks for weight loss, party survival etc... and not judge but encourage than hit me up to add on as a friend!
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  • Jetttie
    Jetttie Posts: 9
    Adding you! :)
  • NixiNonna88
    NixiNonna88 Posts: 2 Member
    Adding you.. Good luck!
  • hopeinmn
    hopeinmn Posts: 35 Member
    No judgement here. Feel free to add me.
  • lewcompton
    lewcompton Posts: 881 Member
    No judgment here... My diary is open to friends if you want to glean it for ideas that work for a foodie... I comment often and try to avoid the judgments... I have a glass house and hate having to replace windows. Anyone is welcome to add me.
  • JADEPH0EN1X
    JADEPH0EN1X Posts: 162 Member
    I definitely don't judge anyone , feel free to add to me !!
  • phrancly
    phrancly Posts: 10 Member
    Woah, judgement is not what this is about.
    Feel free to add me. I drink a glass of wine or a beer almost every night too. :)
  • danomyte66
    danomyte66 Posts: 7
    Whoa man! NFL Sunday I ended up with 3 beers and 3 shots. Ended the day with 1/2 pizza. I'm still completely on track! In the end, we're here to enjoy our lives more fully, yes? For me, that includes occasional excess :)
  • BBrass130
    BBrass130 Posts: 1
    Hi Guys! Add me too! I'm doing some "unconventional" dieting.. so i need some support from open minded people :D
    ADD IT UP ADD IT UP!:laugh:
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    Wow...hit on you and add you as a friend....Love that! I usually have to warn people first....
  • SpunkiMama
    SpunkiMama Posts: 70 Member
    Adding you!! Great post!!

    I too have lost over 100lb, and in the course of time I have gained some back... that is called LIFE.. I am not perfect, I do not expect myself to be, nor do Have that expectation of others...

    I get so annoyed with judgemental know-it-all's ... I know my body, I know what It needs, I know what I need to do.. I am 38yrs old, i wants friends...that will encourage and support AND motivate me. by seeing my MFP friends kickin Butt , it makes me want to kick some butt too..

    Anyone who wants to be a friends, and not a judgemental know-it-all about fitness... Add me.. :o)
  • SpunkiMama
    SpunkiMama Posts: 70 Member
    Whoa man! NFL Sunday I ended up with 3 beers and 3 shots. Ended the day with 1/2 pizza. I'm still completely on track! In the end, we're here to enjoy our lives more fully, yes? For me, that includes occasional excess :)

    HaHa

    Love my Twisted Tea's on Saturday Nights... =)
  • gingabebe
    gingabebe Posts: 165 Member
    FR sent! I drink some wine here and there and even some moonshine on occasion! Hey, it's low carb!

    I don't get the judgement on people's dairies. I don't have any friends that do that thank goodness.
  • TakingControl13
    TakingControl13 Posts: 107
    Aww. Ill add you.
  • twistedbutterfly
    twistedbutterfly Posts: 61 Member
    Please feel free to add me. I don't judge others :)
  • kendradl
    kendradl Posts: 595 Member
    Def no judgement from here either, friend request on it's way :smile:
  • e911dispatch
    e911dispatch Posts: 20 Member
    you can add me if you want..
  • easto_79
    easto_79 Posts: 102 Member
    I'll add you, I judge myself enough don't need help there. :)
    But am always looking for friends to comment postive and negative :)
  • Leigh_b
    Leigh_b Posts: 576 Member
    sending FR....
  • dantanjah
    dantanjah Posts: 100 Member
    Feel free to add me as a friend. I will give positive encouragement and I do not judge. Good luck we can do this together!
  • Camera_BagintheUK
    Camera_BagintheUK Posts: 707 Member
    Well, I had a sausage sandwich for lunch and a huge chocolate muffin this afternoon - will I do?????
  • xeno8604
    xeno8604 Posts: 193 Member
    Gonna add ya, no judging from me!!
  • Funky_Mabel
    Funky_Mabel Posts: 17 Member
    I'm a real person, a real fat person so I'm with you. You have my support. No guilt if you have a glass of wine, only if you follow it with a pound cake. Then I will get on to you.
  • murphey21
    murphey21 Posts: 126 Member
    no judging here either. We are all on here for one thing to get healthy! I am adding you as we speak. Good luck!
  • futuresoonermom
    futuresoonermom Posts: 8 Member
    No judging here! I just started yesterday and am excited to see how everyone else is meeting their goals! :smile:
  • This43IsNotMe
    This43IsNotMe Posts: 17 Member
    Yes! So looking for people where the motivation goes both ways.
  • nordakota
    nordakota Posts: 48 Member
    Good post! I'm with you on that! It looks like you have lots of pal options :happy:
  • This43IsNotMe
    This43IsNotMe Posts: 17 Member
    Love it! I'm convinced there has to be a way to be fit and enjoy life from time to time in moderation.
  • lessofless
    lessofless Posts: 40 Member
    Haha, I can see why that would be hard to stay motivated. It's hard when you feel like you can't mess up.
  • rayannekruse
    rayannekruse Posts: 7 Member
    No one can like running that much and protein shakes taste like chalk. I actively cheat everyday...otherwise I binge and completely fall off for multiple days. I'll add you!
  • SilentMelody
    SilentMelody Posts: 57 Member
    No judging. Everyone has their moments (and a glass of wine is not one of them.. isn't red wine good for you anyway?) and besides, the only way to reach success is to have your cheat days and allow yourself those little moments of splurging happiness or you'll just fail. Kudos to you for ditching that trainer and doing things your way, as long as it works, keep doing it :)
    I'm currently doing a reset of my own fitness goals.

    Adding :) and anyone else that wants to add me, feel free.

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