Going on a date with someone I'm not interested in?

I've been on dates with guys who I wasn't overly interested in, I was bored senseless!

My advice, don't bother x

Tell him "I'm sorry, I can't." And that's that.

I felt that same way about a guy i went to law school with. I knew he was SO into me and I just didn't feel like he was my type. I ended up marrying him and we have a baby on the way. I say go on that date, because you really never know!

I definitely agree about not giving him that sense of hope by saying yes.

I would just sit him down and tell him honestly, you don't feel it, and it's never going to happen.

If he's so nice, you want him to find someone that can actually love him, and not be stuck on you for ages.

Be a little bit more obvious in your excuses. Don't give the guy any hope.

Some people will kill you with persistence.

one I heard recently that I thought was brilliant was " I have to alphabetize my tee-shirts"
now if that's not obvious I don't know what is.I'm sure I can come up with a few more like that if you want.

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to lead him on. That's why I suggested that I go on the date but pay for my part of it. I feel bad.

This used to be my problem.
You will get sucked in if you don't address it now that you're ahead.

Get him out of your life now, before he gets more entangled in it.

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People like direct talk. A lot of people, not all, but many, think talking like that is being rude.

FIFY.
It's not a gender thing, it's a people thing.

The last time I was honest with a guy about not being interested, he called me ugly and fat lol. I'm not too good at this.

That's called he was butthurt.

If you were "ugly and fat", he would not be pursuing you in the first place. He reeked of rejection. Just laugh and move on.


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The last time I was honest with a guy about not being interested, he called me ugly and fat lol. I'm not too good at this.

That's called he was butthurt.

If you were "ugly and fat", he would not be pursuing you in the first place. He reeked of rejection. Just laugh and move on.


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I did haha. It was his loss.

TOTALLY!
Just tell the dude you're not into him. If he wants to be friends.. Cool. That's where you draw your line.
Don't feel bad, be blunt.

Stop making excuses. You're not into him. Let him know, so he quits wasting his time and yours.

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For the love of MLP.

I felt that same way about a guy i went to law school with. I knew he was SO into me and I just didn't feel like he was my type. I ended up marrying him and we have a baby on the way. I say go on that date, because you really never know!

^^^^^this!!!! my best guy friend used to ask me to dinner or a movie almost daily and I always rejected until one night I said okay but I picked the places we went (dollar movie but we missed it ended up going to an arcade) and here we are two years later married with a beautiful daughter. love is strange but you never know!


and yes my man (with enough persistence) made it OUT of the friendzone!

Just tell him you r not interested

I would tell him that you're not interested, and will never be.


It's simple.

Do this. Otherwise you give the guy hope that one date might lead to other dates. If you know now that won't happen, tell him.