Hey, Fat Girl.
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I just stumbled upon this in the interweb and couldn't help but sharing. Apparently it's been posted to MFP before but this is so beautiful and inspiring that I couldn't help but share.
I found it here: http://flintland.blogspot.ca/2012/05/hey-fat-girl.html I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. :flowerforyou:
Hey, Fat Girl.
Yes, you. The one feigning to not see me when we cross paths on the running track. The one not even wearing sports gear, breathing heavy. You’re slow, you breathe hard and your efforts at moving forward make you cringe.
You cling shyly to the furthest corridor, sometimes making larger loops on the gravel ring by the track just so you’re not on it. You sweat so much that your hair is all wet. You rarely stay for more than 20 minutes at a time, and you look exhausted when you leave to go back home. You never talk to anyone. I’ve got something I’d like to say to you.
You are awesome.
If you’d look me in the eye only for an instant, you would notice the reverence and respect I have for you. The adventure you have started is tremendous; it leads to a better health, to renewed confidence and to a brand new kind of freedom. The gifts you will receive from running will far exceed the gigantic effort it takes you to show up here, to face your fears and to bravely set yourself in motion, in front of others.
You have already begun your transformation. You no longer accept this physical state of numbness and passivity. You have taken a difficult decision, but one that holds so much promise. Every hard breath you take is actually a tad easier than the one before, and every step is ever so slightly lighter. Each push forward leaves the former person you were in your wake, creating room for an improved version, one that is stronger, healthier and forward-looking, one who knows that anything is possible.
You’re a hero to me. And, if you’d take off the blaring headphones and put your head up for more than a second or two, you would notice that the other runners you cross, the ones that probably make you feel so inadequate, stare in awe at your determination. They, of all people, know best where you are coming from. They heard the resolutions of so many others, who vowed to pick up running and improve their health, “starting next week”. Yet, it is YOU who runs alongside, who digs from deep inside to find the strength to come here, and to come back again.
You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.
I bow to you.
I found it here: http://flintland.blogspot.ca/2012/05/hey-fat-girl.html I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. :flowerforyou:
Hey, Fat Girl.
Yes, you. The one feigning to not see me when we cross paths on the running track. The one not even wearing sports gear, breathing heavy. You’re slow, you breathe hard and your efforts at moving forward make you cringe.
You cling shyly to the furthest corridor, sometimes making larger loops on the gravel ring by the track just so you’re not on it. You sweat so much that your hair is all wet. You rarely stay for more than 20 minutes at a time, and you look exhausted when you leave to go back home. You never talk to anyone. I’ve got something I’d like to say to you.
You are awesome.
If you’d look me in the eye only for an instant, you would notice the reverence and respect I have for you. The adventure you have started is tremendous; it leads to a better health, to renewed confidence and to a brand new kind of freedom. The gifts you will receive from running will far exceed the gigantic effort it takes you to show up here, to face your fears and to bravely set yourself in motion, in front of others.
You have already begun your transformation. You no longer accept this physical state of numbness and passivity. You have taken a difficult decision, but one that holds so much promise. Every hard breath you take is actually a tad easier than the one before, and every step is ever so slightly lighter. Each push forward leaves the former person you were in your wake, creating room for an improved version, one that is stronger, healthier and forward-looking, one who knows that anything is possible.
You’re a hero to me. And, if you’d take off the blaring headphones and put your head up for more than a second or two, you would notice that the other runners you cross, the ones that probably make you feel so inadequate, stare in awe at your determination. They, of all people, know best where you are coming from. They heard the resolutions of so many others, who vowed to pick up running and improve their health, “starting next week”. Yet, it is YOU who runs alongside, who digs from deep inside to find the strength to come here, and to come back again.
You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.
I bow to you.
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I wish there was a "like" button on MFP forum.0
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I came in this thread ready to sit on you :sick:
I leave it with a smile on my face. You got lucky this time, punk. :drinker:0 -
i love this ... thankyou for posting.. since i feel like that fat girl0
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Thank you for this!!!!0
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i love this ... thankyou for posting.. since i feel like that fat girl
I think we all do! :flowerforyou:0 -
Awesome article. And so very true! Thank you for sharing it.0
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:drinker: :drinker: :drinker:0
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You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.
This part....very cool.0 -
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:0
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Love this. Than you so much for posting.0
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If you aren't confident enough to look up yet, I have discovered an alternative that really helps: hang out with someone more outrageous than you!
On weekends, my husband and I like to go biking together. Since he is mumble mumble pounds lighter and cough cough years younger, he takes the row bike (https://www.rowbike.com/), while I take my three speed cruiser. It slows him up a bit while still letting him get in a good work out.
If you clicked on the link, you saw that this thing is unique. We have found that on paths, I have to stay in front, because people turn around to stare at him and end up in front of me! Sure, I have seen a few people look at me and even heard a very few comments (and one of was being impressed by how fast I was going), but his row bike is the epitome of what the vast majority of people are going to actually notice. We tend to get so caught up with the judgmental people around us, we forget that most people have their eyes open for the awesome, new things around them.0 -
Very sweet post.0
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I love this! I'm not fat, never have been, but I always feel so impressed by those "fat girls" (or guys) that I see in the gym or on the running track. I do admire them. They are true fighters!0
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A friend of mine only ran under cover of darkness in the beginning (which can be as late as 10pm in the summertime). I didn't really understand why she felt shame in running. Anyway, she stayed with it and regained her health and her swagger.0
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This made me proud I ran today even though I really didn't feel like it.0
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That made me cry. Thank you. I am totally that girl. No eye contact, because I worry that I don't belong.0
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Got a little misty-eyed reading this. THANK YOU for sharing!0
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I love it, thank you for sharing x0
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Brilliant post. I love this. In fact, I think I am going to print it out and keep to read everytime I feel embarrassed or ashamed. I know that I admire ALL runners. I look at them with admiration and envy, wishing it was me. I'm on day 3, week 1 in the C25K challenge so soon it will be me0
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I have read this before and I love it! Its definetly worth reading it once more....Thanks for posting!0
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