Help me learn from my mistakes

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  • Cindyinpg
    Cindyinpg Posts: 3,902 Member
    It is not unhealthy to moderate yourself to eat healthier. Your statement is an oxymoron. Instead of pigging out on two pieces of cake, I try to limit myself to one piece and maybe jello or something more healthier, how can that be bad advice. There are foods that are unhealthy when pigged out on. Not sure about you but I can't do deprivation, but I can replace to limit these foods, most doctors would agree with me.
    You're backpedalling a little. You just said "The junk food you love has to be replaced with healthier snacks." Now you're saying one piece of cake is fine, but not two... What is your stance, moderation or elimination? I'm confused.


    Geez, it was one piece of advice. I didn't think this community was full of such bullies. Just like you are free to make suggestions about what works for you withou being attacked so am I. Why behave in this manner? If you have different advice, say it, and let her decide. Great welcome I am getting. Didn't know it was "that kind of community".
    No one was bashing, attacking or bullying you. I was questioning your advice because it was not clear (to me, anyway) exactly 'what' you were advising.
    Don't worry, I will be leaving this blog. I am been a member all of one week, and gotten nasty replies. Apparently, this is not the best place to give and share "OPINIONS" without a freaking debate. Best of luck....
    Like Wikipedia, where anyone can edit, here, anyone can advise.... But there will be debates and requests for clarification if something is unclear and that's a good thing. It's certainly nothing personal.
  • ni1966
    ni1966 Posts: 17
    Like I said, you're the "expert" with your 2,000 posts. Read over what you wrote, and then tell me it was friendly, "questioning, just for clarification." I may be fat, but I ain't stupid. Most of us are on here to find a welcoming environment, not to be attacked.
  • Cindyinpg
    Cindyinpg Posts: 3,902 Member
    Like I said, you're the "expert" with your 2,000 posts. Read over what you wrote, and then tell me it was friendly, "questioning, just for clarification." I may be fat, but I ain't stupid. Most of us are on here to find a welcoming environment, not to be attacked.
    Are you speaking to me or someone else? I have read over what I wrote: All I said was these three sentences:
    You're backpedalling a little. You just said "The junk food you love has to be replaced with healthier snacks." Now you're saying one piece of cake is fine, but not two... What is your stance, moderation or elimination? I'm confused.
    That IS requesting clarification, not attacking. Have a good night and don't take things so seriously, no one here wants to make you feel unwelcome. :flowerforyou:
  • faye_25
    faye_25 Posts: 2
    You should discipline yourself from eating high calorie food and fatty food. Doing the "After 6" method is always helpful. Doing a Zumba workout while wearing a Flex Belt which strengthens muscles helps, http://www.youtube.com/EasiestWorkout now this is based from my cousin's experience, not a spam or what. I actually envy her results.

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