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  • Posts: 2,289 Member

    Not even a chance, I'd challenge her to a game of wits, but it's not fair to challenge an unarmed opponent. I wish her the best of luck doing whatever she set out to do with this thread.

    I am well aware of the can of worms that I am opening here, but here's the thing. There's no need to be snippy about it. If you don' t like the thread, simply don't comment on it. I don't think she was here to attract attention- if she was, she would still have an account on here. Yes, she was a friend of mine on here. And while I do not know her outside of MFP, she wasn't the type who was looking for or seeking unwanted attention. This site is prone to that- and while some people like it and others don't, I don't think that it is right to jump on someone just because they ask a question you don't think they should. I was always taught that there is no such thing as a dumb question. And by no way am I saying her question was a dumb one. I think it was a sincere one, like "hey this is happening, and i don't like it. i am announcing it publicly to seek advice on how to make it stop or to let people know that I am not interested in it"

    so please, back off. We are all here for motivation and looking for motivational people--don't rain on someone else's parade...
  • Posts: 18,937 Member
    I don't know why the responses in this thread upset me but people need to be a little empathetic. I've seen the OP around and yeah she does a lot of textbook attention seeking posts that are pretty overt. However, she is young and also lost like 100 pounds recently! Maybe she was heavy all her life and doesn't have a good support system at home. Maybe this is where she comes to get reassurance that she looks good and is attractive again. Maybe she is still deeply insecure inside despite her amazing newfound body.
    This and the fact that she is pregnant. If this is her first child, she might be a little nervous about what this might do to her new body.
  • Posts: 514 Member
    wait... she's pregnant?

    That's it. I'm out.
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  • Posts: 18,937 Member
    wait... she's pregnant?

    That's it. I'm out.
    Yes, she's stated that on several posts.
  • Posts: 287 Member
    @OP, you can block people. You can select which pictures are posted. Like what we eat. We control what information and pictures are posted about us. Sadly some people don't know when they've crossed a line. So it's up to all of us to keep guarded what we don't want shared or viewed by a stranger, which might make us then uncomfortable.
  • Posts: 5,778 Member
    I get anywhere from 5-15 friends requests a day from guys that say right in their message/request that they're adding to creep my pictures..

    why?

    Do any other females have this happening?

    No :cry: :cry:

    I don't even get a message, just a request.
  • Posts: 468 Member
    I get anywhere from 5-15 friends requests a day from guys

    Are there that many guys in MFP..or..Is it the same 1 or 2 guys?...
  • Posts: 2,033 Member
    Step 1
    Post a different set of daily provocative pics to get attention

    Step 2
    Be offended about getting attention

    Step 3
    Create a thread about how offended you are about getting attention

    Step 4
    Deactivate your MFP account ...because

    Step 5
    Away in RL missing terribly all the attention from the creeps from MFP

    Step 6
    Create a new MFP account

    ...then repeat Step 1 to Step 6

    This is tremendous - 100% accurate!
  • Posts: 514 Member
    I think the weirdest unsolicited message I got was from some chick who asked me to "embrace her dark side."

    I was like... no means no
  • Posts: 910 Member
    I think the weirdest unsolicited message I got was from some chick who asked me to "embrace her dark side."

    I was like... no means no

    The creepiest one I got was some guy wanting to make-out with me! I was like...no means no! :laugh:
    Oh and the stalker one, that was by far the scariest.
  • Posts: 514 Member
    I'm sorry :( I'll stop.
  • Posts: 5,778 Member

    The creepiest one I got was some guy wanting to make-out with me! I was like...no means no! :laugh:
    Oh and the stalker one, that was by far the scariest.

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  • Posts: 11,786 Member
    I get about 1 FR a month.
  • Posts: 3,116 Member
    I get about 1 FR a month.

    It's ok, I get less than that, but I'm ok with it.
  • Posts: 11,786 Member

    It's ok, I get less than that, but I'm ok with it.

    I'm okay with it too. I usually accept them and then delete them a couple days later. I've been on MFP for over 3 years. I have less than 10 friends and two of them are my daughters.
  • Posts: 514 Member
    *creeps RoadDog's profile to see if his daughters are hot*
  • Posts: 2,211 Member

    The creepiest one I got was some guy wanting to make-out with me! I was like...no means no! :laugh:
    but yet you accepted my FR.... :laugh:
  • Posts: 11,786 Member
    *creeps RoadDog's profile to see if his daughters are hot*

    I have three daughters. They're all beautiful. But how would you guess which two are daughters?
  • Posts: 514 Member

    I have three daughters. They're all beautiful. But how would you guess which two are daughters?

    If they introduce me to you in person you'll know I guessed right :D
  • Posts: 11,786 Member

    If they introduce me to you in person you'll know I guessed right :D

    That'll be fun.
  • Posts: 13,274 Member
    *creeps RoadDog's profile to see if his daughters are hot*

    :laugh:
  • Posts: 468 Member
    *creeps RoadDog's profile to see if his daughters are hot*

    you beat me to it.. :)
  • Posts: 910 Member
    but yet you accepted my FR.... :laugh:

    Phen is the greener side of creepy :wink:
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  • Posts: 2,211 Member

    I'm constantly collecting song titles, and I think "Greener Side of Creepy" is a winner!

    yesss! Bucket List # 72 fulfilled - Get another song named in my honor to replace that *kitten* Morrisette's "you oughta know" thanks SB!
  • Posts: 910 Member

    I'm constantly collecting song titles, and I think "Greener Side of Creepy" is a winner!

    woohoo :smokin:
  • Posts: 1,184 Member
    If you're referring to me being her, I am not...
    I'm just new (back from 2 years ago) and initially thought this was a thread for making friends.
    Creepy friend request on the way.
    I almost never get friend requests wtf is wrong with me
    Aw! Creepy friend request on the way for you too.
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