How do you get/stay motivated?
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Because I'm having a hard time. I want to change, I need to change, but I can't ever get motivated. I tell myself "Alright, today is the day!" and I end up not doing anything or breaking off the diet.
My commute to work is an hour. I get up at 5am and I'm out of the house at 6-6:30am. I would love to get up and go for a quick jog, but I also love my sleep. I don't get home until 6-7pm and by that time, I basically eat dinner and go to bed because I'm exhausted. On my days off, I basically sleep all day because I'm tired. I WANT to do something but I'm too tired to do anything.
I need to get motivated or start doing something. So my question to you guys is what do YOU do to get going? What can I do to get my butt outta bed and get going?
My commute to work is an hour. I get up at 5am and I'm out of the house at 6-6:30am. I would love to get up and go for a quick jog, but I also love my sleep. I don't get home until 6-7pm and by that time, I basically eat dinner and go to bed because I'm exhausted. On my days off, I basically sleep all day because I'm tired. I WANT to do something but I'm too tired to do anything.
I need to get motivated or start doing something. So my question to you guys is what do YOU do to get going? What can I do to get my butt outta bed and get going?
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following, I'd like to find the answer to this question as well...0
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You definitely have a challenge with that schedule! I don't work hours like yours, so I can't imagine how hard that must be. For me, getting out early to walk/jog is my favorite part of the day. I call it "me time" and I love chatting with my neighbor if she is with me or talking to God if I am alone. I also think that the more I exercise, the more I want to exercise. I am so darn proud of myself when I reach new milestones or when I have stuck with it all week. I get a thrill seeing the MFP weekly exercise goal achieved a day early! I believe that once you get started and find that time in your schedule that you can commit to working out, it will get easier for you over time. As with most things, getting started is the hardest part.
Also try high-tech motivation like the FitStar Ap or a fitness band or pedometer like Fit Bit Flex.0 -
This is my first time posting so a little confused as to how it works so here goes. I also have a rough schedule and a 45 minute commute to work and I'm a single mom. My plan is to try and go for walks with my daughter on her bike. It's a slow start but it's something. I used to get up in the morning and do jillian michaels 30 day shred I remember how good I felt so my motivation is getting back that energy.0
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my brother developed the habit of walking during lunhtime while listening to books on tape. he did rhat every day for 30 years. he never joined a gym. he has a ski machine at home, but I don't know how often he goes on it. personally, I hate th thing, but whatever. ;-)
i say this only to suggest something that might fit into your schedule. regular walking is supposed to be very effective exersize. My brother has maintained a normal weight in this manner his whole life0 -
Just remember that losing weight is about being in a calorie deficit. Exercise is awesome for managing stress and making your body healthier - but not necessary to lose weight.
Don't try to change too much at one time. You sound busy. I would suggest that you do one thing per week for a while. Like this week, maybe concentrate on meeting your calorie deficit. Next week, add meeting your macros (protein, fat, carbs). Make a plan every Sunday night to commit to something each week. A healthy change.
Lastly, motivation is a fickle thing. I have been doing this for 2 years and some days it's there - some not. I have discovered that if I do things consistently - sometimes making myself get up and do - that these things become habit. Habits are there when your motivation is no where to be found.
Here's a good link with lots of good info. Good luck!
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1175494-a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants0 -
Just remember that losing weight is about being in a calorie deficit. Exercise is awesome for managing stress and making your body healthier - but not necessary to lose weight.
Don't try to change too much at one time. You sound busy. I would suggest that you do one thing per week for a while. Like this week, maybe concentrate on meeting your calorie deficit. Next week, add meeting your macros (protein, fat, carbs). Make a plan every Sunday night to commit to something each week. A healthy change.
Lastly, motivation is a fickle thing. I have been doing this for 2 years and some days it's there - some not. I have discovered that if I do things consistently - sometimes making myself get up and do - that these things become habit. Habits are there when your motivation is no where to be found.
Here's a good link with lots of good info. Good luck!
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1175494-a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants
Just quoting this fantastic advice for extra emphasis!0 -
I would totally be out walking and jogging before work if I lived closer. The walk during lunch is such a great idea and I've thought about it, but by lunch I'm starving and exhausted, I just want to sit and eat and cherish my 1 hour lunch. My job is a bit...physical, hence me being constantly tired.
But I guess focusing on one goal at a time is a good thing.0 -
I have my goals.
I see progression towards my goals
I find the gym to be peaceful for me.0 -
lets see , my fit bit is connected to my phone, and its on my screen and my lock screen so its there prodding me to be active, ...
MFP has pretty much supplanted FB for those "slow times" at work , and
Im VERY competitive, and this is the ONLY thing i want to "lose" at ...0 -
Honestly, you don't sound committed to it yet. And that's okay, but until you do, you'll find reasons/excuses/justifications for why you aren't doing what you need to be doing to meet your goals.
There are so many creative ways to sneak exercise in. Walking on lunch, going for a run in the evening, parking your car at the end of a lot and walking to the store, do squats or planks or whatever while you're watching TV. You'll be amazed at what you find time to do once you stop giving yourself an out.0 -
I look in the mirror......and if I really want to super-motivate myself I turn sideways and look in the mirror.0
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I totally agree...I jogg on the spot when I watch TV or walk back and forth in my house using my Nike+ and easily do 5KMs...I work full-time and a mum with a hubby, and I used to make so many excuses until I realised how stupid I sounded because I also moaned alot about why I was so unmotivated. All I needed, was to stop thinking and just do it, I have now lost 14 Kilos since that day (January). Hope you find your decision making moment too and best of luck.0
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Thanks everyone. I'll definitely keep everything said in mind!
I'm really ready to change and I really need to quit with the dumb excuses.0 -
Being a single mom and working 12 hour shifts I can totally empathize with where you are coming from. I am tired all the time! The thing that has worked for me was scheduling my workouts on my calendar at the beginning of the week. It is harder to make excuses when you have already penciled it in and know you have the time to do it. Also having small rewards (NOT food related) when I complete all my scheduled workouts makes it something to look forward to!0
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Motivation: I keep seeing the scale move down and the clothes fitting better.
I agree with the excellent advice of starting small and working up to it. Doing stuff like pushups every morning; even if it's only 2-3 at first. Eventually they will increase and you will want to do better.
Then you will start to find more time in your day and fit more exercise in during that time. Exercise that you enjoy.
Also, as stated, the calorie deficit is where you will lose weight the most; exercise is for personal fitness, energy, endurance, and aids in losing the weight.
Best of luck to you.0 -
I got motivated by being sick and tired of being sick and tired (and fat). I stay motivated by not wanting to ever go back to what I was.0
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what do you do for work?
you say you are exhausted by lunchtime, exhausted by 6pm... have you been to the doctor about it? being tired after a busy day is normal, but exhausted by lunchtime doesnt sound right? whats your diet like? are you getting all the nutrients you need?0 -
short answer: you will begin finding a way to make time for your goals if you have figured out strong enough reasons for doing so.
longer response...something I posted for my pals last week....
Each one of you has an amazing story within you...and it is told by the way you choose to live your life. The only difference between those who are pursuing their own amazing stories, and those who are stuck in neutral or reverse, is whether you have taken the time to think about the purpose for pursuing your amazing story. Take me. There is nothing I possess that any of you don't also possess. Just like many of you, I have some physical ailments I have to work around and I have to deal with the ups and downs of life. However, I am pursuing better health and a better me because I want to have more energy for my family, I want to be a better person, and I want to minimize the risks of getting one of life's nasty diseases (among other purposes that I'm aware of). If you know your purpose(s), and your purpose(s) are meaningful enough to you, then you will be able to pursue your amazing story just like I am. I know that you have the ability within you....you just have to choose to activate it. You activate it by figuring out why you want to do something different. (hard truth time)....I mean, if you're content sitting in front of the TV or video games for hours at a time, waiting for one of life's diseases to hit you, and tuning out your family....well, keep doing what you're doing because your life is already as amazing as you want it to be Stay Fierce my Friends!0 -
I work a lot like you do. I have to wake up at 4:30 am everyday to go to the gym, I am at work by 8am, I leave at 4pm, I get home around 5 and by that time I am pooped. My weekends usually consist of me sleeping in, going to the gym, and coming back home to sleep. You can do it, I promise you. Try hitting the gym for 3 nights every week for about 30 minutes to an hour!0
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My job is a bit...physical, hence me being constantly tired.
If that is the case then you are focusing on the wrong thing. You don't need to go jogging as you job already gives you plenty of activity. Just focus on your food, which you can totally control and isn't influenced by your commute. Just use MFP to track your food and focus on that for now. If you want more exercise then your job provides, then do a full body weight routine on one of your days off when you have time.
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I don't feel like getting up at 5am, out on the road by 5:15am for an Ashtanga yoga class starting at 6am. I can't say I'm motivated at 4:45am when I wake just before the alarm because I know its gonna go off any minute and I want two hours (at least) more sleep.
By 8am when my session is finished I am so glad I made the effort and I'm ready to face the day. In the evening sleep comes easy because I have started the day focused on myself.
I found that the workout comes first and motivation comes afterwards, which then leads to remembering next time that although you don't want to train right now, you will be glad you did by the end of your session.
Its hard to start but motivation snowballs once you put in that initial bit of effort.0 -
If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way to do it.
I commute 30 mins- 1 hr every day to work and some days work 7 am to 10 pm. I take my lunch break and work out then. On weekends, I also try to get a run in when I can.
We can all find excuses as to why we can't do something, but nothing nor anyone is going to be able to keep you motivated except yourself.
Start out small, bring your gym clothes to work and change into them before you leave. That way once you get home, you can get out of the car and go for a walk. Or maybe go for a walk during your lunch break!
It takes about 2 weeks to make or break a habit, so try everyday to make a step in the right direction and soon it won't seem like such a hardship.
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Motivation comes and goes for sure. We all have to find our own way and reach down and grab our selves by the bootstraps and get it done.
I've had 12 hour days with long commutes and somehow I made it to the gym or found time to create and cook healthy meals. Other times when my time was plentiful...I found myself wondering where the day went and I'll get there tomorrow attitude set in. Your choice.
If you are too exhausted, you may want to look at the types of food you are consuming. If it's heavy with processed food, empty liquid calories, then start there. Make drinking water a priority and cooking vegetable and nutrient dense foods.
Good luck!0 -
Sign up for a race. It'll give you a goal to strive for, and more focus on your workouts.0
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Hi! Throw in having a 1 year old and you've got my situation. bumping this topic to see whats said0
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I look in the mirror......and if I really want to super-motivate myself I turn sideways and look in the mirror.
Same here. With clothes on to feel good about my progress. With clothes off to tell myself I'm not done.0 -
This is my first time posting so a little confused as to how it works so here goes. I also have a rough schedule and a 45 minute commute to work and I'm a single mom. My plan is to try and go for walks with my daughter on her bike. It's a slow start but it's something. I used to get up in the morning and do jillian michaels 30 day shred I remember how good I felt so my motivation is getting back that energy.
I am in a similar boat....I am a single mom, working full time and luckily out of school for summer break until Aug 25th-- I have a very hard time finding motivation but I noticed that involving my daughter not only boosts my mood it ups my motivation. She is more than willing to go walking with me or participate in a fun run 5k. She is my motivation when I am feeling down.0 -
Sign up for a race. It'll give you a goal to strive for, and more focus on your workouts.
the captain said what workls for me
Once I am registered for a race, I seem to be able to work out schedules, diet, and the like! Vanity has never worked for me. Being around other people, playing sports (like softball or kickball) and being signed up for races works!
Heck I'm already registered for events next year
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Here's my tip: just promise yourself that you will log all your foods -- even if you "break the diet". Don't have a perfectionist all-or-nothing attitude to eating. I used to think like that, but that just sets you up for pigging out and then telling yourself, "Okay, tomorrow will be the day". Sometimes that just puts way too much pressure on yourself and then you eat like you're saying goodbye to all the foods you love, and the next day you're not ready to say goodbye to them either. When logging everything becomes a habit, that raises your awareness of what you eat, and you may start to slowly make better choices. Or turn down things you wouldn't have before because you just don't want to blow your calories. Some days I don't feel motivated and I tell myself: "Do it anyway." I always feel much better the next day. The longer you can keep going the more your motivation will build. You just have to take the first steps. Good luck.0
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I would totally be out walking and jogging before work if I lived closer. The walk during lunch is such a great idea and I've thought about it, but by lunch I'm starving and exhausted, I just want to sit and eat and cherish my 1 hour lunch. My job is a bit...physical, hence me being constantly tired.
But I guess focusing on one goal at a time is a good thing.
A one hour lunch is a blessing. That gives you plenty of time to fit in a healthy lunch to curb the hunger, rest for a few minutes, and still fit in a decent walk. With an audio book (which you can check out for free through most libraries), or some music, the walking time passes quickly and enjoyably.
ETA - you can also count the physical aspect of your job as exercise, and make sure you're operating at a calorie deficit, which will be key to weight loss.0
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