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    • Posts: 22,505 Member
      Would this be considered a cheat meal or a cheat day?

      I think that depends on the activity. And Viagra.
    • Posts: 3,779 Member
      Would this be considered a cheat meal or a cheat day?

      i was going to reply here with something inappropriate, then realized my avatar is of my child... so... i'm not going to do that.
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      I guess she is some famous singer in russia.

      http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_lze5uy8z95I/S-jMkyghg9I/AAAAAAAABHQ/skPm7X47NO4/s320/Masha+kirilenko.jpg

      I looked. The crime ain't worth the time.
    • Posts: 3,779 Member
      honestly, i would not want this for my relationship.

      but, as others have said, if it works for them - great. there are a variety of relationships with a variety of dynamics, and if people find one that they are content, loved and happy, then i am happy for them.

      for me, this would not make me happy.
    • Posts: 9,377 Member
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      I looked. The crime ain't worth the time.

      You have better at home, anyway.
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      A NBA player that likes to sleep around. What sort of fairy tale is this? That never happens.


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      IN for pics of The Magic Johnson
    • Posts: 118 Member
      At first I was huh sounds like that could possibly be a good idea-- but then I thought about the aftermath and the incessant question's I would ask and that sort of the thing and I realized.... NOPE wouldn't work.
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      You have better at home, anyway.

      Truth.
    • Posts: 1,676 Member
      I don't share things very well to start with, so I am going to go with a no.

      I know many people who have alternative lifestyles that work for them but for me... nope.
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      Right??

      "He doesn't love you and never has. Your relationship is a joke and you're everything wrong with society.

      Not that I judge..."

      I suppose it looks like a contradiction since you edited out that first bit about it being MY OPINION on what works for my marriage. I'm not judging anyone.

      But you seem to think it's acceptable to throw quotations around your interpretation as if I said it and then call it absurd. Please.
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      Oh Lawd.... I just googled them. If you ask me - she has nothing to worry about... him on the other hand... um yeah.... 'Bleep'... Ooopsy my mom said if you have nothing nice to say - say nothing....
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      I suppose it looks like a contradiction since you edited out that first bit about it being MY OPINION on what works for my marriage. I'm not judging anyone.

      But you seem to think it's acceptable to throw quotations around your interpretation as if I said it and then call it absurd. Please.

      judgement is opinion. http://i.word.com/idictionary/judge - I get what you mean, though. I'm just being catty.
    • Posts: 125
      I think that open relationships work as long as you are both honest about limits and expectations as well as secure in your relationship. I don't see sex and intimacy as the same thing... I think that one can have sex without being intimate and one can be intimate without sex. For me, an open SEXUAL relationship is actually fine as long as everyone is safe, clean, and clear about the circumstances. There is no such thing as open intimacy.
    • Posts: 4,317 Member
      Would this be considered a cheat meal or a cheat day?

      Those aren't the same thing? S**t, I have some explaining to do...
    • Posts: 14,121 Member
      My husband and I both like the idea of a more open relationship on paper, it's the actually putting it in to practice that becomes the issue. He'd have to figure out what to do with the body after I cut a b*** :happy: .

      Seriously though, more power to you if you can make it work. I'm far too petty and jealous and my husband is too, not going to happen.
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      Truth.

      :heart:
    • Posts: 10,740 Member
      it took me quite a while to find a man who meets my unique set of requirements. I'm sure as *kitten* not gonna share.

      This!
    • Posts: 2,850 Member
      My opinion: If you're seeking sexual/romantic gratification from someone OTHER than your wife/SO, then you're cheating. I don't care if it's "approved" by the spouse... If you truly cared for and loved your spouse, you wouldn't want to be with ANYONE else.
    • Posts: 1,285 Member
      Don't like sharing... a deal breaker for me. If you wanna be with someone else-- don't let the door hit ya on the *kitten* on the way out!
    • Posts: 12,344 Member
      Oh. Hail. No. :angry:
    • Posts: 1,002 Member
      Nope.
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      had an open marriage b4 and f'd us both up so no, not with thisun, hes all mine.
    • Posts: 91 Member
      Nope because if its good it will not be a one time thing.
    • Posts: 4,323 Member
      i dont have the self esteem required for a situation like that.

      i know it works in many relationships, but it's not for us.
    • Posts: 388 Member
      well considering I am in the lifestyle one free night a year means you need better friends
    • Posts: 1,323 Member
      if you feel you need to be with someone else, ever, then your marriage has serious problems and is probably already over.

      I don't judge others' relationships though

      :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

      no, not many alt lifstylers here fo sho. :smh: too bad...

      i would totally do it. *****************IF********************* my spouse and i were on exactly the same page. rarely does that ever happen with such an issue. most ppl can't even comfortably talk about such things, let alone agree on them.


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    • Posts: 307
      If he gets one night a year to do that my guess he's going to do it more than one night a year. Just sayin'
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