Physical chemistry or emotional connection

jelie3110
jelie3110 Posts: 433
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What's more important to you in a ( longterm) relationship, physical chemistry or emotional connection?
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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Both.

    Can't ask me to choose between breathing or having blood pump >.<
  • jelie3110
    jelie3110 Posts: 433
    Lol I hear ya,
  • ashleyblossom1
    ashleyblossom1 Posts: 699 Member
    Emotional and may I add intellectual connection?
  • jelie3110
    jelie3110 Posts: 433
    @ ashleyblossom-good one,
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
    I would be happy with some physical chemistry in a relationship!
  • HappyRunner34
    HappyRunner34 Posts: 394 Member
    The brain should be the sexiest part of woman...the multi-level connection is important as it will sustain the physical chemistry. Everyone..should want and have it all!
  • ashleyblossom1
    ashleyblossom1 Posts: 699 Member
    The brain should be the sexiest part of woman...the multi-level connection is important as it will sustain the physical chemistry. Everyone..should want and have it all!

    I think I just fell in love. lol
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    The brain should be the sexiest part of woman...the multi-level connection is important as it will sustain the physical chemistry. Everyone..should want and have it all!

    I think I just fell in love. lol
    Someone TRAINED him to say that :angry:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • jelie3110
    jelie3110 Posts: 433
    @happyrunner34 a well said! I agree that we all should strive for that, it is however not always easy to find both
    in one person
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    cannot pick both are very important
  • HappyRunner34
    HappyRunner34 Posts: 394 Member
    The brain should be the sexiest part of woman...the multi-level connection is important as it will sustain the physical chemistry. Everyone..should want and have it all!

    I think I just fell in love. lol
    Someone TRAINED him to say that :angry:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Maybe...but at least I'm a good learner!
  • ashleyblossom1
    ashleyblossom1 Posts: 699 Member
    The brain should be the sexiest part of woman...the multi-level connection is important as it will sustain the physical chemistry. Everyone..should want and have it all!

    I think I just fell in love. lol
    Someone TRAINED him to say that :angry:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Maybe...but at least I'm a good learner!

    Thats all that matters, hun!
  • dysonspacz
    dysonspacz Posts: 76 Member
    Emotional connection. You gotta have something to talk about afterwards. Physical chemistry is fun and all for a while but gets old quickly.

    Unfortunately, physical chemistry is lacking in my world these days... :(
  • amastre
    amastre Posts: 176 Member
    Gotta be a combination of emotional connection, intellectual equality, and physical chemistry. When those things align, it is so darn hot.
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    Both.

    Can't ask me to choose between breathing or having blood pump >.<

    This, yo!
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    I need the whole package. I won't deny that physical is the first level of attraction for me though.
  • HDHogger
    HDHogger Posts: 764
    I need the whole package. I won't deny that physical is the first level of attraction for me though.
    ^ I agree
  • Kaylee_law_123
    Kaylee_law_123 Posts: 450 Member
    Both ... for a long term relationship.

    I can go with Physical Chemistry alone for a little bit of fun ;-) In fact I had only this with my ex, and still do. No matter how much I don't like him as a person, we still have this ridiculous physical chemistry that requires at least five metres between us if we ever run into each other lol.
  • condoleezachiapet
    condoleezachiapet Posts: 105
    Both. Body and mind go hand in hand. If someone takes care of their appearance, it shows that they are mentally disciplined. Can't have a romantic emotional connection with someone who doesn't care about their physical vitality.
  • DJMIKEY1
    DJMIKEY1 Posts: 523 Member
    Bacon
  • PunkyRachel
    PunkyRachel Posts: 1,959 Member
    I say both. I've thought my husband was a sexy beast from the 1st day I met him, and vice versa. He thought I was a beautiful when I at my heaviest. In fact I met him one week after my Junior high school prom (I wore a size 20 dress). Anyways he became my best friend, and he helped me come out of my severe depression. I also haven't thought about suicide since we've been together, because he truly makes me happy and want to live my life to the fullest. Going on 12 years together, and he's still my sexy beast!
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    I have found that sex can lead to incredible emotional connection.
  • HappyRunner34
    HappyRunner34 Posts: 394 Member
    Bacon
    I change my answer to Bacon
  • darkrose20
    darkrose20 Posts: 1,139 Member
    both. but i'd say "emotional connection" eeks out by a smidge.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    I have found that sex can lead to incredible emotional connection.

    Which isn't going to happen without a strong physical attraction.
  • ashleyblossom1
    ashleyblossom1 Posts: 699 Member
    I personally see physical as the least important. I think intelligence can make the most unfortunate looking guy extremely sexy.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    I have found that sex can lead to incredible emotional connection.

    Which isn't going to happen without a strong physical attraction.

    or roofies
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    Truly its both. Nothing better than getting seduced by someone's brain and then having someone that is totally incredible on the physical side of things.
  • LankyYankee
    LankyYankee Posts: 260 Member
    In a relationship? Never one or the other. Always physical emotional and intellectual. Physical will carry you for a bit. After that you better have something more.
  • handyrunner
    handyrunner Posts: 32,662 Member
    the physical connection is what draws me in..the emotional connection is what keeps me there.

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