Gastric Sleeve Patients?????

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  • NewLife416
    NewLife416 Posts: 1 Member
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    Hello all,

    I had the sleeve done Dec 10, 2013, and it was the best decision of my life! I am only 22, but I've struggled with my weight since birth. (I was born 11lbs!) My mom fully supported my decision, but even now when I tell people about my surgery I'm met with the same "you didn't need it" "you could have lost the weight without that" or "you're too young for that" and that is so frustrating it drives me insane,

    I just wanted to chime in some of my experiences so far, because it is very different than everything that I read on forums and online in terms of recovery.

    First off, I hated the protein shake during the 2 week pre-op liquid diet. I found it absolutely nauseating, so it made it twice as hard to stick to it. I will admit that I cheated a few times, but I tried to cheat with protein so that the consequences weren't too horrible. The doctor said my liver looked great after the surgery, which was a fear I had since I cheated on the diet.

    The day of surgery I was very nervous, but everything went smoothly. I didn't feel any more pain than a stomach cramp, but that was probably the morphine. The day I was released I felt fine, and the day afterwards I even felt well enough to work from home. I went back to the office the third day after my surgery. I felt no pain except for the occasional shoulder pain from the air they had to put in your stomach for the procedure, but walking helped so much, and Gas-X!

    Currently, I've been experimenting with what foods my stomach can hold and what it absolutely cannot. The way I know it's enough is when I get this sharp pain that rises in my chest. I've never felt nauseous after the surgery, and I haven't thrown up yet, but I have gotten that overstuffed feeling (which is the absolute worst). Besides eating smaller, more controlled portions, I sometimes have to remind myself that I did in fact get this surgery. I do sometimes feel winded or light headed when I've been walking for a while, but it goes back to normal after I sit for a few minutes. That's really the only side effect that I've experienced.

    What I'm struggling with right now is trying to not obsess over the number on the scale. It feels amazing when I see the numbers go down, but I feel like a failure when it goes up a pound. I've been checking it every day, and I know I should stop, but it is so difficult. I'm also having a hard time thinking of ways to dress up the pureed meats so I'm not eating the same thing every day.

    If anyone has any advice on the scale obsession I would greatly appreciate it! I'm really worried about becoming addicted to checking my weight.
  • MyOwnSunshine
    MyOwnSunshine Posts: 1,312 Member
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    The thing to know is when they tell you the complications that can happen from surgery, can happen. I had sleeve surgery October 14th. I have not been well since then. I have had 2 thoracentesis done. I have had 3 hospitals stays. One for 3 days, one for 7 days, one for 9 days. They have involved having pneumonia and having to do high power antibiotics. The 3rd hospital stay, I had to have a thoracotomy. I spent time in ICU and had a drain tube in back for a week. I got the shingles while in the hospital. I got out of the hospital on December 19th. I am still suffering from the shingles. I was very healthy before this surgery, just overweight. I am definitely not in the phase yet where I am glad I had this surgery. I have just been trying to survive! On another note, I've lost 55 pounds since surgery, but at what a cost. I know I am in the minority that this happens to, but it does happen. Good luck to all that are considering surgery.

    I'm so sorry that you've suffered from complications from your sleeve surgery. I think that it is very important that you share your story with others. I know several other people who have also had complications of varying severity.

    I have no regrets and was very lucky to recover quickly and completely. My results have been great and life-changing, but every surgery has the possibility of complications and people who are considering any WLS should hear all perspectives and outcomes, not just the best possible outcomes.
  • Best4tess
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    Hi...I'm new to all this. I'm discussing the benefits of VSG with my health care provider. I've reached a point where something has to change. I am seeing a therapist to discuss my ideas surrounding food and taking comfort in eating. I am 37 and I weigh 261 pounds at 5'3". I have hypertension, diabetes, low iron, low vitamin D, and severe obstructive sleep apnea. That's a lot. I yo yo diet every year and nothing changes. I always revert back and take comfort in food. This is the year I claim my life back. I enjoy reading your stories and updates. I pray for success on this journey. I know I can do this. My husband is my rock. My surgical consult is next Tuesday. Not sure what to expect but I'm looking forward to it. I do have one question: post op how long were you off work?? Thanks!
  • julmikek
    julmikek Posts: 14 Member
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    your post has really helped me... i am scheduled for surgery on Feb 5th.. I am excited and nervous... the unknown... afraid I will miss the food.. how am I going to handle situations? Scared...
  • joellevh
    joellevh Posts: 27 Member
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    I had the sleeve 9/12/12. Friend request me. I lost 159 pounds
  • shoppinglady1972
    shoppinglady1972 Posts: 72 Member
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    Hey All!! Had my sleeve done this past Monday, feeling pretty good, just sore. Friend me!!!! Just like everyone else, I'm looking to offer as well as receive support. It's a big decision, not one to take lightly. I had 6 months to think about it before I actually did it, it was the best gift I could have been given. Enough time to wrap your head around what you are doing and adjust to a new lifestyle (use this time to prepare, prepare, prepare!!) :wink:
  • paulinecardinalmitchell
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    Hi Yooper Girl,

    I am also a Yooper Girl. I had my Gastric Sleeve done over a year ago (August 2012). Over all I have lost 140 pounds ran 2-5k road races, 2 -5 mile road races, 1- 8 mile road race, 1-5K Mud Run, 2- 10k road races, and a half marathon. Getting the Gastric Sleeve done has been the best descision I have ever made! I will not lie and tell you some days are harder then others mostly in the beginning since I had alot of issues with food! I was and still am at times an emotional eater! Things will trigger it and at first I didn't know what was going on. But with time and working on the triggers I have spotted my weaknesses and have learn to make better choices with my foods and with my emotions. Running helps me with my issues it gives me an avenue to go to when things get to out of control! Not everyone likes or can run but I tell people who ask me how I did it to find some kind of activity they like to do and get put your mind and body into it! You will find what works for you but you need to listen to your body and mind! This is only a tool and if you use it right its going to be the best tool you have but if you don't use it right it will not change a thing. Good Luck and if you need anything or just want to vent use this place to do it. There is great advise here! Take care
  • JeannieJet
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    Hello Everyone,
    I had my sleeve done December 16, 2013. It.has been much rougher then I anticipated. I cannot seem to eat enough protein. I do not drink enough and am losing potassium. But, I had that before surgery-poor assimilation of vitamin D, Bs, iron and potassium. A vitamin fills me up and extremely nauseates me. I still believe this was the best approach though. Lost 30 pounds so far. The exhaustion is the hardest obstacle. I could sleep non-stop. My pain does that shuts me down. I have had several traumatic accidents-burn, motor vehicle accident, falls and so many surgeries with lymph congestion. I was on lyrica that was addressing trigemina Nerve pain. So, my body just hibernates with pain. I cannot tolerate pain medication so that is the reaction my mind put in play.
    I know this will be a good forum and as much as I am looking for support, I truly want to cheer on you who share your quests. Have a Happy New Year.
  • cabenth
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    There's an awful lot of chatter on here. I have been researching the sleeve as everything else has failed. My issue is Insulin Resistance, among other things. We've tried a lot to defeat the insulin resistance, but it doesn't respond well enough.

    I saw a few comments in here about what the "real" problem was for some who were unsuccessful with various surgeries and I needed to chime in.

    I am 44 years old.
    I had 'grown' to 300ish pounds around 10 years ago, it started rather suddenly, i was always overweight to some degree, but it was stable and then it wasn't.
    I easily lost 20 pounds with a little exercise and caution on food, but it settled there. So… I started walking to work, 2.5 miles each way, some elevation on the way in and a lot on the way home. i also started the type of diet most people do, I call it what it is, a starvation diet.
    Didn't loose one pound.
    About 18 months later I bought a house about 13 miles from work, started riding in, still starving myself and suddenly, I dropped 40 pounds or so.
    At this point I was getting happy, but it again stopped dropping despite massive calorie deficits. So, I stopped that dieting and started something that I should have done when I was 18… training for triathlons, the ultimate goal of course was Iron distance.

    I have since participated in 4 half marathons, 20 or so triathlons of sprint distance, 2 of olympic distance, 1 a little longer than that, 1 Half Ironman, and 2 Ironmans.

    For the purposes of this discussion, the races are irrelevant. The training is not. During my Full Iron distance trailing, my heavy weeks were 20 hours of specific exercise or more. The long run or bike days I couldn't eat enough to be anywhere near close to the 5-6000 calories I would burn on a 7 hour training day. During that entire time, my weight went up and down, never back even to the 240s. 5 years of extreme training, with a coach and a Metabolic specialist doctor. When I completed the 2nd Ironman, I put up my gear to see if we could get somewhere by taking the enormous strain off. We haven't. My second Iron was done in the mid 270s, 2 years ago. I'm now in the mid 290s.

    I have eaten perfect food, nothing processed, 100% natural, no bread unless I made it, etc. I have eaten absolute crap. I have gained and lost weight during both methods of eating.

    I have had uncontrollable hunger, I've had the boredom eating thing. Basically, I've had most of what all of you have had.

    In my particular case, this is 100% metabolic. My metabolism is extremely far out of whack and I don't respond properly to medication either so all we've been able to do is hold things at bay. Grehlin seems to be another major factor in my issue and this is what the gastric sleeve addresses because it removes most of the part of the stomach that produces grehlin. Your body produces it in other places, but the vast majority is in that part of the stomach that is removed and that is what I need to control.

    We all have our own situations, but if you have a good doctor who understands metabolism and obesity, you should have an understanding of your problem. If you don't have a good understanding, get a book called, "The Metabolic Storm" by Dr. Emily Cooper. (She's my doc) - In this, she gives extreme detail on how the metabolic system works, but she does it in a way that a layman can easily understand. I've been working with her for a long time, and I'm a technical guy so I was already familiar with it, but her 'style' of writing will work for anyone I think. I strongly suggest reading this and it should become fairly obvious, fairly quickly, if your problems are metabolic, or triggered by some other function. Fixing either may be harder for some than others.

    I am hesitant on the gastric sleeve simply because I should be, surgery should always be approached cautiously, but its looking like
  • shadylady_57
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    Hi ! Everyone
    I was sleeved on July 29,13, I have always been over weight my
    whole life, If I had a dollar for every diet that is out there I tnink I've
    tried most of them I would be rich. Lol I wish I'd dine this years ago
    but it probably wouldn't have worked as well because my mind wasn't
    in the right place. It took my surgeon telling me that if I didn't have it
    done I probably would be dead in 7 yrs. with all the health problems
    that at 57 I am a diabetic which was way out of control, My
    Liver enzyems were over 1000 and going higher,my Ac1 was over 7,
    I have sleep apnea. I felt awful all the time. I weighed 266 at my first
    appointment with my surgeon in May. I started my pre op diet the
    last week of May thru July 29,13. On the day of surgery I weighed
    242. I had no problems with my surgery was never hungey ,I could
    drink with no problem but had to force my self to eat. Still 6 mos I still
    Ahave to remind myself to eat I don't really get hungery any more. There
    are some foids I can't eat they make me sick and come back up they g
    are high fat ground meat, pork chops, steak, scrammbled eggs, I
    can eat boild eggs, fried eggs in pam butter flavor. Bacon, ham
  • shadylady_57
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    Hi! Kelly
    I had my sleeve done 7/29/13 incuding pre op weight until now I have lost a total of
    95 lbs. 88lbs until goal weight. I don.'t regret having my surgery whish I hadn't waited so
    long. It's not a sure thing because we have to work at eating the right things, it's mmore of a tool
    that keeps us from over eating, we can't graze , we need 3 meals with snaks in between meals, and drinking plenty
    of liquids. Between meals and get plenty of protein in. Good Luck
  • jules6157
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    scheduled January 20th, nervous had probllems with insurance, so been working on since oct down 26 pounds since actual dr visit.
    heaviest I was 350 last summer 5'6" , I work on my feet 12 hours rotating shift in a factory, in my mind thought I had to eat to have energy. Finding out feel better on protein shakes have tried doing different things to the shakes so they make me want to drink them.
    I been wondering do you have a lot of pain after surgery if everything goes good?
    How long did most of you stay in hospital?
  • Tudanyane
    Tudanyane Posts: 2 Member
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    I had my sleeve done on December 11, 2012. So it's been over a year now. I started at 260 and now weight 200. I been at this plateau since April 2013 and haven't been able loose. My doctor says I'm not eating enought calories to get my matabolism in the burning mode. I'm eating as much as I can usually 1000 calories to 1200 calories a day. He told me I need to be at 1300 to 1500 calories a day. I'm also walking which takes away from my calories so that's not helping me either. I'm taking in 100-130 grams of protein a day. I wish someone could help me find the right solution to this so I can start loosing again. I'm getting really frustrated.
    Tudanyane
  • LibertyBelle_75
    LibertyBelle_75 Posts: 20 Member
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    Hi, fellow sleevers! I had my VSG on 8/28/12 and I am thoroughly convinced that it saved my life...physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We are all a work in progress. If you're like me and struggle with emotional eating and other addict-like behaviors, I strongly encourage you to check out "The Beck Diet Solution." It is not a diet at all but instead uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address sabotaging thoughts/actions and how it is necessary for us to adjust our responses to such negative influences in order to achieve permanent weight loss. Grace and peace to each of you as you continue your life-altering journey. :smile:
  • Charshine
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    I just found out my insurance will cover gastric sleeve @ 90%. I have been wanting the surgery for a while now, 2 friends have had it, both with success but 1 with more complications. Both say they would do it again completely and say it will help change my life, as a tool.. but not a fix! I still have to continue my journey to healthy eathing and exercise has to be a par of my daily life, even if I have GS. I am 300lbs and I have been overweight my whole life. I know my issue is with food. I have gained and lost almost 100lbs 2x in my life. I'm tired of the roller coaster..

    My questions to those who have done it:

    Do you regret it?

    Would you recommend it?

    What is the worst part?

    What is the best part?
  • Charshine
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    Thank you for being honest. It's very hard to decide to have this surgery, responses like yours are why I may not. I just don't know. I'm going to continue to research more.
  • claudiafuselier
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    I had mine done in October 2013. Right now I regret it. I had complications from the surgery. Had 3 hospital stays and resulted in pneumonia, and then had a thoracotomy done before Christmas. Finally feeling better but not 100 % yet. I feel like I obsess more over food now than before. It's what will I eat? Am I getting enough protein? It's constant. I do not recomend it, right now. I hope I will get there before long. Worst part was days after surgery. Very nauseated, vomited a lot. Couldn't sleep, very uncomfortable. The best part is that I've now lost 61 pounds, but it has been at a great cost to my health. I know other people that have had it done and have not had any of these problems. Good luck.
  • dennisllake
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    I've been sleeved since 09/04/2013. The only regret I have is that I waited so long to have the procedure done. I'm down nearly 110 pounds. I'm happier, I'm healthier and I feel great. It's not a cure, but it's a tool. It's a very strong tool. The results I've seen have me more motivated than I ever imagined I could be. I don't want to eat the foods that got me here. I don't want to spend my nights on the couch with the TV and carton of ice cream. I want to get out, I want to be active. I want to be with my friends. I want to find new friends. I want to be the person that I know I am supposed to be. I want to be the life of the party!
    The changes are not just in my personal life, but also being reflected in my professional life. I'm more confident in myself and my abilities. I'm more comfortable around people.
    Good luck to all of you that are planning to get sleeved. If I can do it, and get these results, so can you!!! I'm 100% behind you and will be pulling for you and your success.
  • laurelcampbell73
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    PLEASE JOIN MY SUPPORT GROUP ON FACEBOOK

    "GASTRIC SLEEVERS-NO JUDGEMENT ZONE"


    We are a very active and supportive group for Pre and Post OP patients!:heart:
  • bostonmd
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    I was sleeved on 5/8/13 and have lost 70 lbs since. I would not have been able to do it by myself. The sleeve has been a good tool, but I realize I can't rely on just that. I have to exercise and I can't eat crap food. I can eat just about anything I want, just in really small quantities. You have to take vitamins for the rest of your life and I now realize how big of a commitment that is since I forget all the time. The worse part so far has been losing hair. I lost a lot of hair in the past couple of months and I didn't realize it was going to be so much. My Dr. assures me it will stop and get better, so I hope he is right. I am definitely happier now about myself than I was before.