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    What really attracts you?

    Posts: 1,918 Member
    edited February 22 in Chit-Chat
    So the million dollar question. pick one.

    Good looks
    Sense of humor
    Money and power

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    • Posts: 2,732 Member
      Love love sense of humor
    • Posts: 2,180 Member
      Sense of humour.

      But I would be lying if looks don't play some part in it, there has to be a physical as well as a mental attraction.
    • Posts: 2,403 Member
      I bet if someone polled all of the threads asking about attractiveness, we'd finally have our elusive answer as to what is attractive.
    • Posts: 21,378 Member
      If you can put a smile on my face...and keep it there.
      Caring...Don't just tell me, show me.
      Giving spirit...Not just money, but your time to the people around you.
    • Posts: 1,242 Member
      Sense of humour :)
    • Posts: 9,151 Member
      1. sense of humor
      2. money
    • Posts: 1,742 Member
      eyes i love mens eyes, a genuine smile and a sense of humour
    • Posts: 56
      Geddy Lee
    • Posts: 103 Member
      sense of humor
      intelligence
      looks are there for sure but unless you're just offensive looking, it's just a bonus
    • Posts: 4,535 Member
      Sense of humor. That's what I married my dude for - he makes me laugh every single day. That's priceless. Abs, buns, looks - they all fade.

      Also, his ability to not just accept me for who I am (I'm a bit of a nutter - an awkward, silly, geeky girl that randomly bursts out into song and dance in the middle of the grocery store, cries when she sees roadkill and laughs at the most inappropriate times), but to love me for it. He's never tried to change me and he's never been embarrassed of me.
    • Posts: 1,619 Member
      Personality
    • Posts: 591 Member
      intellectual, kind & caring, sense of humor.
    • Posts: 60 Member
      Well, what first attracted me to my hubby was 2 things

      How good looking he was, and how he was always so nice and polite on the way into the gym, and I always saw him holding the door for other people.

      Then I got to know him, and realized he had a great sense of humour, was smart and caring. He wasn't into partying or any of that crap either and had a similar outlook on life.
    • Posts: 1,737 Member
      Confidence... a well developed emotional vocabulary.. I hate.. when someone has 1000 definitions of a word... when it depends, on tone, inflection pretext, context... words like.. "hate"... *kitten*"... "love" ... ya gotta be a smart cookie.. so .. I am definitely Sapiophilic :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 689 Member
      I find myself to be kind of like Aziz Ansari...but a little better looking :)

      So, what attracts me is a girl that's into nerdy brown guys that make them laugh.
      THEY'RE A RARE BREED.

      It's not my fault the media stereotypes us with funny smells and noises. I do a mean Chewbacca growl though.
    • Posts: 82 Member
      Sense of humour is critical but so is a reasonable level of intelligence. I couldn't be with someone who I couldn't have a decent mentally stimulating conversation with
    • Posts: 9,981 Member
      Looks are important but nothing beats intellect. :)
    • Posts: 1,974 Member
      A sharp mind.
    • Posts: 34 Member
      deffo a sense of humor...I can forgive a lot of physical shortcomings if someone has a good heart and is fun to be with...oh and must be smart and have a certain level of self esteem....
    • Posts: 63
      A good looking, powerful guy with a killer sense of humour who has enough for bus fare is the bomb!!!
    • Posts: 34 Member
      lol you think geddy lee is attractive? RIGHT ON!
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