Because thigh gaps: clarification

HuggyBeahr
HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
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*OP was not a troll as suspected*

I meant no disrespect nor was my intent to "BODY SHAME" anyone.

As mentioned in the OP. : women on this site seem to STRIVE for the gap then followed by a why?
Just seeking some clarification to an idea that was foreign to me.

I do believe that the pursuit of the thigh gap via unhelathy eating habits(which is usually the case) is disturbing. If someone is geneticaly pre-disposed to have a gap, then deductive reasoning would infer that the initial post was not in any way directed to you or anyone in specific. However if you did find the initial post offensive,hurtful, or having had cause you discomfort, I do apologize.
Thanks. Have a wonderful day.


and as Sterling Archer would say: "Phrasing"
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  • MapleFlavouredMaiden
    MapleFlavouredMaiden Posts: 595 Member
    *OP was not a troll as suspected*

    I meant no disrespect nor was my intent to "BODY SHAME" anyone.

    As mentioned in the OP. : women on this site seem to STRIVE for the gap then followed by a why?
    Just seeking some clarification to an idea that was foreign to me.

    I do believe that the pursuit of the thigh gap via unhelathy eating habits(which is usually the case) is disturbing. If someone is geneticaly pre-disposed to have a gap, then deductive reasoning would infer that the initial post was not in any way directed to you or anyone in specific. However if you did find the initial post offensive,hurtful, or having had cause you discomfort, I do apologize.
    Thanks. Have a wonderful day.


    and as Sterling Archer would say: "Phrasing"

    Absolutely agree with you hun. And +1 for the Archer reference. :laugh:
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  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    Understood, and neither was I.
  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    Interstingly enough, the Post that was suspected of body shaming got so much action in seconds. Yet this post gives some clarification includes an apology, and no one says a damn thing. cool.
  • Will_Thrust_For_Candy
    Will_Thrust_For_Candy Posts: 6,109 Member
    I think that its awesome that you decided to clarify.......and I knew what you meant in the first thread. :flowerforyou: :drinker:
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  • _Calypso_
    _Calypso_ Posts: 1,074 Member
    Interstingly enough, the Post that was suspected of body shaming got so much action in seconds. Yet this post gives some clarification includes an apology, and no one says a damn thing. cool.


    I think it had a lot to do with the word "Repulsive" in your OP. Nor did you clarify that those who are genetically prone to a thigh gap were exempt from your distaste!!

    This new OP I agree - striving for a thigh gap by use of unhealthy methods is sad really!! Please dont lump Most women into this trend.

    "women on this site seem to STRIVE for the gap...." It seems to be more of a trend with some of the younger girls (late teens/ younger 20's) - I do hope those who seek a thigh gap via unhealthy methods snap out of it quickly!!!
  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    Interstingly enough, the Post that was suspected of body shaming got so much action in seconds. Yet this post gives some clarification includes an apology, and no one says a damn thing. cool.


    I think it had a lot to do with the word "Repulsive" in your OP. Nor did you clarify that those who are genetically prone to a thigh gap were exempt from your distaste!!

    This new OP I agree - striving for a thigh gap by use of unhealthy methods is sad really!! Please dont lump Most women into this trend.

    "women on this site seem to STRIVE for the gap...." It seems to be more of a trend with some of the younger girls (late teens/ younger 20's) - I do hope those who seek a thigh gap via unhealthy methods snap out of it quickly!!!

    Duly noted.
  • BraveNewdGirl
    BraveNewdGirl Posts: 937 Member
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    Seriously, when the first post you ever make on the forums is about how lesbians aren't really gay, they just haven't been "forcibly made to reconsider" (your words) and you follow it up with the gem that you did about how women with thigh gaps are "repulsive"... expect people to think you're a douchecanoe. You want your apology to be taken seriously? Prove it. Stop posting repulsive crap.
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    Interstingly enough, the Post that was suspected of body shaming got so much action in seconds. Yet this post gives some clarification includes an apology, and no one says a damn thing. cool.


    Below is your OP

    ["]In my OPINION, I find Thigh gaps repulsive.sick cry sad
    It is extremely unattractive to me, and it looks unnatural. For some reason however women on this site strive for the gap. Why? Who finds this attractive? Fellas can you back me up on this one or is it me?

    Also does this compare to men and "too much muscle" in a way?

    Thoughts?[/"]

    No where in that post does it say anything about the pursuit of thigh gaps being repulsive. Sure, you question why women on here seem to strive for one, but only because in your opinion it looks extremely unattractive and unnatural.

    While your intent may have been to dissuade the unhealthy pursuit of thigh gaps, it was clumsy at best, and make no mistake, your result was in fact body shaming. And now you wonder why everyone doesn't pat you on the back because you "clarified what you meant"?

    When I was 16 I tried to park my parents car in the garage. I backed up the driveway way too fast, hit the garage and did $6500 damage to the car and garage. Do you think I got a pat on the back that day?
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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Interstingly enough, the Post that was suspected of body shaming got so much action in seconds. Yet this post gives some clarification includes an apology, and no one says a damn thing. cool.

    Well, I missed the previous drama you are referring to and actually have no idea what is going on here, but I'm going to venture a guess that you aren't as important as you think you are. :flowerforyou:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    tumblr_maf2s9w6Dr1rbq1gbo1_400.gif

    Seriously, when the first post you ever make on the forums is about how lesbians aren't really gay, they just haven't been "forcibly made to reconsider" (your words) and you follow it up with the gem that you did about how women with thigh gaps are "repulsive"... expect people to think you're a douchecanoe. You want your apology to be taken seriously? Prove it. Stop posting repulsive crap.

    OMG! He actually said that?!?!?! :noway:

    OP, if you actually said this and you are not a troll, then you really are just a pig! Unbelievable! You realize that you promoted rape with that statement, right?
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  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    i wish i had better pix up. my gap is huge and i think my thighs look awesome.

    i was not offended. i just wanted to prove you wrong about them looking gross.
  • BraveNewdGirl
    BraveNewdGirl Posts: 937 Member
    OMG! He actually said that?!?!?! :noway:

    OP, if you actually said this and you are not a troll, then you really are just a pig! Unbelievable! You realize that you promoted rape with that statement, right?
    That he did, only to delete it when I tore him a new one for it. While I don't think he was necessarily advocating corrective rape, it was clear that he doesn't believe that lesbianism is a valid sexual orientation which, if you ask me, is lame enough on its own.
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member
    In for angry peoples :)
  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?
  • BraveNewdGirl
    BraveNewdGirl Posts: 937 Member
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?
    Your position sucks. Educate yourself.
  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything, again?

    and to add some minute validity to your comment, I do not accept lesbianism as a valid sexual orientation, nor will i ever.But thats not what we were talking about here now was it?
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything, again?

    and to add some minute validity to your comment, I do not accept lesbianism as a valid sexual orientation, nor will i ever.But thats not what we were talking about here now was it?

    Well for what it's worth wouldn't thigh gap really help with scissoring or do I have my geometry wrong?
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?

    What do you mean by 'again'?

    I mean, I get that you have a family there... but you just implied that you "forced a lesbian to reconsider her sexuality" prior to having a family.

    You know, I get it... you're not really a *kitten*... you're just not so good with the putting words together and having them make sense... amiright?

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  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
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    Your position sucks. Educate yourself.
    [/quot

    thats it ? really? my position sucks. Following your logic: No, your position sucks.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    by all means.... keep digging

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  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?
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  • liftingheavy1
    liftingheavy1 Posts: 112
    Your position sucks. Educate yourself.
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    thats it ? really? my position sucks. Following your logic: No, your position sucks.
    [/quote]


    I think she wants you to put her in another position :)
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  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    by all means.... keep digging

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    Thanks for this gif. Now I don't have to go search for one.
  • HuggyBeahr
    HuggyBeahr Posts: 259
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?

    What do you mean by 'again'?

    I mean, I get that you have a family there... but you just implied that you "forced a lesbian to reconsider her sexuality" prior to having a family.

    You know, I get it... you're not really a *kitten*... you're just not so good with the putting words together and having them make sense... amiright?

    tumblr_inline_mfiny3q1yA1r5xg8x.gif

    Articulating my thoughts is certainly not my forte'. I do believe I do a better job than most. Also,Iam doing this from my phone, at work, using swype so auto correct will add or replace where it deems fit.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    mkay. My position stands as do my statements.
    and to the cat lady above, I didnt delete that, the Mods did when they sent me an email about it.
    Need I make it clearer that I never meant to imply rape, or beter yet will ever have the need to force anyone to do anything again?

    What do you mean by 'again'?

    I mean, I get that you have a family there... but you just implied that you "forced a lesbian to reconsider her sexuality" prior to having a family.

    You know, I get it... you're not really a *kitten*... you're just not so good with the putting words together and having them make sense... amiright?

    tumblr_inline_mfiny3q1yA1r5xg8x.gif

    THAT'S RIGHT, CAT LADY.

    that used to be husky... like a dog? wait a minute... are you a tran-species?!!??!


    I DO NOT ACCEPT THEE
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