Bad Dates!

I had met this guy at a bar and we were going to go for coffee afterwards.
I had my car with me so I offered to drive us.
On our way I got a flat tire. I thought men liked cars and doing these types of things...apparently not this guy!
I changed the tire while he sat in the car the entire time.. he never offered to help or to see if I was ok!!
When I was done I got back in the car, started it and told him to get out. I made him walk home!

I went out on a date with a girl, and she didn't bring me a ready made sandwich or wash the dishes, I thought women liked to do these things. Made her walk home.

I thought that exact thing. I think you're being too hard on the guy...It would have been nice if he had talked to you while you were changing your tire...but if he didn't know how...would you really want him offering help? Nice job though on knowing how to change a tire

Too funny... I went on a date with a man recently that just, ugh. He was coming at me to kiss me good-night with his mouth all the way open and his tongue hanging out! OMG, horrible!

I had met this guy at a bar and we were going to go for coffee afterwards.
I had my car with me so I offered to drive us.
On our way I got a flat tire. I thought men liked cars and doing these types of things...apparently not this guy!
I changed the tire while he sat in the car the entire time.. he never offered to help or to see if I was ok!!
When I was done I got back in the car, started it and told him to get out. I made him walk home!

I went out on a date with a girl, and she didn't bring me a ready made sandwich or wash the dishes, I thought women liked to do these things. Made her walk home.

I thought that exact thing. I think you're being too hard on the guy...It would have been nice if he had talked to you while you were changing your tire...but if he didn't know how...would you really want him offering help? Nice job though on knowing how to change a tire

I was 19, it was 2 am and we were in a deserted parking lot with barely any light.
The least he could've done was stand outside with me. Maybe offer to hold the flashlight.

I had met this guy at a bar and we were going to go for coffee afterwards.
I had my car with me so I offered to drive us.
On our way I got a flat tire. I thought men liked cars and doing these types of things...apparently not this guy!
I changed the tire while he sat in the car the entire time.. he never offered to help or to see if I was ok!!
When I was done I got back in the car, started it and told him to get out. I made him walk home!

I went out on a date with a girl, and she didn't bring me a ready made sandwich or wash the dishes, I thought women liked to do these things. Made her walk home.

I thought that exact thing. I think you're being too hard on the guy...It would have been nice if he had talked to you while you were changing your tire...but if he didn't know how...would you really want him offering help? Nice job though on knowing how to change a tire

I was 19, it was 2 am and we were in a deserted parking lot with barely any light.
The least he could've done was stand outside with me. Maybe offer to hold the flashlight.

You ended up marrying him didn't you? Com'on...tell the truth!

I had met this guy at a bar and we were going to go for coffee afterwards.
I had my car with me so I offered to drive us.
On our way I got a flat tire. I thought men liked cars and doing these types of things...apparently not this guy!
I changed the tire while he sat in the car the entire time.. he never offered to help or to see if I was ok!!
When I was done I got back in the car, started it and told him to get out. I made him walk home!

I went out on a date with a girl, and she didn't bring me a ready made sandwich or wash the dishes, I thought women liked to do these things. Made her walk home.

I thought that exact thing. I think you're being too hard on the guy...It would have been nice if he had talked to you while you were changing your tire...but if he didn't know how...would you really want him offering help? Nice job though on knowing how to change a tire

I was 19, it was 2 am and we were in a deserted parking lot with barely any light.
The least he could've done was stand outside with me. Maybe offer to hold the flashlight.

I might be old fashioned but, there is NO WAY I am going to let a woman I am with change a tire or pump her own gas.
Not as long as I am with her.
Now, exceptions would be that if she really insists on doing it or wants to learn how to do it.
Even if she insists, I will still at least move tires around and help where she asks.

Some people might think I am chauvinistic. I personally just think it is good manners.

A few years ago I went on a date with a guy I met on geek2geek ... he was NOT a spitting image of his profile pics to say the least (not sure if he shopped his photos or got in a horrible accident, but it was one of the two), and at the end of the date he pulled the "oh crap I forgot my card ... can you get this?" - totally saw him almost pull his card out. He also then tried to kiss me before I got in my car, but I dodged that bullet pretty quick. I like going halfsies on bills during dates, especially for the first few. I would never assume I'm being paid for, and I would never pull that lie on someone. If you can't pay, we should go on a date that won't cost us money ... like a nice hike or something else outdoors... maybe go to a museum, something, I don't know. He did not get a second date, and I'm not using g2g again. xD

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I'm feeling pretty lucky that my worst date was with a perfectly nice guy with no personality who had a hard time carrying on a conversation.

Once, I'd say this was probably about a year and a half ago, I went on a date with a guy I met online. He knew how much I love flowers/gardens/trees/nature and so he planned to take us to the Botanical Gardens. Please keep in mind that this date was at 2 in the afternoon, In Texas... in June. Moving on, he picked me up and honked for me to come outside. Then when I got in the car I noticed that the music playing was obnoxious, so I asked who it was and he hands me the case to a Selena Gomez CD.

Once we are at the gardens he has me take a ridiculous amount of pictures of him striking different poses (crouched with his elbow on his knee lightly touching his chin with his forefinger) and made me retake each photo multiple times. We decided to sit on a bench after walking around for a bit. He sits right next to me, sides touching and puts his arm around me. In my head I'm thinking (Dear Lord, it's a million degrees and 100% humidity, I have spent a total of MAYBE an hour with this guy and he is already getting this close and everything?).

That's when it happened. That vile act that ended it all.

He spotted a single tiny droplet of sweat rolling down my neck... and licked it off.

That one act was so disgusting that it managed to win worst date ever. And I've had some bad dates, one of which was running drugs and another was to sell a gun but neither of those left me feeling as violated as that one public act of tongue on neck action.

ew.

Um, can I get his number?

Once, I'd say this was probably about a year and a half ago, I went on a date with a guy I met online. He knew how much I love flowers/gardens/trees/nature and so he planned to take us to the Botanical Gardens. Please keep in mind that this date was at 2 in the afternoon, In Texas... in June. Moving on, he picked me up and honked for me to come outside. Then when I got in the car I noticed that the music playing was obnoxious, so I asked who it was and he hands me the case to a Selena Gomez CD.

Once we are at the gardens he has me take a ridiculous amount of pictures of him striking different poses (crouched with his elbow on his knee lightly touching his chin with his forefinger) and made me retake each photo multiple times. We decided to sit on a bench after walking around for a bit. He sits right next to me, sides touching and puts his arm around me. In my head I'm thinking (Dear Lord, it's a million degrees and 100% humidity, I have spent a total of MAYBE an hour with this guy and he is already getting this close and everything?).

That's when it happened. That vile act that ended it all.

He spotted a single tiny droplet of sweat rolling down my neck... and licked it off.

That one act was so disgusting that it managed to win worst date ever. And I've had some bad dates, one of which was running drugs and another was to sell a gun but neither of those left me feeling as violated as that one public act of tongue on neck action.

ew.

Live at the bottom of Texas and know exactley what your talking about!

Once, I'd say this was probably about a year and a half ago, I went on a date with a guy I met online. He knew how much I love flowers/gardens/trees/nature and so he planned to take us to the Botanical Gardens. Please keep in mind that this date was at 2 in the afternoon, In Texas... in June. Moving on, he picked me up and honked for me to come outside. Then when I got in the car I noticed that the music playing was obnoxious, so I asked who it was and he hands me the case to a Selena Gomez CD.

Once we are at the gardens he has me take a ridiculous amount of pictures of him striking different poses (crouched with his elbow on his knee lightly touching his chin with his forefinger) and made me retake each photo multiple times. We decided to sit on a bench after walking around for a bit. He sits right next to me, sides touching and puts his arm around me. In my head I'm thinking (Dear Lord, it's a million degrees and 100% humidity, I have spent a total of MAYBE an hour with this guy and he is already getting this close and everything?).

That's when it happened. That vile act that ended it all.

He spotted a single tiny droplet of sweat rolling down my neck... and licked it off.

That one act was so disgusting that it managed to win worst date ever. And I've had some bad dates, one of which was running drugs and another was to sell a gun but neither of those left me feeling as violated as that one public act of tongue on neck action.

ew.

Live at the bottom of Texas and know exactley what your talking about!

Yeah, it should be a rule in Texas to never go on an outdoor date between the hours of 11Am-9Pm during the months of June-Sept. Or at all outside during those days. lol

<<< CHEAP GUY MAGNET!!!

1. Guy 1 takes me out to expensive Greek place. Does not let me order anything. Orders himself a $40 leg of lamb. Does not offer me any and does not finish his meal. Asks for a box to go as I sit there starving.

2. Guy 2 asks me out to expensive Italian restaurant. We took the bus there. Strike 1. We finished our food and he didn't let me order dessert. Strike 2. Says he has no money and TELLS me to pay the bill. Strike 3.

3. Guy 3 invites me to his house to play Xbox. When I get there, he doesn't let me touch anything. Not allowed to touch the Xbox controller, cannot LOOK at his movie collection, cannot do anything but sit on the couch. He ends up trying to rape me saying that he can see that I'm the kind of girl that likes that kind of thing. WHAT?!

<<< CHEAP GUY MAGNET!!!

1. Guy 1 takes me out to expensive Greek place. Does not let me order anything. Orders himself a $40 leg of lamb. Does not offer me any and does not finish his meal. Asks for a box to go as I sit there starving.

2. Guy 2 asks me out to expensive Italian restaurant. We took the bus there. Strike 1. We finished our food and he didn't let me order dessert. Strike 2. Says he has no money and TELLS me to pay the bill. Strike 3.

3. Guy 3 invites me to his house to play Xbox. When I get there, he doesn't let me touch anything. Not allowed to touch the Xbox controller, cannot LOOK at his movie collection, cannot do anything but sit on the couch. He ends up trying to rape me saying that he can see that I'm the kind of girl that likes that kind of thing. WHAT?!

You actually stuck around with Guy #1 to see him not finish his meal??? Guy #2 should've gotten a throat punch and dish duty, and #3...WTH?!

Guy 1 drove so I couldn't just walk off. Guy 2, it's not too late to do that, right? Guy 3, I have no friggin clue.

I met this guy a year ago on Hogmanay. I lost my friends who he knew and he helped me find them and get home. The next day he asked my friend for my number so he could ask me on a date (I was that drunk I couldn't remember what the boy looked like) . My friend bigged him up like, he's so great, so nice, muscular, doing a sports degree, tall etc. I thought he must have been a nice guy because he took the time out to help me find my friends and get home safely....so I agreed.

I walked to the shopping centre with my friend who told me to go on the date to meet the guy . I was fairly excited and nervous as although id had relationships I'd never really had that first date. My friend left me with this smug smile on her face , telling me to "have a great time".

The guy was 1hr late. I stood at the place we agreed to meet, with him texting me saying "sorry stayed at the gym longer with the lads be there soon". When he eventually came over I didn't even realise it was him. He was nothing like my friend described. I'm 5ft 7 this guy was 5ft 1... So much for tall. I'm not too picky but I don't like guys shorter than me. He stank of sweat covered up by aftershave and when he started speaking he had a lisp. He was the complete opposite of what my friend described him to be and what I had got my hopes up for.

He immediately tried to hold my hand and we had already agreed to see a film at the cinema and get lunch. The whole way through lunch he came across as arrogant he only spoke about himself, the gym, having lad sesh at the gym, girls he's got with and how he was going to order tshirts for him and his gym buddies saying ***** patrol. (not for a joke or out of fun but to be deadly serious), they thought they were all amazing and could have any girl drop at their feet . I wasn't that overweight at this point but still felt really uncomfortable as he bragged on about his body fat % and how amazing he was at everything athletic. I can understand he's proud of his achievement and that's fantastic but it's just the way he went on and on about it and ignored most questions I asked and turned it into something gym or how great he is. Which for me is tmi for a first date. I then ended up footing the entire bill for the lunch, after me not eating barley anything and him choosing the most expensive thing on the menu (I don't mind paying my half).

In the cinema, seeing a film we both agreed on, which I was trying to watch genuinely. He kept speaking really loudly through the film even though the cinema was packed. Again he went on about what do I think the colour of his gym tshirts should be (the first question he'd asked me the whole date btw). He then decided he couldn't understand the film so he was going to speak loudly the whole way through even when people shushed him he got louder. I was mortified. He kept trying to make the moves on me and constantly kiss me. When by this point I had already decided I wasn't really interested. Till eventually he grabbed me forced his tongue in my mouth. I wasn't happy about this, not to mention he was like a washing machine.

After he wanted to extend the date and go shopping for shirts for him, that makes him look even more ripped by buying 3 or 4 sizes too small. While he modelled them and I had to give my opinion. Honestly, I wanted to leave and tried to, but he knew that we got the same bus as it stops at where I live on route to his stop.

He continued to try and kiss me, hug me, grope me, tell me how great the date was and how I should totally come swimming with him. (Even though I told him I'm a horrible swimmer) and should also go for a gym sesh with his mates.

When we got on the bus he told people he knew that I was his gf. Then after I left he continued to text me constantly the end when I stopped replying.

When I eventually plucked up the courage to reply and to tell him that I didn't want to be in a relationship nor go on a second date nor go to his house that night, which I couldn't have been politer about. He turned round saying like a child, I never wanted those things anyway and tried to make it out to me that he was dumping me not the other way about. Haha


Fair to say I never trusted what my friend says about guys again although she got a great laugh about it and it turns out that her and all her friends knew and were having a great laugh at my expense, because they knew he wouldn't be my type and that if have the date from hell.

Okay, I have time to write out my worst date finally!

So I am 16 and newly single. There is a male friend that I like, and our friends are trying to convince us that we both like eachother. He is painfully shy of course, and we are both young and sheltered. It is difficult with our school schedules to get some time alone together but we finally manage. We are sitting there chatting and he tells me that a mutual friend said he should try to kiss me. I agree that it is a good idea, so he goes for it.

And he puts his gum in my mouth. With his mouth. That is the whole kiss.