rudest thing anyone has ever said about your weight?

A woman pointed at me and said out loud to her friend... "If I ever look like that, kill me."

I'm so sorry. How hurtful that must have been. All of these stories are so sad. Wow. Humanity.

My previous boss told me my speed and quality would improve if I lost weight. I did art and animation for video games.

I reply, "I gained the weight due to the stress and lack of sleep of working for you so I think this environment might be why I might not be performing at my best."

awesomeness. What did he say?

I also ask him how it made me less creative.

He tried to back peddle and said something about me not having a lot of energy, because I had fallen asleep at my desk a few days earlier. Again, I pointed to my work environment and he changed the subject.

Wow you have some awesome balls mate!

Grandpa: "You need to lose weight or get a bigger horse"
Old Boss: "You're lucky, God sent me this saddle that was big enough for you, I don't think we had one before now."
Aunt: "You'd be so pretty if you just lost some weight."
Random stranger driving by in his car as I jogged down the street one morning: "Run Fatty, run!"

Just remember that when someone makes a comment about your weight that is so degrading it makes them look bad inside and out....not you in any way. Especially said in front of other people. Losing weight and getting healthy is for you and you alone. Anyone trying to lose weight and get in shape or those that are just thinking about certainly do not need anyone else to point out flaws and opinions as we have our own about ourselves. Surround yourself with a good support system not haters. Before I started my weight loss journey I was always asked when I was "due" always made me feel horrible. At the end of the day no matter who says what positive or negative I am the only one that can get me to my goals.

My mom is the source for any and ALL of the rude comments I have ever gotten.
"You'd be so pretty if you lost some weight."
"You looked so pretty back then...what happened?" (Again, talking about me gaining weight)
"You're never going to get a boyfriend"
And then various comments of parts of my body that are too big. Also she will look me up and down and make this horrible disapproving noise.

My mom does that too! I had lost 80lbs at one point because I was having major issues with dysautonomia and GERD and she was so happy. Then I gained back weight and she was like "I can tell you've gained weight because your face is big." "I wonder if you fit in those clothes I bought you." "How much have you gained?" Now I've lost nearly 30lbs and she keeps asking me if I am eating and things like that. I can't win either way. My nana also used to make comments about my weight and how pretty I'd be if I just lost some weight. And I remember my gram making a comment years ago when I was in HS and had gained a lot of weight about how I had looked so pretty and what happened?!

Just the other day, a co-worker had noticed I'd lost a lot of weight....she says to me...."Do you have cancer? You're really shrinking!" Wow lady...Out of all things possible to say...That's what she comes up with ?!?!? :noway:

A few years ago, I was dating this really attractive and fit guy who was sooooo critical of all women's weight. He probably had a lot of insecurities.

We were at the beach and I had finally reached my lowest weight and finally felt comfortable in a bikini. I bent over to pick up a towel, and he took a picture of me from the side (no one looks good from the side bending over - I don't care how fit you are). And he showed it to me and circled all of the places where i was fat. He literally said "omg look how fat you are here and here and here and here."

So that felt great.

One time I was at Halloween at MSU and I heard someone say as my friends and I walked by, "of course there's a fat girl". It was obvious they were talking about me because at the time all of my friends were really tiny. That was fun!! -_- Guess who ain't the fat girl anymore?!!!

I remember overhearing a lad in a nightclub say to his friend, 'she's quite fit.....for fat bird.' I think I was a UK size 12-14 at the time. What he would say now i'm more of a 16!!!

Maybe I just never remember any comments but this happened to my boss. She is a fabulous woman, two PhD's kind, intelligent and had survived cancer twice. During her last chemo her metabolism shut down, literally. She told me once someone said to her "you know my wife became less *****y when she wasn't so fat". Seriously not only calling her fat but *****y. Still not sure where his body is....

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Let's see...I've been told I'm skeletal, scary-looking, and I've been compared to emaciated people in Somalia, among other things.

All that, and I'm not even skinny. I'm at a normal weight for my height (something I keep trying to explain). It makes me wonder and fear, if I ever do become skinny what will they think or say

Your ticker says you want to be 91 pounds. You don't think that's too low?

At my oldest sons christening (he was 4 months old) - my ex- Mother-in-Law pinched my stomach and said - "You are still carrying around a lot of bacon right there" - That was 25 years ago and i can still feel the humiliation. Her son was also a charmer.

My dad told me I had a stomach or was getting one( no way I was just bloated), him being the king of stomachs and going up and down. That being called anorexic, sick, or something nasty for wanting to take care of myself( eat well, try new activities, be active, sleep!)

I think I've been very lucky. or I look really mean, because most of my life no one has said anything in ear shot of me. The one time someone did i was walking through a park and some Hispanic men started catcalling me in Spanish. I was getting ready to give them what-for when a guy walked by and said in Spanish, "no, no shes way too fat for you to be doing that". I guess he assumed I didn't speak any Spanish. So I said, in Spanish, the equivalent of "He's right, his Penis is way too small to fit into me". Then they all started laughing at him and he hurried off. I was so angry at what he said I forgot to yell at the men catcalling me. hahaha!

I was on a golf team in college and we went to Tampa every spring break to play. We had an afternoon off and went to the beach and shopping, then got some ice cream. As we walked down the street (5 of us total) there was an open-air bar and one guy said to his friends "that heifer doesn't need that ice cream." If I heard it, certainly my teammates heard it. I'll never forget it and how humiliated I felt.