Running - am I only one who struggles ridiculously?

I have wanted to run a 5k for 10 years. I have tried many methods - couch to 5k programs, overdoing it, etc. I have now started running 1 mile. It's at an embarrassing pace on my treadmill that no one else can see.... But it's still a great achievement for me.

I'm a reasonable weight and age, I don't know why I struggle so much! I cannot stay motivated or energized. Anyone out there going through the same thing?
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  • Alehmer
    Alehmer Posts: 433 Member
    Maybe you just don't enjoy running. I LOVE to work out, and I HATE to run. Try something else?
  • GotShellica
    GotShellica Posts: 15 Member
    I loathe running. Tried to take it up for years.

    Finally gave up and took up interval training instead (which I LOVE). Instead of running straight races, I do mud runs and other obstacle races which is way more fun.
  • handyrunner
    handyrunner Posts: 32,662 Member
    I love to run but have to agree maybe it's not for you..

    but if you think it is...why not try getting outside and doing it.. the TM is incredibly boring to me
  • jennycina93
    jennycina93 Posts: 127 Member
    I absolutely hate running. I have been working out a lot and my cardio level is very good when I work out yet when I run, I still have a mile time that is higher than 10 minutes. You are not alone :/
  • Good point I guess. I love pushing and challenging myself and mixing up my workouts. But I just can't run. I feel so unfit because of it. :(
  • pjb58
    pjb58 Posts: 100 Member
    I, too, struggle to run. As a matter of fact I have yet to be able to run a mile straight.
    I keep pushing on though. Not because I enjoy running but because I enjoy eating.
    Keep on keeping on, right?!
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I love running but I SUCK at it. Seriously, if I can go over 5mph, I'm happy. But I keep going because I do enjoy the "me" time.
  • scribb
    scribb Posts: 3,659 Member
    I enjoy running distances up to about 10 miles. I run marathons, but do not enjoy running that far. I like the crowds, but not running for over 4 hours.
  • Joreanasaurous
    Joreanasaurous Posts: 1,384 Member
    I can't run for more than 5 minutes on a treadmill.... but me outside and I am good though. I like running. I am slow as a turtle. But I enjoy it.

    But it isn't for everyone. Personally I HATE yoga and home workout videos. But a lot of people swear by each. Different strokes, different people
  • veganlisa
    veganlisa Posts: 50 Member
    I'm really slow too. Once I started running vs. a run/walk- I was doing a 15 (something) minute pace. I've been doing a program through Fleet Fleet & cycled through the beginner's program multiple times. I'm now at a 13ish min mile pace which is still slow (but faster for me). My goal eventually is to be in at 12ish min mile. How many times per week are you running? For me I find it's best endurance-wise if I'm out there 4 times a week running.
    Don't worry about what other people may think with your pace & distance- it's YOUR accomplishment. Make a goal for yourself and don't worry about others.
    Also, I agree with the post re: running outside vs. the treadmill. I'm not sure how the weather is where you are, but yes, it is much more enjoyable outside.
  • rompydompy
    rompydompy Posts: 54 Member
    nope, you're def not the only one. It was a huge accomplishment to me just to complete a mile without walking in 12 minutes.. and it took a long time for me to be able to do it. If you're doing it solely for the good workout, try keeping it to one or two runs a week, giving your body a chance to catch up to your mental state. I think if you get a chance to recharge your batteries, you might do better twice a week than you would 7 days a week, and those results might drive you to run more, and be happier doing it. Good luck!
  • Sharkington
    Sharkington Posts: 485
    I love to run, but I know a lot of people who hate it, and I always tell them - don't do it if you don't like it! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you if you don't like running because there are a ton of other exercises out there to help you get fit. Not being a runner doesn't make you an unfit person. I consider myself in shape and can run long distances, but I get on a bike and I feel like I can barely go a quarter mile without feeling sore and out of breath. :flowerforyou:
  • essbe
    essbe Posts: 65 Member
    I can't run for more than 5 minutes on a treadmill.... put me outside and I am good though. I like running. I am slow as a turtle. But I enjoy it.

    But it isn't for everyone. Personally I HATE yoga and home workout videos. But a lot of people swear by each. Different strokes, different people

    This.
  • ccmzone2013
    ccmzone2013 Posts: 177 Member
    Wish I could Run - due to surgery last year on both legs unable too! Keep pickin' away at your goals you will achieve them!

    Never give up :)
  • JustSomeEm
    JustSomeEm Posts: 20,269 MFP Moderator
    If you really want to run, try using the Zombies! Run! app. It makes the run fun, since you are 'doing something' AND getting chased by zombies. :)
  • handyrunner
    handyrunner Posts: 32,662 Member
    I love to run, but I know a lot of people who hate it, and I always tell them - don't do it if you don't like it! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you if you don't like running because there are a ton of other exercises out there to help you get fit. Not being a runner doesn't make you an unfit person. I consider myself in shape and can run long distances, but I get on a bike and I feel like I can barely go a quarter mile without feeling sore and out of breath. :flowerforyou:

    that's me!!!
  • MildredBarhopper
    MildredBarhopper Posts: 99 Member
    I am winded after just a few minutes of running, yet I can do other kinds of cardio no problem. I think I just hate doing the same motion over and over for a long period of time. In kickboxing, dancing, or even just general aerobic workouts, there is more variety so it takes my mind off of being tired.

    I tried to get into running but I just hated it so much. No big deal, I have been successful without it :) I do love long walks, though.
  • Napier_mum
    Napier_mum Posts: 88 Member
    I hate running. I really want to love it, and can see why people do love it but arghhh, I suck at it. Doesn't help that I need to lose like 50kgs I guess. I Have been doing the couch to 5k program for what feels like ever because I have to repeat pretty much every week. However, I find that trail running is more my style. I spend so much time watching where I am going and trying to not break an ankle that before I know it I am actually kind of enjoying it.

    Maybe try mixing it up a bit?
  • amy8400
    amy8400 Posts: 478 Member
    I used to be a runner in high school. Middle distance. Loved it.

    Today I'm 52 and I tried to run half a mile on a treadmill and could barely do that. I can walk at 4.2 mph for 40 minutes but running...it just ain't happening. I have venous insufficiency so that's probably part of the problem and the doctor says no more running. Still, I feel like such a wimp that I can't just crank up the TM to even 5 mph and jog a short distance.

    Don't feel bad. You don't have to run. I've found I can get a great cardio in by boosting the incline to 8-12 and going at least 4 mph. Or I'll get on the elliptical or arc trainer and go fast and hard for 30 minutes. At least I find success in those methods and isn't that really what it's all about? Do what works and what you enjoy doing :smile:
  • fithealthygirl
    fithealthygirl Posts: 290 Member
    This post makes me feel so much better about my running (in)ability! As another poster mentioned, you might have more luck running outside or you could try signing up for a race to give you more motivation. If all else fails, find something you enjoy doing!
  • I run every weekend with friends, keeps me motivated and its a lot of fun. I know I would never get up early in the morning just to run. Also, when I am running by myself, I would stop and start walking as soon as I feel tired or sore. If you run with other people you just keep going and the tired feeling passes...after the run we always stop for a coffee at a local coffee shop and talk about life. A nice "treat" after all the work :-)
  • mrg68
    mrg68 Posts: 48 Member
    I thought I hated running my whole life...until I was 43 years old. I started walking and over a year, I got a little bored and needed to speed up the time I spent exercising but I still wanted to burn the same calories, so I just gave it a try. I ran my first 5K on my 44th birthday!! My time really doesn't bug me. And I can be quite slow!! My goal is to finish and try not to be last!! Lol!! Past that, I don't care. Try not to let that bother you. Just enjoy the process.
  • craftywitch_63
    craftywitch_63 Posts: 829 Member
    Are you kidding me? You have no idea (well, maybe you do!) how I struggle to get my fat *kitten* up and moving in any way, shape or form and running is the second ultimate torture (lifting has the #1 spot!)

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  • establishingaplace
    establishingaplace Posts: 301 Member
    I worked up to a 5k distance a few years ago. Lost my stamina and never quite got it back. C25k never worked for me. I have many friends who run anything from 5ks to ultra-marathons, and mad respect for them, but all I can think is "meh, I'd rather lift."

    I'm trying to get back some running endurance for fun, but even if I get up to a 5k distance it'll never be more than that.
  • Emi1974
    Emi1974 Posts: 522 Member
    I wish I could run. I gave C25k a go a couple of years ago. I thought I would die from the first second I had to run. I persevered and in the end I was able to run for 10 minutes straight. Still, I felt that I am not improving. I found it very hard to breathe, my lungs were burning and hurting. It just seemed like it didn't get any easier with time.
    Eventually I gave up dieting and exercising.

    I know that I have been very sick for most of my childhood with chronic bronchitis, so I do wonder if that caused some damage or maybe I have scar tissue...

    I might give it another go but not before I am way lighter as I don't want to do any damage to my knees.
  • sunshinelively
    sunshinelively Posts: 249 Member
    I started running last June. After spending about 6 months walking, faster and faster, p to 4mph. Got bored w walking. Started at 5 mph on the treadmill. Pushed to 5.5. Had a hamstring and a quad injury at different points, was running a lot. Had to take about 6 weeks off behind the hamstring injury. Switched to strength training during that 6 weeks, worked really well to heal the leg.

    The best thing about running was how open and clear it made my lungs feel. That, and the fact that I'd never been able to do it before in life. I was amazed I could run at that 5 mph for 3-4 miles - never had done it, had always been trying to go too fast. Had this idea you had to run at least a 10 minute mile to be in the realm of acceptability. Learned to go slow.

    More recently started to do intervals, walk 4 mph for 2 minutes, run 6.7 mph for 2 minutes - make your heart pound, then take it all the way back down for 35 minutes, keep switching back and forth. Switched my focus to weight training, but now able to run 1.5 miles at a 6.0 pace, at the end of the weight lifting workout. Adding a minute or two each time. It's been 9 months of ups and downs w running. Best advice I can give is don't worry about how fast you go, just go. Work your way up at your own pace. Hey, at the age of almost 50, I'm not gonna be an athlete supreme - the idea is to just keep pushing a bit, but to enjoy your body feeling better. Don't ruin the experience with too much pressure or comparisons. I also do a longer slower run between 5.5-5.8, about 4 miles, once a week.

    I figure the people who run really fast mostly started running when they were young. Most but not all. But still, I'm not a natural runner, my body is not ideally designed for running, but it's great to be able to progress and achieve more than I ever thought I could....and really enjoy it. That experience is totally worth it. Hope this helps!
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
    Some people just aren't runners. I'm the fittest and strongest I've ever been in my life, but I still can't beat a 9:50 mile to save my life. :grumble:
  • I have wanted to run a 5k for 10 years. I have tried many methods - couch to 5k programs, overdoing it, etc. I have now started running 1 mile. It's at an embarrassing pace on my treadmill that no one else can see.... But it's still a great achievement for me.

    I'm a reasonable weight and age, I don't know why I struggle so much! I cannot stay motivated or energized. Anyone out there going through the same thing?

    Treadmill and track running is probably not your thing. You should look at cross country running (trail running) before you give up on running completely.
  • millyka66
    millyka66 Posts: 1 Member
    HI there
    don't loose heart. Find a friend to help you. I too was not a runner 2 years ago and now I run up to 4 times a week. I must say I do not always love it when I am actually doing it but the feeling of the achievement after the run is well worth it. My short run is now 5km and I do try to do a couple of longer runs at 7km.
    just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will get there.
    WEll done for starting as that is often the toughest part.
  • eustacescrubb
    eustacescrubb Posts: 17 Member
    I didn't exercise at all for 20 years so when I picked up running it sucked. Now three years later the first 10 minutes still stinks every time. It's like I have to have this conversation with my body: "you are not hurting as bad as you say, stop whining, stop lying to me and just keep running." The second mile is always better than the first.

    I would encourage you to keep it up. Get good shoes and get outside. Just try to work up to 30 minutes a run four or five days a week. And don't worry about pace. A slower pace is great for your heart and great for weight loss. I actually lose more weight when I run slower.

    Just remember, your body is lying to you. You can do it. And don't give up.