I like a girl but does she like me?

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  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    She's not interested. Next.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    I honestly don't feel like she's going to say anything about the lunch date. It was just a crush. Just a crush.
  • Don't be defined by who loves or likes you. You are an amazing and unique individual and your job on this earth is to find your purpose and the reason you breath each day, that will bring you purpose and attract the right people you should be hanging with. Focus on you, don't get bummed out. Work on becoming your best self. Delete her number. She's not good enough for you.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    We're suppose to go have lunch together on Monday, this was planned after she cancelled on me the second time which was Thursday night but I already deleted her phone number. So I guess if she really still wants to grab lunch, she'll let me know.

    all in all I think you are expecting to be treated badly because you said you were formerly a "jerk" to someone. thus you are sending bad signals and BAM self fulfilling prophecy. Give this girl ONE more chance to call you about the lunch date. Only you can know if she is truly that busy of a person for which things just might "come up" often. Then you can decide if you can handle that kind of lifestyle. Don't talk yourself out of a new fling due to an old relationship. All relationships are learning ground until the big one, marriage and so just chalk it up as learning and forgive yourself and start FRESH with this girl or the next. Don't hold on to guilt, because it will hold on to you harder.
  • Women don't like men that are not confident. ACT like you can get anyone you want. Stop texting her and move on.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Just looking for someone to talk too. My love life sucks. I like this girl but I don't believe she likes me as much. Had a date scheduled with her twice and she cancelled on me twice even though she said she wanted to go. I guess it's a hopeless situation. To top it off I believe she might be aggrevated with me for texting her while she was sleeping. It was just a crush. She hates me. Time to move on yeah? I really wanted to ask her if she wanted to go see some Christmas lights but im just kidding myself. :(

    You are a game to her,she is a user...no person,male or female,needs that person.

    If they want to treat you that way,tell them to eff off,nothing is lost and you do no revisit this feeling.
  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    Sunday is almost over and she didn't text me. It's over. I'm going to cry myself to sleep.
  • darkrose20
    darkrose20 Posts: 1,139 Member
    Just looking for someone to talk too. My love life sucks. I like this girl but I don't believe she likes me as much. Had a date scheduled with her twice and she cancelled on me twice even though she said she wanted to go. I guess it's a hopeless situation. To top it off I believe she might be aggrevated with me for texting her while she was sleeping. It was just a crush. She hates me. Time to move on yeah? I really wanted to ask her if she wanted to go see some Christmas lights but im just kidding myself. :(

    She really, secretly likes you a whole lot. She's just playing hard to get. No means maybe and yes means yes. /sarcasm
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    Sunday is almost over and she didn't text me. It's over. I'm going to cry myself to sleep.

    no one bats .1000 brother

    you can make the hall of fame batting .0300

    chin up
  • heylookitsval
    heylookitsval Posts: 1,141 Member
    Plenty of fish in the sea. Girls like her are the reason we get a bad rap!
  • cdahl383
    cdahl383 Posts: 726 Member
    Don't waste your time on girls like that. Just enjoy life and if you put yourself out there, you'll meet someone that actually wants to be with you.

    I met my wife from an online dating site. Was just about to give up on the online dating scene due to some crummy dates and then she messaged me one day and now 7 years later we've been married for 6 years and have two kids.

    You'll meet someone cool, but you sure won't meet anyone cool feeling sorry for yourself or chasing after flaky girls that wont return your call or follow through on your date plans. You deserve better than that.
  • meeper123
    meeper123 Posts: 3,347 Member
    Hey just get out there and find someone more suited to you. There is more than one girl of your dreams out there you just have to find the one that is also into you. Also don't be super aggressive when courting a girl it can be off putting. Just be yourself and real.
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    Chlamydibrah, shut up. You're like a 9.5/10, how could you relate to this?
    wot the fok did ye just say 2 me m8? i dropped out of newcastle primary skool im the sickest bloke ull ever meet & ive nicked ova 300 chocolate globbernaughts frum tha corner shop. im trained in street fitin' & im the strongest foker in tha entire newcastle gym. yer nothin to me but a cheeky lil bellend w/ a fit mum & fakebling. ill waste u and smash a fokin bottle oer yer head bruv, i swer 2 christ. ya think u can fokin run ya gabber at me whilst sittin on yer *kitten* behind a lil screen? think again wanka. im callin me homeboys rite now preparin for a proper scrap. A roomble thatll make ur nan sore jus hearin about it. yer a waste bruv. me crew be all over tha place & ill beat ya to a proper fokin pulp with me fists wanka. if i aint satisfied w/ that ill borrow me m8s cricket paddle & see if that gets u the fok out o' newcastle ya daft kunt. if ye had seen this bloody fokin mess commin ye might a' kept ya gabber from runnin. but it seems yea stupid lil *kitten*, innit? ima ****e fury & ull drown in it m8. ur ina proper mess knob.
  • Perplexities
    Perplexities Posts: 612 Member
    Chlamydibrah, shut up. You're like a 9.5/10, how could you relate to this?
    wot the fok did ye just say 2 me m8? i dropped out of newcastle primary skool im the sickest bloke ull ever meet & ive nicked ova 300 chocolate globbernaughts frum tha corner shop. im trained in street fitin' & im the strongest foker in tha entire newcastle gym. yer nothin to me but a cheeky lil bellend w/ a fit mum & fakebling. ill waste u and smash a fokin bottle oer yer head bruv, i swer 2 christ. ya think u can fokin run ya gabber at me whilst sittin on yer *kitten* behind a lil screen? think again wanka. im callin me homeboys rite now preparin for a proper scrap. A roomble thatll make ur nan sore jus hearin about it. yer a waste bruv. me crew be all over tha place & ill beat ya to a proper fokin pulp with me fists wanka. if i aint satisfied w/ that ill borrow me m8s cricket paddle & see if that gets u the fok out o' newcastle ya daft kunt. if ye had seen this bloody fokin mess commin ye might a' kept ya gabber from runnin. but it seems yea stupid lil *kitten*, innit? ima ****e fury & ull drown in it m8. ur ina proper mess knob.

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  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    Just looking for someone to talk too. My love life sucks. I like this girl but I don't believe she likes me as much. Had a date scheduled with her twice and she cancelled on me twice even though she said she wanted to go. I guess it's a hopeless situation. To top it off I believe she might be aggrevated with me for texting her while she was sleeping. It was just a crush. She hates me. Time to move on yeah? I really wanted to ask her if she wanted to go see some Christmas lights but im just kidding myself. :(

    Sweet baby Jesus - are you 12?

    Get a life. Seriously. Don't waste your time, talent and energy waiting on some chick who probably isn't all that great to begin with to text you. Invest it in your work, your passions, your dreams.

    Then, when your life is golden through that personal investment, you will be the one girls are waiting on to call...
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    no
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    Here's what you do..... If she has a sister, go seduce her. Have hot monkey lovin with her all night and then hook up with her as many times as she lets you. If she doesn't have a sister, target the best friend. Girls love that and she will come running back to you,
  • Ralthor125
    Ralthor125 Posts: 139 Member
    Okay enough of this. You my friend need a hobby. You are caught up in being infatuated with a girl to the point that you are missing out on life. I don't know your age and hope you are an adult I'm typing to. Get out! Go do some community volunteer work, meet new people. Find what your worth is in life and then, and only then, try and find a person to share that life with. You will find that when you help people, you will be more open and outgoing...you will know your worth, and others will see it. She may call you one day to make that date, and you will be able to honestly say that you have been helping people/community...she WILL find this to be a point in your direction as anyone would respect a man who gives up some of his time to help others...that and you will enjoy the feeling of being a part of life.
  • Jimaudit
    Jimaudit Posts: 275
    What do you expect with that kind of picture?

    But seriously coming to a weight loss centric website to cry about a girl is just sad dude, sad.
  • Sunday is almost over and she didn't text me. It's over. I'm going to cry myself to sleep.


    Whaaaaaaaaaat? Seriously?