the "Definitive" Eyecandles thread

Generally people who have the underdog mentality, conservative, fear based reasoning based on God-fearing humility and a fear of death.

I don't want to die yet. So I mask the truth. I will live after death. I don't want to feel/be ugly, so I will mask the truth. Looks don't matter.

This is borne of fear.

Someone like me never has these thoughts. I am confident. I will age gracefully, with class and dignity. Bravely facing reality.

The ppl ITT are the former. The ppl in the eye candy threads participating, are the latter.

There are sides. There are also level to this ****.

So are you basically saying that 'ugly insecure people' participtae in this thread... and 'gorgeous ripped people' participate in the 'look at me, rate me, I'm sexy' threads.

And that the ones who strive for sexiness are the ones who have class and dignity? Who face reality?


Um... sorry... I used to participate in your highly esteemed sexy threads, and still do sometimes... cuz yeah, I have a pretty rocking body. But I also have a much better self esteem and don't need anyone to validate how awesome I am.

In my opinion, the ones who can laugh at BOTH threads are the healthiest ones.

Those who get all butthurt and attempt to wax philosophical at the inhumanity of it all are the ones I feel pity for.

But hey... I am so happy that you are confident and facing the world with "class and dignity"

Can we stop saying wax philosophical?

To me im not being fancy. Its just textbook insecurity. Its effortless for me to use those words. I guess thats why you think I am "butthurt" since it seems Im trying hard. Im not, the words flow out of me like a rapper freestyles a rap. Except instead of rapping I psychoanalyze people using very little cues to illustrate their whole world because humans are that predictable and patterns are that consistent in human nature.

Silly I am sipping on pre workout getting ready to lift.

Simultaneously teaching people about who they truly are. You can use this knowledge to understand yourself better, or not. Either way I loled.

I know I should stop reading this thread and get back to work, but I can't seem to look away...I am fascinated:ohwell:

Another psychology fun-fact: Human beings are biologically attracted to truth.

You are fascinated because I am speaking on things that penetrate into your very identity as a human being, seeing the patterns and reflecting back upon yourself the reality of our sociological relationships with one another and how it affects our inner ID.

Im am speaking deeper than most are comfortable to talk about, dangerous thoughts to some people, but the different ways people react expose the different fears people have and the level of emotional maturity they are capable of.

In the most simplest terms, the people who keep reacting with crazy/hysterical posts are essentially just emotionally immature. --Unable to process such depth and such challenging self reflections so they deal with it the only way they know how.

Generally people who have the underdog mentality, conservative, fear based reasoning based on God-fearing humility and a fear of death.

I don't want to die yet. So I mask the truth. I will live after death. I don't want to feel/be ugly, so I will mask the truth. Looks don't matter.

This is borne of fear.

Someone like me never has these thoughts. I am confident. I will age gracefully, with class and dignity. Bravely facing reality.

The ppl ITT are the former. The ppl in the eye candy threads participating, are the latter.

There are sides. There are also level to this ****.

So are you basically saying that 'ugly insecure people' participtae in this thread... and 'gorgeous ripped people' participate in the 'look at me, rate me, I'm sexy' threads.

And that the ones who strive for sexiness are the ones who have class and dignity? Who face reality?


Um... sorry... I used to participate in your highly esteemed sexy threads, and still do sometimes... cuz yeah, I have a pretty rocking body. But I also have a much better self esteem and don't need anyone to validate how awesome I am.

In my opinion, the ones who can laugh at BOTH threads are the healthiest ones.

Those who get all butthurt and attempt to wax philosophical at the inhumanity of it all are the ones I feel pity for.

But hey... I am so happy that you are confident and facing the world with "class and dignity"

Can we stop saying wax philosophical?

To me im not being fancy. Its just textbook insecurity. Its effortless for me to use those words. I guess thats why you think I am "butthurt" since it seems Im trying hard. Im not, the words flow out of me like a rapper freestyles a rap. Except instead of rapping I psychoanalyze people using very little cues to illustrate their whole world because humans are that predictable and patterns are that consistent in human nature.

Silly I am sipping on pre workout getting ready to lift.

Simultaneously teaching people about who they truly are. You can use this knowledge to understand yourself better, or not. Either way I loled.

Darlin... you cannot teach if you have no students.

I know I should stop reading this thread and get back to work, but I can't seem to look away...I am fascinated:ohwell:

Another psychology fun-fact: Human beings are biologically attracted to truth.

You are fascinated because I am speaking on things that penetrate into your very identity as a human being, seeing the patterns and reflecting back upon yourself the reality of our sociological relationships with one another and how it affects our inner ID.

Im am speaking deeper than most are comfortable to talk about, dangerous thoughts to some people, but the different ways people react expose the different fears people have and the level of emotional maturity they are capable of.

In the most simplest terms, the people who keep reacting with crazy/hysterical posts are essentially just emotionally immature. --Unable to process such depth and such challenging self reflections so they deal with it the only way they know how.

but... but... what happened to your thoughts on homophobia and stealing girlfriends and how everyone is a homophobe because you're so pretty?

He is going to steal girlfriends? It sounded a bit more rapey in the enchanted forest than that.

Oh trust me, I don't think you're ready for what goes down in the enchanted forest...

I was just noticing that, for the most part, the people here that are disagreeing with him are generally in their later 30's and up and have lived a bit more than his 27 years. Perhaps he is a Psychology grad student and this is part of his project?

I, for one, haven't spent a moment of my 34 years on self-reflection, circumspection, philosophical study and contemplation, education, or development. I'm just a big . . . wait, how did nutellabrah say it on bb.com . . . I'm just

What I DO hate, is jealousy, from ugly people, from co-workers not giving due promotions, to people mocking or denying my superiority when they should just give credit where credit is due, and not be a weak pathetic ignorant freak.

Your brains are not ready to handle the truth, it hurts. I can see you all twitching at your computers now, tryin to figure out what you make of this.

When deep down you should admit you are a loser and I am the truth.

The truth will set you free, and maybe you can develop to a level of adult maturity instead of having the mind of an underdeveloped child in a mans body.

You ugly *kitten*, go look in the mirror and remember your flaws so you might be reminded to stop being so unduly confident. You are only alpha when I am not in the room, so you don't want me in the room.

Ima beat your *kitten* if I catch you in the physical realm, and especially the streets.

-Nutellabrah, 04-05-2012, 12:49 PM http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=143768413&p=860864333&viewfull=1#post860864333


Have a great workout son!

I know I should stop reading this thread and get back to work, but I can't seem to look away...I am fascinated:ohwell:

Another psychology fun-fact: Human beings are biologically attracted to truth.

You are fascinated because I am speaking on things that penetrate into your very identity as a human being, seeing the patterns and reflecting back upon yourself the reality of our sociological relationships with one another and how it affects our inner ID.

Im am speaking deeper than most are comfortable to talk about, dangerous thoughts to some people, but the different ways people react expose the different fears people have and the level of emotional maturity they are capable of.

In the most simplest terms, the people who keep reacting with crazy/hysterical posts are essentially just emotionally immature. --Unable to process such depth and such challenging self reflections so they deal with it the only way they know how.

but... but... what happened to your thoughts on homophobia and stealing girlfriends and how everyone is a homophobe because you're so pretty?

He is going to steal girlfriends? It sounded a bit more rapey in the enchanted forest than that.

Oh trust me, I don't think you're ready for what goes down in the enchanted forest...

Judging by what I saw in your underwear inthe bathroom picutre on the other thread, you're right. stilll laughing about that.

Sign #1: Unilateral listening. : What I want is all that matters. When we make decisions together, what you want, your concerns, your feelings..these are mere whispers, inconveniences and irrelevancies. When we discuss issues, my opinions are right. Yours are wrong or else of minimal importance. If you expect to have input, you are undermining me.

SIgn #2 It’s all about me. : I know more, I know better, I’m more interesting, When we talk, it’s mostly about me.

Sign #3: The rules don’t apply to me. : I can have affairs, cut into a line where others are waiting, cheat on my taxes, and ignore rules that get in the way of my doing what I want.. Rules are for other people to follow.

Sign #4: Your concerns are really criticisms of me, and I hate being criticized. :If you insist on my listening and taking your concerns seriously I’m likely to get mad. Criticism hurts. I can criticize others, and often do, but if you criticize me you’re hurting my feelings so I’ll hurt you back.

Sign #5: When things go wrong between us, it’s always your fault. : I can’t be expected to apologize or to admit blame. I’m above others and above reproach. You shouldn't have… . Don’t threaten me with expecting me to say how I’ve contributed to a problem or I’ll get mad at you.

Sign #6: If I’m angry, it’s your fault. : You made me mad. You didn't listen to me. You criticized me. You’re trying to control me. Your view is wrong. So you need to apologize, not me.

Grandiose , Lack of Empathy – May understand human nature very well, but seems to experience a disconnect when trying to empathize with other points of view, Little Tolerance for Weakness, Paranoia, Craves Attention – Narcissistic leaders want their followers to affirm how wonderful they are, often through public testimonies.

Got these from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201210/are-you-narcissist-6-sure-signs-narcissism // and http://libertyforcaptives.com/2012/10/18/personality-disorders-in-the-church-narcissistic-personality-disorder-part-2-of-4/

Honestly I think it's bona fide narcissistic personality disorder. I can't imagine this level of consistency in behavior and thought is trolling. Typically trolls aren't this repetitive. Therefore, these are reflective of his actual thoughts and beliefs.

I get treated like I have a Jesus aura every where I go. [...] I get attention like I am One of the most special humans alive on the earth.
Beautiful, smart, mysterious. Your girlfriend would be curious to find out more about me. I've been like this my whole life, it's effortless to me. It's boring to me at this point being so interesting.

the words flow out of me like a rapper freestyles a rap

:laugh:

Silly I am sipping on pre workout

:ohwell: uh, sipping on "pre" what? suuuuure "pre workout"

I was just noticing that, for the most part, the people here that are disagreeing with him are generally in their later 30's and up and have lived a bit more than his 27 years. Perhaps he is a Psychology grad student and this is part of his project?

I'm 28. Didn't realize that I matured so much in that one year...

Sorry, didn't mean to insult anyone in their 20's.

Sign #1: Unilateral listening. : What I want is all that matters. When we make decisions together, what you want, your concerns, your feelings..these are mere whispers, inconveniences and irrelevancies. When we discuss issues, my opinions are right. Yours are wrong or else of minimal importance. If you expect to have input, you are undermining me.

SIgn #2 It’s all about me. : I know more, I know better, I’m more interesting, When we talk, it’s mostly about me.

Sign #3: The rules don’t apply to me. : I can have affairs, cut into a line where others are waiting, cheat on my taxes, and ignore rules that get in the way of my doing what I want.. Rules are for other people to follow.

Sign #4: Your concerns are really criticisms of me, and I hate being criticized. :If you insist on my listening and taking your concerns seriously I’m likely to get mad. Criticism hurts. I can criticize others, and often do, but if you criticize me you’re hurting my feelings so I’ll hurt you back.

Sign #5: When things go wrong between us, it’s always your fault. : I can’t be expected to apologize or to admit blame. I’m above others and above reproach. You shouldn't have… . Don’t threaten me with expecting me to say how I’ve contributed to a problem or I’ll get mad at you.

Sign #6: If I’m angry, it’s your fault. : You made me mad. You didn't listen to me. You criticized me. You’re trying to control me. Your view is wrong. So you need to apologize, not me.

Grandiose , Lack of Empathy – May understand human nature very well, but seems to experience a disconnect when trying to empathize with other points of view, Little Tolerance for Weakness, Paranoia, Craves Attention – Narcissistic leaders want their followers to affirm how wonderful they are, often through public testimonies.

Got these from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201210/are-you-narcissist-6-sure-signs-narcissism // and http://libertyforcaptives.com/2012/10/18/personality-disorders-in-the-church-narcissistic-personality-disorder-part-2-of-4/

I think I might be a narcissist.....the only time I apologize for things I said is just so we can have makeup sex, because I really am never wrong, therefore there really is nothing for me to apologize over

The harder you guys "laugh" --after I have pointed out why you laugh... the stubborn sadness of it makes me cringe.

(in b4 someone "laughs" at this post but is secretly crying inside because I hit a nerve)

The mere thought of you cringing makes my soul weep.

O! The tragedy of it all! How my bowels leak to think of the pain - THE PAIN! this all causes you.

CAN'T EVERYONE STOP PARTICIPATING IN THIS PUN-RELATED THREAD TO CONSIDER THE VERY HUMANNESS OF IT ALL!?

Stop trying to hold us back with your puritanical world views! Be thee some feminine hygiene product?

Fie on't! Ah, foe! MFP tis an unweeded garden that grows to seed; thinks rank and gross in nature possess it merely!

How my sinuses drain down the back of my gullet as the shock and dismay fill me. CLEFT FROM BALLS TO BEAK I bleed the very unfairness of your eyeball candles!

WHY! Why must you all torture us so?

Know you naught of philosophy? Sartre said that "hell is people" and you people are proving him RIGHT with every black smudge of thought you smash from your vile, sticky keyboards onto this clean white page!


Et cetera.

:flowerforyou:

I know I should stop reading this thread and get back to work, but I can't seem to look away...I am fascinated:ohwell:

Another psychology fun-fact: Human beings are biologically attracted to truth.

You are fascinated because I am speaking on things that penetrate into your very identity as a human being, seeing the patterns and reflecting back upon yourself the reality of our sociological relationships with one another and how it affects our inner ID.

Im am speaking deeper than most are comfortable to talk about, dangerous thoughts to some people, but the different ways people react expose the different fears people have and the level of emotional maturity they are capable of.

In the most simplest terms, the people who keep reacting with crazy/hysterical posts are essentially just emotionally immature. --Unable to process such depth and such challenging self reflections so they deal with it the only way they know how.

could you please point me to where the depth is?