Haters - You Don't Have Them

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I have seen a lot of people mentioning haters in threads.

"You are all a bunch of haters! or "Ignore the haters!"

But I'm not seeing much hate. Most of the time, it seems to me me, these declarers of hate are doing something clearly wrong or dangerous, or just being a complete jerk, and when someone points that out, defensiveness sets in and cries of hater erupt.

Here's the truth. People generally don't know or care enough about you to hate you. They are just reacting to your poor behavior.

Calling them haters is a sign of incredible immaturity and a lack of self awareness.

If you think you've got haters, you've most likely gone horribly wrong somewhere in life. Take a step back and rethink what you're doing.
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  • _Zardoz_
    _Zardoz_ Posts: 3,987 Member
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    This wont end well
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
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  • stv1520
    stv1520 Posts: 199 Member
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    I hate haters who hate haters!
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 17,959 Member
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  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
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  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,741 Member
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    I feel like you don't have a good grasp of what "haters" means in the current colloquialism.

    It's not that serious.
  • LaurenAOK
    LaurenAOK Posts: 2,475 Member
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  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
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    .........Here's the truth. People generally don't know or care enough about you to hate you. They are just reacting to your poor behavior.......

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  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
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    I am so sick of this stupid word.
  • gypsy_spirit
    gypsy_spirit Posts: 2,107 Member
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    Oh, Sad Grandpa.....

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  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
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    So accurate. I have never seen such a large group of adults who are convinced people really care enough about them to "hate"
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
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    please don't hate me but where does this come from?
    :ohwell:
  • Sad_Grandpa
    Sad_Grandpa Posts: 129
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    See, it's a world of love.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,268 Member
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    haha...I actually think there are some people here who actually do hate other people...here.

    But I agree...I don't have enough energy to hate it's just easier to smile and pretend they don't exist.
  • cwoyto123
    cwoyto123 Posts: 308
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    Yeah, I occasionally make rude comments but I'm right, so it's okay.
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
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    Yeah, I occasionally make rude comments but I'm right, so it's okay.

    So does Dr. House. :drinker:
  • Poods71
    Poods71 Posts: 502 Member
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    Well said. But was I the only one reading that in the voice of the character from UP :laugh:
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
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    Most of the time, it seems to me me

    Who is "me me"? Your pet Chihuahua or summat?

    Please do not allow your dog to post on the internet.

    Thank you.
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
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    I have seen a lot of people mentioning haters in threads.

    "You are all a bunch of haters! or "Ignore the haters!"

    But I'm not seeing much hate. Most of the time, it seems to me me, these declarers of hate are doing something clearly wrong or dangerous, or just being a complete jerk, and when someone points that out, defensiveness sets in and cries of hater erupt.

    Here's the truth. People generally don't know or care enough about you to hate you. They are just reacting to your poor behavior.

    Calling them haters is a sign of incredible immaturity and a lack of self awareness.

    If you think you've got haters, you've most likely gone horribly wrong somewhere in life. Take a step back and rethink what you're doing.

    But people care enough to hate an idea and write wall of text against it. :)