Handling Discouragement/ Lack of Support

The point of this is I am understanding that people aren't obligated to support and regardless of the level of "support" I receive since in the end, I'm doing this for me, the support of others in a way is irrelevant. In the end it's you that has to keep going whether people are in your corner rooting for you or not. It's not inhuman or hard to believe that sometimes feelings of discouragement come along with that. I know the facts I know what people are or are not "obligated" to do. That's not the point, my interest is how others have dealt with feeling discouraged and how they persevered with receiving a lack of support with an idea, plan, diet whatsoever whether it's your family or online community. Regardless if 0 or 2000 people join in will not affect what I do for myself. Excuse me for not articulating correctly when I say "not interested" when contacting people as I'm getting zero responses at all. It's my "community fitness noob" mindset that I see all these groups and challenges that gain support and when you personally contact people and they don't even reply with a "I'm not interested" it leaves you hanging. My personal thoughts leave me feeling slightly deflated with being left hanging without walking away with a "well F you then" attitude.

I'm here to learn and I want to help and support as many people as possible while improving myself. I lost over 110 pounds already with no support and was intensely excited about starting group challenges to help other who are struggling. So if what I offered doesn't work then.... yes that's completely fine, and with the understanding that people aren't obligated to reply, support or do anything... free will is a biggie these days well, that's just my personal attitude of being considerate when someone directly emails you. Just being left hanging high and dry with zero feedback whatsoever is the slight reason for deflation... community wise.

My challenge is not written to a T or a step by step set of directions that had to be followed as I understand that not every lifestyle fits to a challenge. Perhaps I can ask people how my challenges can be improved for the future or any tips from people who have started group challenges before. This won't stop me from starting any future challenges it's just how can you improve when you're just staring at a blank. Thanks for your responses.

Having battled with my weight since my early teens and now in my early 40's - discouragement and lack of support can affect me in different ways. I've always been a yo-you dieter but not stuck at exercise. I tend to go through periods of being all or nothing and being manic when it comes to eating healthy and going to the gym then it totally falls by the wayside and I don't visit the gym for weeks if not months at a time.
I wouldn't say I ever have a lack of support or discouragement from people that are closest to me. If anything it has come across as random attacks and people saying they seem me as failing at everything I want to achieve and always end up back where I have started.

Thanks for your response! I agree with your input. There seems to be so much support yet so little at the same time. People ask honest questions based on what they see, I can't really dwell on anyone's perspective. However I can use their perspectives whether their perspective is negative or positive as a reflection on how I can improve myself.