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Best way to meet someone?

Posts: 107 Member
edited February 16 in Chit-Chat
I've been in the single pool a little while and although I really enjoy my freedom and doing things for me I miss having that someone special in my life and want to go about meeting someone.

Any suggestions on good places to meet people? If you are happily in a couple how did you meet?

I know a lot of people meet on-line, but I'm not convinced that is the only way to meet people.

Thank you peeps! :smile:

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  • Posts: 10,913 Member
    Show some skin on here.
    Tight clothes.

    Accept pervy PMs.

    You're welcome.
  • How old are you?
  • Posts: 419
    :smile: when I was single...I met people at the rec center...pool .....also at starbucks! lol

    sometimes its a vibe you put out men can sense it....when you walk down the street...when your shopping... if you put it out there they will come! Haha seriously I hope that helps!
  • Posts: 1,565 Member
    Support groups are excellent places to meet someone.
  • Posts: 169 Member
    friends of friends
  • Posts: 302
    I meet them at funerals, easy pickings.
  • Posts: 10,913 Member
    I meet them at funerals, easy pickings.
    :laugh:
  • Posts: 419
    lmao!! that's bad!
  • Posts: 203 Member
    I met my partner through Plenty of Fish, although there are a lot of people who use the site for a hook up site. There are people there that are looking for relationships.
  • Posts: 10,477 Member
    MFP.


    And you don't have to show skin... although I'm not opposed if you'd like to give us a quick demo of what's for sale.
  • Posts: 2,038 Member
    MFP.


    And you don't have to show skin... although I'm not opposed if you'd like to give us a quick demo of what's for sale.

    That's not true, the only girls I talk to on MFP are barely clothed....
  • Posts: 141 Member
    My husband and I met at a college orientation. Find some organizations that interest you so you know anyone you meet at least has a shared interest that can be a great starting point.
  • Posts: 4,885 Member

    That's not true, the only girls I talk to on MFP are barely clothed....

    He isn't lying. Even goes to other social media to stalk...
  • Posts: 302

    That's not true, the only girls I talk to on MFP are barely clothed....

    Catfish...beware of the catfish bro
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  • Posts: 681 Member
    AOL Chat
  • Posts: 2,038 Member

    He isn't lying. Even goes to other social media to stalk...

    She just proved why I'm on MFP!
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  • Posts: 522 Member
    try Meetup.com. you can meet so many different people with similiar interests. AND, if you don't meet that someone special, it's always a great opportunity to get out to try new things in your area, make friends & network.

    http://www.meetup.com/

    good luck to you.
  • Posts: 10,740 Member
    I know you're not totally sold on the online idea but I met my husband on OK Cupid. I think it can work if you're absolutely honest about who you are and EXACTLY what you're seeking in a partner or date. By this I am saying *delete/block* any people who don't totally meet your requirements or when you feel like they may be lying -- and if someone DOES sound great, ask lots of questions and chat, but meet them irl quickly to avoid wasting time. JMHO!
  • Posts: 4,021 Member
    Online isn't the only way, but it can be very efficient if you have a good BS radar.

    Otherwise, try to meet people while doing whatever it is you like to do. Get bold and introduce yourself. See where it goes from there. I do not advise trying to meet people at typical "singles" spots if what you're looking for is a long-term "someone special," as opposed to a one-night "someone special." I also do not advise fix-ups unless you trust that the person(s) fixing you up know you really, really well. Everyone I know and their grandma tries to fix me up, and it always ends in disaster since I have apparently not made it clear enough that I am not interested in *kitten*. I will never again do the fix-up thing unless it's my brother or sister orchestrating it. I do not trust anyone else to be honest with me about how douchey someone is maybe BEFORE I waste a hot dress on him.
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  • Posts: 214 Member
    I met my current partner via OkCupid. I would highly recommend it. Do answer lots of match questions, then look for people who are 90%+ Match with you. Easy!
  • Posts: 493 Member
    Join a club of some sort. It means that you will have at least one thing in common.

    I was new in the city a few years ago and looking to make friends and not having any luck at the office I worked at so I joined CouchSurfing.org. I like to travel, meet people from other countries, and I think hospitality/community is important so I picked this one. My local chapter meets weekly and monthly. I have met some awesome people going to those meetings. Its just random strangers meeting in a local bar or coffee shop but its actually a lot of fun. I did get a few dates out of it, but mostly I made a few great friends. I have a friend back east who joined a local hiking club. If you arent into the club scene, you just have to get creative about where you meet men.
  • Posts: 2,227 Member
    I meet them at funerals, easy pickings.

    Have the courtesy to close the coffin with you're done.
  • Posts: 1,565 Member

    Have the courtesy to close the coffin with you're done.

    SMH
  • Posts: 302
    The courting process is what makes it so much fun and memorable. Next time you see a girl in the coffee shop, go and ask the owner if you can make her a cappuccino and present it to her before asking her out on a date.

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  • Posts: 4,123 Member
    I meet them at funerals, easy pickings.

    hopefully you mean the mourners and not the deceased. :-/
  • Posts: 592 Member
    [Who need anybody in this age where technology rule the world

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