valentine's day gift idea.. thoughts?!

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Lil_Leah
Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
edited September 2024 in Chit-Chat
so.. i know its a few months away yet, but i thought of a great (i think) idea for the boy for valentines day. :smile:

i thought of doing a sexy budoir type photo shoot (my friend is a photographer). no nudity! just scantily clad, classy photos.

what do you think? cheesy? or pretty stinkin awesome? thoughts and opinions are appreciated! :bigsmile:

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  • brittonymiller
    brittonymiller Posts: 2,061 Member
    I think it's awesome. I looked into doing that for my man, but it was way too expensive. If I had a photographer friend, I'd do it.
  • bluiz13
    bluiz13 Posts: 3,550 Member
    i think it is an awesome idea.....show off your new body...you have lost a great amount of weight and you deserve to feel sexy and show it to your boy.....

    good luck and let us know the details :wink:
  • DancingDreamer
    DancingDreamer Posts: 520
    do it do it do it! it'll be like being a pin up girl! fun! (and i'm suuuure he'll like it too :wink: )
  • melliebee
    melliebee Posts: 187 Member
    I did this a few years ago... I got the pictures taken, and then I found out that he was cheating on me!!!!!! Needless to say he didn't receive this sexy, thoughtful gift, but its nice to look back at those pictures for myself.. I definitely count my blessings that I found out that he was cheating on me before I gave them to him.. lol

    Moral of the story... its a wonderful gift idea, just make sure he isn't a scum bag ;)
  • Chiquita_Banana
    Chiquita_Banana Posts: 500
    i was thinking the same thing for my husband when i reach my goal weight lol
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    ive got a cute bright red bra/undies set i thought of wearing. curly hair. dark eyes with BIG lashes. red lips. total pin-up girl style. maybe a long string of pearls?! cmon ladies (gents too! i need a guys perspective) help me make this awesome.

    :happy: im so excited now.
  • Mollydolly10
    Mollydolly10 Posts: 431 Member
    gotta get some heels/stilettos in there too!! :-)
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    I did this a few years ago... I got the pictures taken, and then I found out that he was cheating on me!!!!!! Needless to say he didn't receive this sexy, thoughtful gift, but its nice to look back at those pictures for myself.. I definitely count my blessings that I found out that he was cheating on me before I gave them to him.. lol

    Moral of the story... its a wonderful gift idea, just make sure he isn't a scum bag ;)

    Ouch! Sorry to hear that! His loss big time!

    I can vouch that any guy would think this would be awesome Valentines day gift! Hope you have a great guy!
  • kendradl
    kendradl Posts: 595 Member
    This is an awesome idea and he would love it. I will have to file in my back pocket for when I reach my goal! Thanx for the awesome idea.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    so.. i know its a few months away yet, but i thought of a great (i think) idea for the boy for valentines day. :smile:

    i thought of doing a sexy budoir type photo shoot (my friend is a photographer). no nudity! just scantily clad, classy photos.

    what do you think? cheesy? or pretty stinkin awesome? thoughts and opinions are appreciated! :bigsmile:
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    Sorry...couldn't resist. LMAO.gif
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.

    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.
    thats what i was thinking! some pics with clothes on too. :laugh: some sexy, some pretty.
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.

    :laugh: :laugh:
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
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    Sorry...couldn't resist. LMAO.gif

    the pics havent been taken, silly! maybe after!
  • eillamarie
    eillamarie Posts: 862 Member
    He'll love it! But....what if you two call it quits? Not to be a Debbie Downer, but when it comes to pictures those sorts of things should always be thought of. Maybe skip the pics & give him a live show? LOL!
  • ginnyroxx
    ginnyroxx Posts: 763
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.

    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.
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  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.

    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.
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  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,585 Member
    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.

    THANKS for clarifying! 8-o
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    I sit next to a girl at work who is a freelance photographer, and every budoir shoot she's done has rendered ecstatic responses from the men who were surprised by them. I say go for it, esp. now that you have lost weight. I'd do it without hesitation if I were you.
  • OGFleabag
    OGFleabag Posts: 137 Member
    Afew years back, my wife had a friend come over and take pictures. She had a wide array of lingerie. She posed in the back yard, on my pool table, in the bedroom. About 50 shots. She then put them in an album and gave it to me for my birthday.

    It was the best present I ever received and it is in my night stand. I pull it out and look at it often.

    I suggest that as a Valentine's gift.

    I pull the ALBUM out and look at it often.


    LOL! :laugh: :bigsmile: :huh:
  • StacLegg
    StacLegg Posts: 346 Member
    He'll love it! But....what if you two call it quits? Not to be a Debbie Downer, but when it comes to pictures those sorts of things should always be thought of. Maybe skip the pics & give him a live show? LOL!

    My thoughts exactly..... make sure if you do it and give them to him, its something you won't mind his buddy's seeing when you guys have a big fight or heaven for bid ever call it quits.... guys can be as mean as women can!!!!
    My niece and her boyfriend took some "fun" pictures with his cell phone for him to have, had a big fight 2 wks ago.... yep her Nude pictures got smeared on the internet and texted to his buddies.... She is Mortified!!!!! and full of regret!! :cry:
  • BigGail
    BigGail Posts: 465 Member
    I think it depends what your boyf is into - I know mine would rather have the real-live thing (and the cash in his pocket) because he's just told me he would! (bless him, he's a participator, not a viewer). :laugh:
  • orange_avocado
    orange_avocado Posts: 232
    Another idea if the photo shoot doesn't work out...

    Look for a pole dance studio in your area. A lot of them offer specialty classes that teach you strip teases and lap dances. Look for reviews and make sure it's legit, but usually these are all-female classes, very supportive, clothes-on (you strip layers in class!) and super fun. Then you can give your boy a sexy dance for Valentine's day. :)

    (I'd suggest a pole dance for V-Day, but let's face it, most people don't have a pole around. But if you're interested, pole dance classes are great for upper body and core strength and, yep, your guy would love it. If you happen to be in the Northern Virginia area, www.divafitonline.com is a great place to start.)
  • superwmn
    superwmn Posts: 936
    AWESOME!

    Wish we could see them. I'm sure they'll be beautiful :)

    Charmagne
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    He'll love it! But....what if you two call it quits? Not to be a Debbie Downer, but when it comes to pictures those sorts of things should always be thought of. Maybe skip the pics & give him a live show? LOL!

    My thoughts exactly..... make sure if you do it and give them to him, its something you won't mind his buddy's seeing when you guys have a big fight or heaven for bid ever call it quits.... guys can be as mean as women can!!!!
    My niece and her boyfriend took some "fun" pictures with his cell phone for him to have, had a big fight 2 wks ago.... yep her Nude pictures got smeared on the internet and texted to his buddies.... She is Mortified!!!!! and full of regret!! :cry:

    let it be known, these will not be nude! and plus, he wouldnt do that sorta thing. and if he did, they will be pics i wouldnt mind people seeing.
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    AWESOME!

    Wish we could see them. I'm sure they'll be beautiful :)

    Charmagne

    perhaps i'll post a few on here once they're done. :blushing:
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    AWESOME!

    Wish we could see them. I'm sure they'll be beautiful :)

    Charmagne

    I agree. Hope they all turn out well. Look through the album with him. You'll see what he sees.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    Valentines Day? I thought only Wal-mart pushed the season ahead this far! Christmas first, please!:tongue:
  • Lil_Leah
    Lil_Leah Posts: 376 Member
    ooook! photoshoot was last night and it was a blast! apparently the pics will be done and ready by friday, so this will definitely be a christmas present. i cant wait to show you guys (some of) the pictures! :happy:
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